YRKKH BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread #115 - Page 44

Originally posted by: KyaBakwaashi

Yaar I’m not assuming anything.. just generalizing ppl’s opinion .. I’m not supporting Abhira or Armaan or both..actually they should mind their own business than involving in this is my personal opinion!! They themselves made many mistakes in relationship and shouldn’t be advising others what to do, they should deal with their own lives!

Think of it as a real life situation …if a woman gets to know her brother, who is married to one of her nanads, is having an affair with another nanad …how will she react ?

Baat bahut simple hai. Just like how the likes of KP, VV and Chuhi had no right to interfere in AbhiMaan's marriage, Abhira should also not force the divorce decision on Kiara. That should only be Kiara's decision. Because at the end of the day, she'll be the only one facing the consequences of this mess, while the cheaters would be rewarded with everything they hoped for. Kiara would have to bear the divorcee tag while AbhiRu will just jump into the bed as if they did not destroy a 20 yr old's life. So all the decisions should come from Kiara alone. AbhiMaan should just let the girl decide and be her support instead of pushing her to do anything she does not want to.

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

I'm not siding with Abhira, all I said was she consistent in her opinion of tilak. Well you explain Ar reasoning for supporting Kiara cause is her decision. I was surprised Ab suggested Ar should be concern about Charu too, and I liked his reply. I would rather Kiara be petty like Arshi on Jhanak, and don't give divorce and hold it over Abhir head and make him suffer, but hoping for him to love you, I don't agree, like you said is her choice alone and no one else. I get Abhira solution is divorce but I don't know why she doesn't understand you can't make someone do something cause you suggest it. Beside what her talk with Kiara, when Abhira find out before family I don't know what Kiara shared with her, but the girl got fever begging Abhira not to tell family and felt like a failure and blaming herself.

Abhir & Charu are coward and shameless scums, I don't expect anything from them

Originally posted by: Naysayer

well ideally they should stay out of it but then this is a joint family …but given that Abhira’s brother is the biggest culprit in this whole affair, she should have taken a strong stance against him and slammed him in front of the family …by pushing for divorce, which is exactly what Abhir wants, and showing concern for Charu, who is happily carrying on with her sister’s husband, Abhira is only shooting herself in the foot …at least Armaan tried to speak to Kiara, who is the biggest victim of the three, to understand how she wanted to deal with the situation …Abhira is just telling her what to do …and that is the problem ..!

Think of it as a real life situation …if a woman gets to know her brother, who is married to one of her nanads, is having an affair with another nanad …how will she react ?

In real life joint family, elders usually involve to make decision by talking to all the 3!!

Here Ab and Ar are behaving like parents to them.. they shouldn’t tell them what to do!! Their parents are useless! Good that Ar spoke with kiara, but how long will she wait for him? True love is wait worthing life long?

Originally posted by: KyaBakwaashi

In real life joint family, elders usually involve to make decision by talking to all the 3!!

Here Ab and Ar are behaving like parents to them.. they shouldn’t tell them what to do!! Their parents are useless! Good that Ar spoke with kiara, but how long will she wait for him? True love is wait worthing life long?

And Abhir and Charu do not deserve her consideration …they are cheating lowlifes who deserve to rot !

Abhira has never suggested that Abhiru should get away. Nowhere in any conversation has she suggested that Abhiru not be punished. Cutting ties off with goenkas if Abhir divorces kiara & expecting Abhira to also comply is punishment for her. Not for abhiru. If they wanna punish Abhiru, those 2 should be thrown out, blacklisted from working, cut off financially, etc.

Originally posted by: Naysayer

@bold shouldn’t that be Kiara’s decision …she may want to wait a week. a month or maybe even a year …or she might give up in a day …but let her be the one to decide

And Abhir and Charu do not deserve her consideration …they are cheating lowlifes who deserve to rot !

Yesss it’s absolutely her decision, but Abhir doesn’t deserve her! Will Kiara still feel the same for Abhir if charu is pregnant? How can she trust that person? She shouldn’t ruin her life with that idiot insaan.. she will definitely find a good loving partner!!

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

See IMO Armaan talking about cutting of ties with Abhir is kind of a punishment to Abhir, so that he realises his actions have consequences. Right now not one of A bura wrong actions have had any consequences for him. So maybe Armaan feels that by doing this, Abhir understands that he cannot do what he wants without thinking of the effect that action will have on his family & his sister's family as well.

I am not saying Armaan is right saying what he did, but I can understand where his thinking comes from in this particular aspect. But what annoyed me the most is that he made this promise to Vidya of all people rather than Manisha or Kajal who are more involved in this situation.

If just Abhir, I can understand cutting ties, cause that guy has been acting entitle and trampling all over different relationship since his entry. He got married on his own accord and running away from commitment and responsibilities of being married like you change mind of what you want for dinner. Ar sounded he's talking about the whole Goenka's not just Abhir.

I agree that vaada to that vile aurat instead of Kiara mother, is just disappointing

Is Raj bewafa supporting Abhiru?

Originally posted by: KyaBakwaashi

Yesss it’s absolutely her decision, but Abhir doesn’t deserve her! Will Kiara still feel the same for Abhir if charu is pregnant? How can she trust that person? She shouldn’t ruin her life with that idiot insaan.. she will definitely find a good loving partner!!

Kiara Kya deserve karti hai kya nahi that is secondary but abhir definitely aasani se mooh manga divorce deserve nahi karta hai. Na he abhira ke kehne par woh kiara se palla jhad sakta hai. Galti toh karo hai toh ab bhugto tab tak jab tak kiara apni marzi se divorce nahi deti hai.

Nanadji itne aasani se kiara bhabhi se palla jhad kar apni dusri nanad ke sath bhai ka duja byah rachane ke liye kiara bhabhi ko divorce ke liye insist nahi kar sakti.