Relationships have boundaries

Yes what Swarna told Ab is the truth. Every relationship has its boundaries and if you cross that boundary they end up in mess. But ab won't understand it as she is never receptive of knowledge. Her mama had taught her everything.

First and the foremost why ab allowed ar to partner ru, take care of ru. Ab has always been emotional fool for me when it comes to ar, but the intentions of ar doesn't seem good.

Ru has to be ab's responsibility. He can handle clients and meetings, and should not be around ru. Ab and ar not observing this rule are playing with ru's already frayed nerves, mood swings accompanied by cravings and loneliness.

Why ab wanted this babymoon if she was so concerned abt baby. She is not carrying baby, ru is. She will have cravings and everyone knows outside food need not be good for preggy woman. She craves for coffee and other food creates nausea for her. These are common pregnancy things.

I didn't feel anything for ab when ru burst out. Abhimaan have kept her in a cage with instructions not at all understanding the emotional upheaval she is undergoing.

Ar should be strictly kept away from taking care of ru in any condition. Ab or any other family member can take care of her. Otherwise as K predicted the consequences are not going to be good.

And in S4 marriage anyway has been a joke. From ru marrying ro to see ar, ab making a deal out of the marriage done by ak to Kiara trying to make Abhir jealous who is sleeping with Charu, and Charu going ard sleeping with Abhir who is married to Kiara and ar and abhir both oscillating between women and Ro running away, the relationships of s4 were open with no boundaries.

I really like your posts. I don't know about the others but for me you do write from a neutral POV.

Coming to the only part which interests me in this show. Abhir-Charu-Kiara, yes I totally agree Abhir is one of the most disgusting men in ITV who has absolutely no knowledge about relations.

He is just oscillating between the two sisters

Very nice post. I wrote the same thing that why Armaan is getting involved in taking care of Roohi. It should be Abhira. Vidya took care of Roohi during her first pregnancy she can do it again. It should have been a family picnic not a couple with a surrogate babymoon. In today's episode abhira planned a dinner date and assumed Roohi will have dinner in her room. Why? What is the purpose of this babymoon and relaxation if Abhira is constantly working?

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

I really like your posts. I don't know about the others but for me you do write from a neutral POV.

Coming to the only part which interests me in this show. Abhir-Charu-Kiara, yes I totally agree Abhir is one of the most disgusting men in ITV who has absolutely no knowledge about relations.

He is just oscillating between the two sisters

See I am not liking ar sending ab on tasks, or ab planning romance when a widowed ru is around, reminding her every sec about the responsibility on her shoulders.

I really felt bad for ru when she was throwing up, ar holding her hair, ab coming and feeling bad. Ab was warned by K not to do this nonsense. She had to do it with a pregnant lady who is grieving her hubby and who need love, care and support in her family and not a woman dictating her what to do, what not to do, and when she is sick playing victim

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

u have to know that I was among some people who kind of predicted Abhir's entry as a villian or someone who looks villian. Because Abhir's past and his real connection to P family is not yet opened. And it won't be that easily because there is a criminal in that family who is responsible for the destruction of Abhir's family and he needs to be villian to expose the real villian. S4 story is not romance, it's war, a Kurushetra which was fought in the past where dharma lost and adharma won. A war that was fought by his parents in which they lost everything and he is there to complete it.

I have absolutely no issues if Abhir is shown with ulterior motives or negative later. I am in for anything which shows creativity.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

See I am not liking ar sending ab on tasks, or ab planning romance when a widowed ru is around, reminding her every sec about the responsibility on her shoulders.

I really felt bad for ru when she was throwing up, ar holding her hair, ab coming and feeling bad. Ab was warned by K not to do this nonsense. She had to do it with a pregnant lady who is grieving her hubby and who need love, care and support in her family and not a woman dictating her what to do, what not to do, and when she is sick playing victim

Abhira never listened anyone if we look, she should have listened to Kaveri as she was correct. Both armaan and abhira are messing with emotions of ruhi very badly. This babymoon is totally unnecessary she should not have planned for it if not for Rohit's death atleast due to the death of shivani whom she called mummy...

I agree arman must stay away from ruhi & focus on his work , at the same time ,I'm sorry but why does abhira have to baby sit ruhi ? Ruhi is not sick , she is pregnant and abhira is clearly overdoing it n she must stay away from ruhi for her betterment ..

Yes ruhi must be happy , calm and comfortable but she just lost her husband plus she's pregnant with somebody else's baby ...plus abhira is trying to control her every action which is damn annoying ..ruhi reprimanded vidya also when she tried to do this , when she was pregnant with daksh ..at this time she needs comfortable space and good food which can be provided at home , not on babymoon..

Imo if abhira wants to do something for ruhi , she should care for daksh ..a baby is demanding and a pregnant mother finds it difficult to Care for the baby , although it's not as difficult but still , they're advised not to carry weight and daksh is almost 1...n this should be for a short period of time bec spending time with daksh would distract ruhi n help her through the sadness...

Here is the list of blunders abhira already did , she was made a partner at firm now she has to switch between clients , ruhi and babymoon. Abs foolish ..she brings ruhi to babymoon so that she feels better but ruhi should eat in the room , did abhira inform her or ask her before doing arrangements for candle light date ? She is doing pda in front of a widowed woman ...

What's with thus jeera sauf pani ? Yes it's good for digestion but a young woman's digestion is normally good n all these things are advised "post delivery bec post delivery , body takes time to get to normal " ..these things should also be taken in moderation bec their "taseer" is hot ..it dehydrates the body further ..too much sauf causes constipation.

Baby takes all the nutrition from the mothers body whether she eats well or not ..force feeding isn't good to anyone, pregnant or otherwise ...

Given how abhira is , she must stay away from all pregnant ladies ..

Originally posted by: Krinya

I agree arman must stay away from ruhi & focus on his work , at the same time ,I'm sorry but why does abhira have to baby sit ruhi ? Ruhi is not sick , she is pregnant and abhira is clearly overdoing it n she must stay away from ruhi for her betterment ..

Yes ruhi must be happy , calm and comfortable but she just lost her husband plus she's pregnant with somebody else's baby ...plus abhira is trying to control her every action which is damn annoying ..ruhi reprimanded vidya also when she tried to do this , when she was pregnant with daksh ..at this time she needs comfortable space and good food which can be provided at home , not on babymoon..

Imo if abhira wants to do something for ruhi , she should care for daksh ..a baby is demanding and a pregnant mother finds it difficult to Care for the baby , although it's not as difficult but still , they're advised not to carry weight and daksh is almost 1...n this should be for a short period of time bec spending time with daksh would distract ruhi n help her through the sadness...

Here is the list of blunders abhira already did , she was made a partner at firm now she has to switch between clients , ruhi and babymoon. Abs foolish ..she brings ruhi to babymoon so that she feels better but ruhi should eat in the room , did abhira inform her or ask her before doing arrangements for candle light date ? She is doing pda in front of a widowed woman ...

What's with thus jeera sauf pani ? Yes it's good for digestion but a young woman's digestion is normally good n all these things are advised "post delivery bec post delivery , body takes time to get to normal " ..these things should also be taken in moderation bec their "taseer" is hot ..it dehydrates the body further ..too much sauf causes constipation.

Baby takes all the nutrition from the mothers body whether she eats well or not ..force feeding isn't good to anyone, pregnant or otherwise ...

Given how abhira is , she must stay away from all pregnant ladies ..

And homemade food is best at these times and both P family and G family will cater to what ru wants to eat. Atleast all of them have accepted surrogacy. Ab knows nothing, doesn't take knowledge from anyone and wants to take centre stage always.

Originally posted by: Krinya

I agree arman must stay away from ruhi & focus on his work , at the same time ,I'm sorry but why does abhira have to baby sit ruhi ? Ruhi is not sick , she is pregnant and abhira is clearly overdoing it n she must stay away from ruhi for her betterment ..

Yes ruhi must be happy , calm and comfortable but she just lost her husband plus she's pregnant with somebody else's baby ...plus abhira is trying to control her every action which is damn annoying ..ruhi reprimanded vidya also when she tried to do this , when she was pregnant with daksh ..at this time she needs comfortable space and good food which can be provided at home , not on babymoon..

Imo if abhira wants to do something for ruhi , she should care for daksh ..a baby is demanding and a pregnant mother finds it difficult to Care for the baby , although it's not as difficult but still , they're advised not to carry weight and daksh is almost 1...n this should be for a short period of time bec spending time with daksh would distract ruhi n help her through the sadness...

Here is the list of blunders abhira already did , she was made a partner at firm now she has to switch between clients , ruhi and babymoon. Abs foolish ..she brings ruhi to babymoon so that she feels better but ruhi should eat in the room , did abhira inform her or ask her before doing arrangements for candle light date ? She is doing pda in front of a widowed woman ...

What's with thus jeera sauf pani ? Yes it's good for digestion but a young woman's digestion is normally good n all these things are advised "post delivery bec post delivery , body takes time to get to normal " ..these things should also be taken in moderation bec their "taseer" is hot ..it dehydrates the body further ..too much sauf causes constipation.

Baby takes all the nutrition from the mothers body whether she eats well or not ..force feeding isn't good to anyone, pregnant or otherwise ...

Given how abhira is , she must stay away from all pregnant ladies ..

So true she is overdoing it

First thing stay away from her diet and pushing her to do what u want

Let her have the small decaf then she will not over indulge

For mahadev sake don't do gulu gulu yaar in front of her ..have some shame she is newly widowed..do what u want beyond close doors

If u wanted honeymoon..u could have left ru with gorillas and gone ..her taking her bahana u went out ro do gulu gulu

That candle light one is so insensitive..why bring her along at alll