Qarz E Jaan (HUM) #4 - Usama, Nameer, Yumna | DT.N. Pg 136 - Page 144

Originally posted by: pilot100

Nashwa will be shown winning the case, and she will become a successful lawyer more than Even Burhan. That is her happy ending and that is good enough for her. She any way doesn't love Burhan.

I want Burhan to marry Beenish because definitely Hadi doesn't deserve a fatherless life and Beenish is a gem of a soul. By adopting Hadi, all 3 lives will be complete. Nobody can be a better fatger for Hadi, than Burhan. Also Beenish and Burhan both are 2 broken souls, so they will heal each other eventually. Nashwa doesn't deserve Burhan, because she doesn't even respect him. If she had little respect, she would have confided with him.So I don't want Nashwa and Burhan . Period

To each his own, I disagree with this view. If beenish doesn't deserve this life, nashwa too doesn't deserve to be in a unhappy relationship. Burhan doesn't need to marry beenish for the sake of her child . Just like how Nashwa is strong n independent, beenish is strong n independent too .She can take care of her son.She always had support from her family, n moving forward m sure nashwa, burhan n beejan's family will be in her support even if her own family doesn't stand with her .If beenish wants burhan in her life , n if burhan himself wants to be beenish's husband then it's a different matter altogether. If not, if he still wants Nashwa in his life he deserves nashwa in life n same goes to nashwa. No matter, how stupid her decisions were she too deserves to have a partner who loves her, understands her n will be her strength.So, yes, I n many want her to get her happiness n a loving n caring partner at the end. Nashwa and Burhan deserve each other n a happy ending.

Originally posted by: Sunshine75

yes some of these burhaan nashwa shippers are her fans but some were sort of neutrals. When she got married to Amaar and said those two dialogues, they lost their sh$t. Even though that shaadi was in the teasers. they gave a perfect opportunity to haters to drag the show, who were ready to jump on the hate train. There were 4-5 woke queens ( read other actors Stan’s ) who were nitpicking on QEJ from the beginning,. But I think it’s coming close to climaxe so it’s alright. Hopefully it’ll end on a high note.

Sometimes I feel these yumna solos n another actor's solos (iykyk)are their worst enemies. They do lot of embarassing stuffs online ,only to get trolled n lectures by other fds( though they are more problematic than these two fds) .

We all know how certain section were all ready n waiting for an opportunity to bring down QEJ as it was garnering lots of praises n good ratings.Makers should have handled the sensitive issue like ra*e better. I m sure they will give justice to maheen at the end, but this delay led to lots of chaos ,they could have easily avoided it if they weren't planning to explore much in that aspect.

I wanted to add one more thing.

Winning one case against a powerful lawyer , won't automatically make the junior lawyer more powerful. The other senior lawyer is senior because of a reason , n he became powerful because of his vast experience in that field and that would still matter even if he or she loses one case. Nashwa winning her first case against burhan would definitely make her popular,but stronger lawyer than burhan? Nah, she will have to take up and practice more to reach that stage.

This is relevant to any field. The in hand experience and years of service matters alot in every field.

A junior doctor won't be the most sought after just because he performed his first surgery successfully, people will still prefer the experienced surgeon who might have had few failures in between. The junior doctor will have to handle 100s of such cases to get that credibility.Same is applicable here too.

I feel not every feeling or love (especially one sided) or even proper love development has or needs an union. It is always perfect when that happens. I always like that but that doesn't always happen in reality. Asim and Bisma's life long love brought peace to my heart. That is the definition of love whether you're together or not. And that kind of love remains in our heart forever even with all our faults and theirs or our narazgis. Hum Kabhi bhul ya feeling ko stop nahi Kar sakte hai. It is with us till we're here. Is dunya me pa liya to Kiya hi pa liya. Also, sometimes they show things which might not have a future due to character development. Characters change hote hai, apni initial feelings se mukar jate hai ya daba k rakhte hai. Ya unki feelings finish ho jati hai for the dusra Banda. Ya kabhi khatam hi nahi hoti. Ya phir woh keh de k it was momentary...kuch bhi ho sakta hai. And unfortunately, it's so hard and unfair but we have to wait for the end and also have to deal with it not being what we wanted or how it would have been perfect.

Regardless, we need to respect Nashwa's decision. And not wish her bad for rejecting a man even if he is good. She doesn't owe people love. But her life would be good with someone like Burhan who she deserves. Every girl deserves a Burhan. But life is not about a man. I respect Nashwa's decision anyways.

QeJ is unique in that way that lots of things are shown as character change or development be it them becoming more positive or negative or grey or neutral. It is about the journey mainly and also about a destination that is not perfect or what the characters exactly had in mind but the one they fought for and are at peace with (hopefully). There will be of course consequences.

People really need to understand the story from the writer's perspective and stop interjecting their own ideology into everything. Yes, there is clear right and wrong. And yes, there were problematic dialogues but not every thing needs to be torn apart the way it is just because things and people are flawed just like in reality and it's not how you an audience feel.

Please write your own story then and make it perfect. You can't please everyone.

Originally posted by: Sunshine75

seriously, this drama is different…I mean different. 😭

I was being sarcastic about burhaan marrying benish because pilot is really fond of burhaan , she always wanted the best for him

You know how nashwa had a such an easy life, lived independently, could get anything she wanted 🙄 she was rude to burhaan , she never reciprocated his feelings, burhaan deserves better.

Yes I love Burhan.

I never complained about Nashwa not reciprocating Burhan love. I also agree that Burhan is an excellent human being, but that doesn't mean Nashwa has to fall in love with him. But what I am annoyed with Nashwa is her decision to marry Ammar and having no regrets about it. Also I find her extremely rude to Burhan. Even before getting married to Ammar, she was always shown to be rude towards him. Infact she never shows any attitude to Ammar, but with Burhan she always shows attitude. Yest also on the road, she is scolding him,as if he told her to wait on the road helplessly. She doesn't have an iota of respect towards him. That really annoys me😡. And what did she say to her mother, that he had a rosy life. Dude, even he has lost his parents and seen them getting killed. Does any child deserve that. She is kind of jealous of him. So yeah I don't want them to get Married because she doesn't deserve him.

I mainly want Beenish and Burhan to get married is because of Hadi mainly. Also both Burhan and Beenish are broken souls. They both will heal each other. Also I feel Beenish will be a very good wife unlike Nashwa. Nashwa is very immature. Even if Burhan and Nashwa getting Married, I see their marriage breaking, Because Nashwa loves to pick up fights with him. Even due to professional rivalry, they could have fights.

Originally posted by: nightingale1234

To each his own, I disagree with this view. If beenish doesn't deserve this life, nashwa too doesn't deserve to be in a unhappy relationship. Burhan doesn't need to marry beenish for the sake of her child . Just like how Nashwa is strong n independent, beenish is strong n independent too .She can take care of her son.She always had support from her family, n moving forward m sure nashwa, burhan n beejan's family will be in her support even if her own family doesn't stand with her .If beenish wants burhan in her life , n if burhan himself wants to be beenish's husband then it's a different matter altogether. If not, if he still wants Nashwa in his life he deserves nashwa in life n same goes to nashwa. No matter, how stupid her decisions were she too deserves to have a partner who loves her, understands her n will be her strength.So, yes, I n many want her to get her happiness n a loving n caring partner at the end. Nashwa and Burhan deserve each other n a happy ending.

But for Nashwa, getting Married was never her priority. She loves only 2 things, her mother and her law. Which she will get by the end of this show.

So she is getting an happy ending. Why does she have to get married to Burhan when she doesn't like? Girls can be independent too. Marriage is not a compulsion.

I never complained about Nashwa not reciprocating Burhan love. I also agree that Burhan is an excellent human being,...

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Originally posted by: pilot100

Yes I love Burhan.

I never complained about Nashwa not reciprocating Burhan love. I also agree that Burhan is an excellent human being, but that doesn't mean Nashwa has to fall in love with him. But what I am annoyed with Nashwa is her decision to marry Ammar and having no regrets about it. Also I find her extremely rude to Burhan. Even before getting married to Ammar, she was always shown to be rude towards him. Infact she never shows any attitude to Ammar, but with Burhan she always shows attitude. Yest also on the road, she is scolding him,as if he told her to wait on the road helplessly. She doesn't have an iota of respect towards him. That really annoys me😡. And what did she say to her mother, that he had a rosy life. Dude, even he has lost his parents and seen them getting killed. Does any child deserve that. She is kind of jealous of him. So yeah I don't want them to get Married because she doesn't deserve him.

I mainly want Beenish and Burhan to get married is because of Hadi mainly. Also both Burhan and Beenish are broken souls. They both will heal each other. Also I feel Beenish will be a very good wife unlike Nashwa. Nashwa is very immature. Even if Burhan and Nashwa getting Married, I see their marriage breaking, Because Nashwa loves to pick up fights with him. Even due to professional rivalry, they could have fights.

@bold: You know when you first stated this months ago I thought tum awi keh rahi thi. Like being annoyed or something. She really is so comfortable with Ammar and it is not part of some planning or facade. Aesa to kuch nahi dikhaya. People said Nashwa and Asad were planning but we didn't see it. Did I miss it? Was it Asad texting her?

Their childhood nok jhok and that bond never went away. I guess no matter how many Burhan's sometimes you cannot quit habits or whatever that familiarity or situation is...human psychology. It's scary. It is like a comfort like you get used to it. Though it always hurts. Like how Bisma was behaving. Severe psychological trauma. And she has her complexes and shades. That's fine.

It is hard for Nashwa to quit a toxic dynamic and it feels home because it is. I hope no one shames her. She was on her way to healing. She even realized what she deserves - someone like Burhan or Burhan - after her accident. It is not her fault criminals blackmailed her with death.

Also, the writer has something up her sleeves to explain this. I just know it. But man the whole thing wasn't handled well. And kept in dark for too long.