YRKKH BTS, SM updates & Spoiler Thread #108 - Page 142

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

That is exactly what I said. They normally are trying to hold and walk or even walk without support & showing him swaddled just looks ridiculous.

Also agree that Ruhi needs to go batshit crazy watching Abhira bond with Daksh, so her current sweet avatar is definately a short one

Originally posted by: mysticxmyth

Abhira's didi and maa prem is eternal, there is no universe in existence where she will ever fully turn against the two. Haan here and there sassy dialogues maar sakti hai but that is all.

See this has been my issue with FL's in general. It makes absolutely no sense when even with proof, the FL is just unable to detach herself from people who have treated her like crap continuously with no fault of hers. I get that Armaan is no doodh ka dhula, but that man atleast honestly tries to make amends for his mistakes in some form or the other. What amends has Vidya or Ruhi made after how they have treated Abhira? Have they till date apologized, or actively acknowledged where they mistreated her. Unke FB's main woh sochenge about it, but neither Vidya nor Ruhi will ever tell Abhira that their behaviour was unpardonable and they will understand if she doesn't want them to be in her lives

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

See this has been my issue with FL's in general. It makes absolutely no sense when even with proof, the FL is just unable to detach herself from people who have treated her like crap continuously with no fault of hers. I get that Armaan is no doodh ka dhula, but that man atleast honestly tries to make amends for his mistakes in some form or the other. What amends has Vidya or Ruhi made after how they have treated Abhira? Have they till date apologized, or actively acknowledged where they mistreated her. Unke FB's main woh sochenge about it, but neither Vidya nor Ruhi will ever tell Abhira that their behaviour was unpardonable and they will understand if she doesn't want them to be in her lives

Totally agree! Infact they behaved like victims! Any insults to FL happens in public !!

Originally posted by: Rainbow_Girl

Exactly, itv hain toh, Anderi raat mein mandir ke steps se new born baby mil sakta hain, Or they can save the life of an infant from goons. Heard her mother lost one of her babies while trying to save orphan kids, toh poetic justice bhi hota ke abhira who had no hopes of having baby saved the life & adopted one.

Then baby ke parents aake armaan abhira ko rula sakte hain, dadi "apna khoon" bolke abhira armaan ko taunt kar sakti hain. Phuphasa bhi issues create kar sakte hain, they can even show both armaan & abhira trying to get the legal custody of the child and also that dil ka rishta is bada than khoon ka rista. They have jeeta jagta example of rk - shivani'd bond as maa beta without khoon ka rishta, then why can't a young couple adopt??

Surrogacy ke bina bhi acche tracks aa sakte the. Yeh "apna khoon" se itna obsession kyun??

See I get why a couple would try all possible means to try for their own biological child, before moving to adoption. Adoption while seeming like the best way to have kids, has a lot of issues associated with it, especially with the Indian setup. That's why even TV shows either make the adopted child a villian or so bechara that everyone tortures that child. There is no middle ground as adoption even today is not something that is a default setting for many couples. Also here Abhira wants to have kids of her own in a way to prove the world that she can have kids. It's like when you are told you cannot have something and somehow it's something you want most. So while the thinking makes sense, the overall execution has been done very poorly.

Also even in this show, wherever they have shown adoption, it's with couple who already have kids. Even Naira & Karthik or Akshara & Abhimanyu opted to go for treatments rather than think of adoption first.

Originally posted by: mysticxmyth

BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS ARE THE BEST, YAYYY WILL READ AND COME BACK ON THIS!!!!

Aww thanks. Yeah I skimmed through this book and some of the dialogues padhkar laga I was watching Armaan & Abhira in an alternate universe where if they had met without the family baggage, how their life could have been

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

bonding won’t trigger her to the point where she refuses to give the child ..something else must happen …kuch bada hona hai ..where is the drama or else ?

Hence me holding on to the theory of Daksh being shown as BSP which will make her lose her baby all over again & want to keep the surrogate kid instead

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

See I get why a couple would try all possible means to try for their own biological child, before moving to adoption. Adoption while seeming like the best way to have kids, has a lot of issues associated with it, especially with the Indian setup. That's why even TV shows either make the adopted child a villian or so bechara that everyone tortures that child. There is no middle ground as adoption even today is not something that is a default setting for many couples. Also here Abhira wants to have kids of her own in a way to prove the world that she can have kids. It's like when you are told you cannot have something and somehow it's something you want most. So while the thinking makes sense, the overall execution has been done very poorly.

Also even in this show, wherever they have shown adoption, it's with couple who already have kids. Even Naira & Karthik or Akshara & Abhimanyu opted to go for treatments rather than think of adoption first.

I use the word insanity here because no sane woman would set out to marry a man on the day of his wedding …while already being married herself ..,and no sane woman would enter her husband’s home with the sole intention of making her brother-in-law her own…or if we dial back even further, no sane woman would want to marry her ex’s brother so she can stay close to her ex 🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Hence me holding on to the theory of Daksh being shown as BSP which will make her lose her baby all over again & want to keep the surrogate kid instead

Tarak Mehta me aisa kya chal raha hai ki vo 2nd position pe hai is week

Who is watching tarak mehta ?

Originally posted by: Prapti9

Tarak Mehta me aisa kya chal raha hai ki vo 2nd position pe hai is week

Sonu-Tapu's (not) marriage for the 2578557th time.