Obsession with having kids asap

I do not understand these ITv serials

Every serial this heroine ITV females are obsessed with becoming mothers

Even educated lawyers are only obsessed with getting baby by hook or crook(read IVF)

Why so much hurry to be a mother or father

First become capable and mature to be a parent of child than think of having a baby

Abhira is young 25-27 years now concentrate on your relationship as husband wife

Concentrate on Shivani she was without family without son 20 years

Let armaaan and Shivani spend time together be the bridge

Go do job earn money buy an house for yourself and armaan and shivani

Become economically stable in life

Than think of a child or baby later when you have enough money to give baby a happy and stable life

Why is abhira so obsessed with having a child at cost of IVF so soon after marraige

Or is it she feels Armaan will again leave her on flimsy reason so wants a baby to act as bridge in their relationship

The usual indian nuska - have a kid and stay together for life for sake of kid no matter how toxic sasural or hubby is

Where will baby sleep on floor in cold at night is it?

How will you buy it warm clothes, diaper and milk and farex for baby and medcines if its sick etc

Do you know how costly it is to bring up baby

LKG admission costs 3-5 lakh in big city in schools yearly fees is 1.5 lakh every year

Or do they plan to send it to government free school as they cannot pay now school fees

Both armaaan and abhira are unfit to be parents right now

Armaan has past trauma unhealed and will project it on child once its a bit big like 5 or 6 years

Abhira is an immature child woman who has no maturity and emotionally stable mind set and baby will have to parent her and hand hold her rather than abhira taking care of child

Right now neither armaan nor abhira are capable of becoming mature parents of a child

Note: My point is in real indian society is obsessed with a woman becoming mother. There is lot of pressure on women to leave their career and become mother and nanny their kids than follow a career in their 20s. If this serial showed something different it would change perception. You cannot keep showing the same 1950s and 60s crap that becoming mother in life goal of every married woman over her career and health etc at any cost. Even in 2025 highly educated It software engineers etc force their wives to give up career to become mothers and if woman cannot become mother within 3 years of marriage all taunt them. Why not change this perception that having a child is not key of happy married life and two ppl can live together happily without kids. even if its husband who cannot become father, woman is blamed only always. When will this mindset change unless you show such things on TV and movies

A baby is brought to reset the plot. And as far as admission goes, those rates are real life situations. Not applicable to fiction.

Bachcha tracks bring more drama and trp audience seem to love pregnancy and bachcha tracks. Their last track on pregnancy and bachcha was a hit and increased the trps. That's why they're bringing it again.

Now I want to see what will they do with the bacha for whom they're crying so much.

I mean for bacha #1 , they received shrap. . This man takes his brothers baby & refuses to return him when his mother wakes up , thereby cheating both the women badly. Abhira madam almost lost her life , she lost her baby in giving birth , still she's crying for another one.

Ruhi being the surrogate is just the cherry on top . Ruhi was armans ex , of all the things ...she hates abhiman then she flips...they tried to steal her baby as per her ...rohit demanded his baby back in a flip , still they want ruhi to be the surrogate 🤣

When they married they knew it well that only option is adoption yet it's never discussed. There was a time when abhira was "obsessed " to her career as ma ka sapna now where is sapne and career ? Arman was so attached to a young girl who was lost in their house , yet he can't love an adopted child ? Abhira didn't want a child so soon but now it's a life and death question for her .

Yes they can show this track again as if was most successful, and they brew a kaand over it but how many times will they do it ? Like they got obsessed with kaira divorce and milan , they're redoing it with abhiras pregnancy and kaands that follows 🤣

At the end of it abhira will give birth to 2 babies and all the complications shit will go in dustbin, not to mention , with the money spent on ivf & kaands to be lived through rohit and ruhi.

Originally posted by: Life_Is_Dutiful

Bachcha tracks bring more drama and trp audience seem to love pregnancy and bachcha tracks. Their last track on pregnancy and bachcha was a hit and increased the trps. That's why they're bringing it again.

Abhimaan had so much scope, could have made them into an Akshara- Naitik, instead the storyline no more makes any sense. Abhira keeps sacrificing her self respect for her love, and Armaan is a borderline red flag.

Baby track brings the most important thing for a show - trp.. and it brings entertainment and kalesh in the forum.. creates more buzz and fandom wars so it’s a win win situation for makers..

what you’re saying is a real life scenario and I don’t remember the last time this show should something realistic.. Any love story after a point becomes stagnant so kids with or without separation is a good change..

Obsession is limited to having kids though, when she had Daksh, she took him to court in a week because career was important now she is sitting in chawl doing jhadu pocha 🤡

But that's the case with everyone, they never speak about if they are ready to be good parents to the child, this is a couple that has divorced many times, they won't even qualify for adoption if there is a background check

Akshu madam also used her child as a tool of revenge but as soon as Abhimanyu died, she turned off her phone and removed all traces of Abhir's existence from her life, jhuthe muh could have done shrad or some pooja on his birthday 🤡

Even she didn't raise Abhira correctly, Abhira didn't even know anything about bank account, Armaan had to teach her that, she left her daughter without any financial stability

I'm glad akshara naitik are untouched, there's at least one thing in the show which they kept intact otherwise I wud go crazy with the comparisons being made

No couple would be like akshara naitik , no family like theirs , no track like theirs . Even kaira..don't want their music to be used elsewhere...at least ppl will remember the 2 generations as memorable in parts.

Originally posted by: MsWhiskerson

Obsession is limited to having kids though, when she had Daksh, she took him to court in a week because career was important now she is sitting in chawl doing jhadu pocha 🤡

But that's the case with everyone, they never speak about if they are ready to be good parents to the child, this is a couple that has divorced many times, they won't even qualify for adoption if there is a background check

Akshu madam also used her child as a tool of revenge but as soon as Abhimanyu died, she turned off her phone and removed all traces of Abhir's existence from her life, jhuthe muh could have done shrad or some pooja on his birthday 🤡

Even she didn't raise Abhira correctly, Abhira didn't even know anything about bank account, Armaan had to teach her that, she left her daughter without any financial stability

Originally posted by: MsWhiskerson

Obsession is limited to having kids though, when she had Daksh, she took him to court in a week because career was important now she is sitting in chawl doing jhadu pocha 🤡

But that's the case with everyone, they never speak about if they are ready to be good parents to the child, this is a couple that has divorced many times, they won't even qualify for adoption if there is a background check

Akshu madam also used her child as a tool of revenge but as soon as Abhimanyu died, she turned off her phone and removed all traces of Abhir's existence from her life, jhuthe muh could have done shrad or some pooja on his birthday 🤡

Even she didn't raise Abhira correctly, Abhira didn't even know anything about bank account, Armaan had to teach her that, she left her daughter without any financial stability

I agree with so many points, yes she believed that ruhaan / daksh was hers who takes a premature kid out before 100 days apart from vaccination..I mean u have to be really careful...prenie babies are vulnerable until 3 years

But like someone else pointed out last week also to me that adoption is not possible due to below

They have gotten divorced once and reached divorce within one year again 2 nd time..this shows no emo maturity

No financial stability

She ran away after knowing it's ru baby - she has an fir against her- criminal past

She fought for her bro and got him justice yet used unfair means via influence to get the same criminal out on bail