Originally posted by: sweet_tania
My sister in law is in waiting list for adoption in India and timeframe is almost 4-5 years of waiting.
Tab tak to bichari 38-39 ki ho jayegi.
Meri sister in law ko itne lambe waiting list mai dekh kar i felt so bad for her. She has both egg quality and uterus linings issue so for IVF, she has to go through donor egg+ surrogacy for which she was not ready that’s why decided to go with adoption.
But, my god adoption mai toh alag he level ka headache hai + long waiting period like ap early thirties se late thirties mai pohoch jao. Yeh sab dekh kar mai toh kisi ko india mai adoption ke liye na bolu !
Isse accha apne dum par apna baccha kar sako toh karo, otherwise yeh adoption, waiting list etc ke chakkar mai toh Umar nikal jaye. Uper se 50 type ka permission lena padta hai woh alag and god ne ek he life diya hai, waiting list mai baithe reh kar 4-5 saal khoti kyun karna!Adoption bolna bahot aasan hai and sunne mai bada accha, nek, progressive sound karta hai lekin adoption mai bhi different level ke he struggles hote hai.
It depends ...my uncle adopted abandoned babies so I did not know it takes so long 😭😭😭
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