Armaan deserved it for doing the same to Daksh/Ruhaan - Page 18

Main thing is this story is about how Arman gets replacement rishtas in his life and he ditches old relationships and people just like akthu from gen3

Arman got abhira he forgot ruhi

He got ruhi forgot abhira

Then he fell for abhira forgot ruhi

He had ma he forgot wife

Wife was there he forgot ma

Dadi was there he forgot wife

For wife he forgot dadi 🤣🤣🤣

Now he got new ma so he forgot old ma and all his curses are for Vidya, when all these years he enjoyed so well her all attention. Lmao did we all forget when Vidya showered attention on ruhi Rohit during ruhis pregnancy, Arman made face and walked away, he couldn't bear attention his mother giving to his brother Cause he never felt before. Rohit did probably. His wife legit had affair with Arman and about to get married with him, with blessings from family. Vidya legit said she had picked Arman over Rohit many times. Rohit has so much trauma but we won't see it cause flip flop leads are important 🤣😏

Originally posted by: Krinya

In one of the messages you'd written that some of us use the excuse of weak writing & something like that to defend the side characters .

Likewise ,The best excuse to defend the leads is the intent . It doesn't work with me somehow . It just puts arman and vidya in the same bracket . When going gets tough the tough gets going. Very difficult to take sane decisions during the time of conflict & vulnerability but one tries to self preserve too , also take a decision causing minimum damage also rectify it later . So none of them basically qualify as better for me . There's a situation in which both took wrong decisions , one was caught early , another after 30 yrs ..if arman himself revealed the truth , I'd say yes he has a conscience. If he refused to take "revenge" from abhira I'd say yes he has a conscience and he's a better one..daksh kaand Ho gaya and he cries , for himself and abhira , their rishta , not for ruhi , big deal ! Same thing vidya does.she cries for herself , her marriage , not for arman .

If abhiman brought up daksh well what does it change? A lie is still a lie that's what he was complaining to vidya . That's what Neil fought for her in gen 3.

Firstly frm the time I'm watching, I've never seen vidya make feel arman sautela . It was always kaveri . Arman on the other hand was always attached to vidya , more than his father and I don't see vidyas ulterior motive here , she anyways didn't get madhavs attention uptil the point of armans wedding ..their relation was amways shaky...still arman got the best of everything did he not ?. Till date he was praising vidya for being there , so much so that after shrap he feared separation frm her and went to extreme lengths to please her.

Ab I'm not trying to defend vidya here , she is what she is , but I judge arman for his actions and today if he tells me that he mistreated abhira bec he was made to feel sautela in the house, he was trying to please vidya and kaveri , I won't buy it. His treatment from his family has nothing to do with how he treated abhira , I'm firm on this . He mixed all the issues & tried to victimize himself while blaming everything on kaveri and vidya .

I feel his complaints on confidence self esteem and making him feel paraya should be addressed to madhav more than vidya . What he did with daksh is done and dusted but there should be a self reflection . Most imp is , if he actually means a word of what he said , he shouldn't come bk to poddars.

I see your point, and I respect the way you’ve analyzed both characters. I agree that intent alone isn’t enough to justify actions—what truly matters is how those intentions translate into choices and consequences. But I do think intent provides context. It doesn’t absolve Armaan or Vidya, but it helps us understand why they did what they did.

Vidya may not have openly treated Armaan as sautela the way Kaveri did, but she reinforced it in subtle ways—through her silences, through the occasional reminders of his place, and through the way she prioritized her own insecurities over his struggles. Armaan wasn’t wrong in believing that earning Vidya’s approval was a way to secure his position in the family because, in his world, love always came with conditions. That said, his past doesn’t excuse his treatment of Abhira. Trauma shapes us, but it doesn’t justify the choices we make. At some point, accountability matters more than pain.

As for Daksh, I agree—a lie remains a lie. But not all lies carry the same weight. There’s a difference between deception for personal gain and deception as a desperate attempt to preserve something. It doesn’t make it right, but it does change the why behind it.

On Armaan returning to the Poddars, I see both sides. If he goes back unchanged, simply falling into old patterns, then yes, his words mean nothing. But if he returns with the intent to change the dynamics, to confront rather than conform, then maybe it’s not just about going back—it’s about reclaiming his place on his own terms.

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

Main thing is this story is about how Arman gets replacement rishtas in his life and he ditches old relationships and people just like akthu from gen3

Arman got abhira he forgot ruhi

He got ruhi forgot abhira

Then he fell for abhira forgot ruhi

He had ma he forgot wife

Wife was there he forgot ma

Dadi was there he forgot wife

For wife he forgot dadi 🤣🤣🤣

Now he got new ma so he forgot old ma and all his curses are for Vidya, when all these years he enjoyed so well her all attention. Lmao did we all forget when Vidya showered attention on ruhi Rohit during ruhis pregnancy, Arman made face and walked away, he couldn't bear attention his mother giving to his brother Cause he never felt before. Rohit did probably. His wife legit had affair with Arman and about to get married with him, with blessings from family. Vidya legit said she had picked Arman over Rohit many times. Rohit has so much trauma but we won't see it cause flip flop leads are important 🤣😏

That's what I noticed too

Vidya was everything, he even left Abhira for her multiple times

Even Ruhi hasn't hurt Abhira like Armaan did by filing fake bribery charges against her and taking away her only source of income knowing that last time she had come to begging for food, I love how makers always add begging scenes for Abhira whenever she doesn't have money or career 😂

She was humiliated in courtroom then she had to bring his real mom back and do him one more favor for him to take her back but again, he went to RK and said he'll choose Shivani over Abhira 🤡

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

Main thing is this story is about how Arman gets replacement rishtas in his life and he ditches old relationships and people just like akthu from gen3

Arman got abhira he forgot ruhi

He got ruhi forgot abhira

Then he fell for abhira forgot ruhi

He had ma he forgot wife

Wife was there he forgot ma

Dadi was there he forgot wife

For wife he forgot dadi 🤣🤣🤣

Now he got new ma so he forgot old ma and all his curses are for Vidya, when all these years he enjoyed so well her all attention. Lmao did we all forget when Vidya showered attention on ruhi Rohit during ruhis pregnancy, Arman made face and walked away, he couldn't bear attention his mother giving to his brother Cause he never felt before. Rohit did probably. His wife legit had affair with Arman and about to get married with him, with blessings from family. Vidya legit said she had picked Arman over Rohit many times. Rohit has so much trauma but we won't see it cause flip flop leads are important 🤣😏

1. Parivar from mumma ka rejected family

2. Cousin(ruhi didi) from mumma's behan from another naani.

3. Phir bro from another father 🤣

4. Phir daksh from ruru's gulugulu

5. Phir maa from madhav's another shadi

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Armaan didn't care Daksh cried? Really? Ok... I know I don't follow this stupid show religiously but Ruhi didn't care when Daksh was crying relentlessly! Armaan did live in guilt unlike Vidhya and KP, who actively ruined his life!

Armaan is spineless at times, he has done lot of wrongs especially towards Abhira, Abhira is doormatish but both have a heart unlike a lot of other characters. I always call out AbhiMaan whenever they are wrong, but in this forum they are Hated, especially Abhira is even before birth because she is a driver's daughter.

Lol I love the million excuses Abhimaan fans come up with to defend Armaan? He was forced to? Is he a 6 months old baby. If he was so guilty, why didn't he speak up when Ruhi was crying for her baby. No one was stopping him then. It was his pure selfishness that stopped him. Rohit might have might stopped him at first but what it was selfishness that kept his facade going. Not Rohit. Why didn't he return the baby when Rohit asked? What right does he have to take someone else's baby without the mother's consent and quote "give the child fully unconditional, complete love which that baby rightfully deserved"?

Originally posted by: AD001

As for daksh, armaan didn't deceive abhira , he was emotionally manipulated by daksh' s biologicl father to make it armaan abhira's own child and raise him. After refusing and rebuking him multiple times, Rohit would not listen and stood there begging to him for accepting his child. Armaan wanted to tell abhira the truth and bear the consequences but Rohit didn't let him do so. Even after returning to their house with the baby , armaan made multiple attempts out of guilt to tell ruhi and abhira the same but to be only stopped by Rohit. Armaan even promised unconscious ruhi that he will sprinkle his life over her child, he'll give him all the love and happiness. He didn't have any motive... all he cared was to give the child fully unconditional, complete love which that baby rightfully deserved.

I might agree with Abhira to some extent but Armaan seriously? Armaan's heart led him to do illegal things to take away Abhira's license and he got away with a simple sorry since Abhira is such a doormat. Even in terms of the baby kidnapping track, he did not get his full comeuppance. Yes Abhira stayed away from him for a while but doormat Abhira won in the end. And Armaan's family supported him throughout this track and Ruhi was portrayed as the villain. And Mr 'morally righteous' Armaan also gaslit Abhira- Abhira had full rights to be angry and true redemption would be him falling at the feet of Abhira and being patient till she forgave him. But in the end he blamed her for separating herself from him without proper consideration. And did he apologise to Ruhi even?

Not everyone hates Abhimaan before Abhira is a driver's daughter. The side characters are portrayed as villains when they do wrong so what they do can be digested. But leads doing mistakes and being portrayed as victims is contradictory and annoying. I dislike Abhira because I find her lack of self- respect disgusting and I hate Armaan as he is big red flag and a terrible life partner.

Originally posted by: AuthorSneha

Armaan is spineless at times, he has done lot of wrongs especially towards Abhira, Abhira is doormatish but both have a heart unlike a lot of other characters. I always call out AbhiMaan whenever they are wrong, but in this forum they are Hated, especially Abhira is even before birth because she is a driver's daughter.