Sunn Mere Dil (GEO) #11 - Wahaj Ali, Maya Ali, Hira Mani - Page 117

Originally posted by: wildflower9

ammar is venting out his frustration only. he doesn't love dania and dania knows it. dania ab maza chakhaye gi ammar ko 😂😆

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

How is regret for rejecting his proposal same as her acknowledging or realizing she has feelings for him. She keeps talking about rejecting his proposal not his feelings or that she has feelings for him the person? At this point it still seems like revenge dating. Maybe she realizes her feelings later but I found not think now is it. Especially if next episode she has not filed for separation or if she is still staying in the marriage. I really hope they don't go revengrevenge dating because BA being used again for someone's selfish goals is too much.

It shows that Sadaf is trying to understand Bilal's past pain and the emotional struggles he is going through during the current divorce process. Sadaf is aware of the harm caused to Bilal’s emotional world by her rejection and marriage decision, and she feels empathy towards him. This may reflect Sadaf’s deeper emotional awareness and regret, perhaps indicating that she feels she made a mistake.

Originally posted by: HMMN

Aapko kya lagta hai drame ka endgame kya hoga- Sadaf-Bilal ya Sadaf-Ammar ya teeno alag alag like Mein drama?

i think sadaf will end up with ammar only because they deserve eachother. for me everything is crystal clear now after today's episode.

sadaf will date bilal and ammar will accept her even after that because everything was started by ammar himself.

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

Yeah it might not be her having feelings for him. I thought it might the beginning of that but it’s hard to tell at this point. Her motivation could be revenge but she genuinely sounds like she has empathy for him too. Whatever it is, I feel like it will develop into something more. Maybe Bilal will have his own trust issues for now. He already has his past trauma about his mom. Humsha will also have filled Bilal’s head. Maybe it will be about how Sadaf proves that her love is real to Bilal (I’m assuming her feelings towards him will keep intensifying). There’s that line where he says, “Bilal Abdullah nai apse Ishq kia dilaggi nahi”.

sadaf ki niyyat ki hi theek nahi hai. agay kya theek kar le gi wo. she is acting like a desperate teenager.

Originally posted by: kuhelidebbarma

She's clearly moved on in life...its so clear now..!! I have no idea why people are making speculations that she is using BA.

I am not sure whether the divorce will go through or not (at least in tomorrow’s episode!). But I don’t think that Sadaf has the intention to ‘use’ Bilal to make Ammar jealous. What I think is, it is highly possible that Bilal may want Sadaf to rethink her decision of divorcing Ammar! Because if divorce happens, then there are no conflicts, hence no story!

But Sadaf is not using Bilal to make Ammar jealous, that is for sure. I think people misunderstood her because of some of the things she said today. But when she said that ‘you go and stay with Daniya, and i will go and stay with Bilal. Then if we meet one day, then tell me - Sadaf, come home and fix everything.’ - She was ironically stating facts, because if the situation was reversed, if she, the woman, did what Ammar did - cheat on her spouse and come back to say let’s fix everything - there is no chance in hell that Ammar would accept her! And the dialogue in tomorrow's promo - ‘first, let me date Bilal Abdullah, then I will appologize to you’ - I have an inkling that it might be for Zaaviyaar!

As you said, I also believe, she has truly moved on. In today’s episode, she clearly said what we have been telling about Sadaf’s decision to marry Ammar. Sadaf was not in love with Ammar when she made that decision, as a matter of fact, she was not in love with anyone - not even with Bilal. Her mistake was not that she rejected Bilal. It was that in order to convince everyone that she is really rejecting him, she accepted Ammar’s proposal. As I have mentioned somewhere in one of my early posts, Sadaf, after everything, had started to trust Bilal wholeheartedly - when Humsha misled her saying all that might be his extended ploy to surrender her (whatever that means!!), it catapulted to her emotional catastrophe - she felt cheated and betrayed, because she had put her faith in him, and was almost ready to emotionally surrender. It was with that spite, she went ahead and accepted Ammar - in all honesty, Ammar is someone she knew as a friend, he was vouching that he loves her - so she chose him - Sadaf decided to trust Ammar and his ‘love’. If she was in love with Ammar when she married him, she wouldn’t ask him what love is - the question to which her newly wedded husband failed to give a proper answer, because, obviously, the guy does not understand the ‘L’ of love!

Sadaf went ahead with her married life, working on ‘loving’ her husband, before their marriage started to unravel. She put all her efforts genuinely, compromised her true self, ignoring all Ammar’s vices, losing herself piece by piece in the process - though there were glimpses of true Sadaf from time to time; her guilt, stubbornness and her mother’s pressure, kept her from breaking free. So, we saw almost a ‘doormat’ type of Sadaf. There were a couple of times where Sadaf wondered out loud about the fickleness of love - regard to Humsha and Ammar, because it was not for her. When Bilal mentioned that she should make her husband understand that love means trust - you could see the surprise in her eyes. He was the one who gave a clear answer to what she had been asking. Ammar, who she trusted and who claimed to ‘love’ her asked for proof for her love; where Bilal, who she chose not to trust would trust her no questions asked (he said that he will sign the resignation even without reading it). This is where her deep regret came - she cried angry tears, because she was angry at herself for being such a pitiful judge of character. But she still went ahead to sacrifice everything, even went and hit the ‘other woman’ - something which she said earlier to her mother that she would not do, not for the sake of an unfaithful man. But she was a desperate wife, so she did what she ‘the real Sadaf’ would not have done. And Daaniya’s slap was her wake up call, to wake up from her nightmare - reflecting Zaaviyaar’s words that she has awakened. Why I believe that she has truly moved on is that when she was leaving the apartment she did not look back, not even a bit, not even when Daniya was coming after her like a mad woman. - did not look back at the chaos she left behind. Her not looking back reflects that she has no regret of that decision - reflecting Bilal’s first words on Sadaf. She has broken her emotional connection, so I don’t think that she will reconcile with Ammar - but you never know, these people can throw crazy curve balls on us! So, let's see where they are taking us!

Sadaf’s statement, "This is what affects me," while talking to Hamsha, clearly shows that she is experiencing an inner realization and acknowledges the emotional impact she feels. In this sentence, Sadaf is not denying her feelings for Bilal, but rather accepting them and admitting that she is deeply affected by his love. This expression reflects that Sadaf recognizes and is touched by Bilal’s pure, unconditional love, and she is not trying to deny it.

Additionally, Sadaf realizes that true, pure love is only possible through self-sacrifice. This indicates that she has gained some inner wisdom about the nature of real love and understands that Bilal’s love is genuine and founded on this very selflessness. She acknowledges the depth and authenticity of his affection.

On the other hand, there is a stark contrast with Amaar, who is described as selfish, opportunistic, and a liar. This highlights that Amaar does not hold any true emotional value for Sadaf, and their relationship feels false. Sadaf’s realization of Amaar’s lies and fake love leads her to fully appreciate Bilal’s real, pure love. His love has deeply affected her, and she has begun to understand what true affection feels like.

Ultimately, Sadaf's inner conflict revolves around distinguishing between real love and fake affection. Bilal’s unconditional and self-sacrificing love has touched her heart and taught her the true meaning of love, while Amaar’s self-serving attitude has disappointed her and reinforced her belief in the authenticity of love.

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

The thing is that Bilal never wanted to date Sadaf. He always wanted to marry her. He never attempted to get close to her when he always had plenty of opportunities to do so. When he approached her about his feelings, it was a straight up marriage proposal.

Agreed, This is why I think he may not agree to 'date' her.

I’m actually looking forward to tomorrow’s episode. How is Sadaf going to approach Bilal? What will be his reaction? Also how are they standing so close in her house? Where is everyone else 👀 One thing I can say for sure is that this show is unpredictable

Just saw the episode...and one thing is for sure...Sadaf is regretting for rejecting Bilal's proposal..and wants him to give the love he deserves(that's what I felt when she was talking to Humsha as a friend)...whatever dialogues she has said to ammar was only to tease and taunt him...there was nothing more to it...

Originally posted by: kuhelidebbarma

Just saw the episode...and one thing is for sure...Sadaf is regretting for rejecting Bilal's proposal..and wants him to give the love he deserves(that's what I felt when she was talking to Humsha as a friend)...whatever dialogues she has said to ammar was only to tease and taunt him...there was nothing more to it...

The dialogues she said today was definitely to tease and taunt to Ammar she just gave him the the taste of his own medicine.

She is definitely regretting for rejecting bilal's proposal and but I don't think she wants to give him love he deserve at least for now. She is in realization phase that he was so good to her and she gives him the pain. She mentioned wo Kitna tarpa hoga and all.

She may wants to be friend with Bilal so she can understand him well.