Vivian Plays From The Heart

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Posted: 6 months ago
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Losts has been said about Vivian after the TTF. So here are some thoughts of mine. smiley9

Vivian performed the TTF task and had no intention of hurting CD. Throughout the task he was hounded by KVM and others. His family was bought into the matter to make him feel guilty. The word 'gentleman' was used by SS to mock him. CD who had always shared a nice bond with him, said she would never speak to him again.

He chose to give up TTF to apologise to CD, because he felt that relation was worth it. Not to look mahaan but he was genuinely sorry if he had hurt her. The family group had made him feel as if he had done some huge crime.

Then when he spoke to his friends, they gave a different perspective on the matter. Vivian gave up his win but there must have some doubt in his mind. He knew, he had not done anything intentionally wrong in the task.

Now that SK expressed what supporters have be saying all along, he is called all sorts of names. The truth is, he will be mocked no matter what he does. The 'ladla' tag, his hugh fanbase and some preconceived notions about him, will cloud many judgements against him. Then there is the edited episodes vs livefeed debate...

When he gave up his win, the family group praised him. When he spoke up after SK exposed them, they think Vivian is wrong again. He got clarity on WKV and has every right to put his side forward, which he was not allowed to do before. He was never allowed to justify himself because the family group wanted him to look wrong and to make him feel guilty for performing a task well.

Vivian plays from the heart and he is not perfect. His intentions are never wrong though and he is honest. These are his strength and his weakness, because in this house everyone is playing the BB game and mind games too. I repeat, I am not an original VD fan but have come to admire this human being from BB18. smiley14

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Posted: 6 months ago
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Very beautiful Postsmiley27

Agree with each point..

I too never noticed Vivian before BB..I started admiring him because how he conducted himself in the show and thus became his Fan..

I love the fact he never afraid to say sorry whn he is wrong.

He has been loyal to his Friends and a sincere person..

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Posted: 6 months ago
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Originally posted by: MUNNII

Very beautiful Postsmiley27

Agree with each point..

I too never noticed Vivian before BB..I started admiring him because how he conducted himself in the show and thus became his Fan..

I love the fact he never afraid to say sorry whn he is wrong.

He has been loyal to his Friends and a sincere person..

He chose his people and is loyal to a fault. smiley36

He has made those relations though, not us and he lives in that house. He doesn't see some of the things that we see but, there must be things that justify those relations for him which are not shown to us. We do not walk in his shoes...

Just wish him so much luck and the trophy! smiley10

Edited by The_May_Rose - 6 months ago
Posted: 6 months ago
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The title is the eternal truth that vivian plays from heartsmiley27. His blunder was falling for karan gang's cheap manipulation and not listening to avisha but that doesn't prove that he is a bad person. That proves he has a good heart that's why he continuously took care of chum even after saying sorrysmiley27. Yes when the truth got revealed, vivian understood what a fool he was so he choose to say the truth but he mostly blamed karan not chum. I am happy that he came to this show as I thought he will be an arrogant and nasty person but he turns out to be such a good personsmiley27

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Posted: 6 months ago
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As always a very well written post.

Viv changed his mind when he received new information which is normal human behaviour.

If I hear that someone has been faking their issues to gaslight me ,I am going to rethink my behaviour with them.

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Posted: 6 months ago
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Originally posted by: dahibhalle

As always a very well written post.

Viv changed his mind when he received new information which is normal human behaviour.

If I hear that someone has been faking their issues to gaslight me ,I am going to rethink my behaviour with them.

Agreed! When new information comes to light it is important to weigh it with a calmer mind and use critical thinking to reassess response. That’s exactly what Vivian did! I am happy he had the courage to UPDATE his response. That shows growth not stagnancy.

P.S. I love Joan Didion. Did you read her Year of Magical Thinking? Got me through a very difficult time. Gifted it to a Transplant Surgeon.


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Posted: 6 months ago
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Vivian is already winning at life. Yesterday I celebrated the justice meted out on the WKV episode. I know better than to put all my faith in the sanctity of processes. All season Vivian’s scenes were edited out. It was a tragedy that the golden goose was being sidelined intentionally.


Vivian does not need a trophy as a crutch to lean on or need that trophy to have bragging rights on how successful he is. He already has TRUE fans based on his body of work!

Now post BB, he will definitely obtain more offers of work. Knowing him, he will be very discerning because he has wife and kids to consider and lives majorly in another country. The more sustained win is life post BB. Unlike some who disappear into oblivion, Vivian has stamped himself into the heart of fans for a long long time to come. He will reap many more successes.

I just hope he keeps all options open and disses his loyalty to this channel/production company who felt no qualms in editing Vivian out at every opportunity.


Vivian is a gem. His goodness will reap benefits and goodwill for years to come in the industry. He can leave the house with his head held up high knowing he never lost respect, integrity and dignity. He valued friendships he thought he had from outside and it’s not his fault it was not reciprocated. Outside he will be embraced for being a Mensch! ❤️

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Posted: 6 months ago
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sure.smiley17 His mind told him that it would be good to look like he's playing from the heartsmiley36

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Posted: 6 months ago
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Whatever floats your boat, I guess lmao

Gaslighting someone he hurt, sure is playing from the heart smiley16

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Posted: 6 months ago
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Wonderful post…. So we’ll put the points.. agree with each words of yours.

Same with me, I have never ever watched his show but seeing him in bb, how decent and caring he had been, I started liking his game.

The difference that Vivian brings with him is that he is playing being completely his own self and apni duniya me magan.. while all others are playing based on the exact format, how one should behave to fulfill the format… we have seen such contestants.. they bring nothing new..

Vivian being such good and rooted after knowing that channel has called him ladla, even listening to juniors.. it is recommendable.

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