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What do you guys think? What kind of relationship Bilal and Sadaf are sharing with each other at this point? Is it friendship or more than friendship?

Originally posted by: kuhelidebbarma

What do you guys think? What kind of relationship Bilal and Sadaf are sharing with each other at this point? Is it friendship or more than friendship?

They don't have a friendship yet.

Bilal and Sadaf has had only 10 conversations in 29 episodes (9 in-person and 1 phone). 4 were cancer-related. 3 were job-related. Only 2(3 at most) conversations had personal content where they talked about their feelings.

1. I will do anything for 8 crore (Cancer)
2. Zavyar ko cancer hai (Cancer)
3. You are not a match (Cancer)
4. Bring Zaviyar to the airport (Cancer)
5. Come for dinner (Phone)
6. I don't love you. I'm with Ammar (Personal)
7. Abba khwab main aye the (Personal)
8. I want you to go to Lahore (Job)
9. I want to go to Lahore (Job)
10. Why are you not going to Lahore (Job/Personal)

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

They don't have a friendship yet.

But Bilal said that "you can tell me whatever problem you are facing considering me your friend "

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

They don't have a friendship yet.

Bilal and Sadaf has had only 10 conversations in 29 episodes (9 in-person and 1 phone). 4 were cancer-related. 3 were job-related. Only 2(3 at most) conversations had personal content where they talked about their feelings.

1. I will do anything for 8 crore (Cancer)
2. Zavyar ko cancer hai (Cancer)
3. You are not a match (Cancer)
4. Bring Zaviyar to the airport (Cancer)
5. Come for dinner (Phone)
6. I don't love you. I'm with Ammar (Personal)
7. Abba khwab main aye the (Personal)
8. I want you to go to Lahore (Job)
9. I want to go to Lahore (Job)
10. Why are you not going to Lahore (Job/Personal)

Bilal thought there was a bond between them, at least a bond of friendship. But Sadaf's recent actions, bringing Zaviyar into the picture and using him to block Bilal, made him feel that all the goodness and sacrifices he had made were worthless. This feeling caused him to experience an emotional breakdown. That’s why he started drinking again. This is actually evident from what he said:

"What value does keeping a promise have when the heart is broken?"

The phrase "when the heart is broken" implies that the person has suffered an emotional wound, experienced disappointment, or had their trust in someone they care about shattered. Such heartbreaks often disrupt one's inner balance and lead to questioning the worth of promises or beliefs they were once committed to.

The part "what value does keeping a promise have" carries both a sense of helplessness and rebellion. The value of promises is often measured by one's commitment to them, but in this context, the individual believes the heartbreak has rendered those promises meaningless.

The fact that the person has started drinking again might be seen as an escape mechanism to cope with the pain. Drinking may provide temporary relief but often complicates problems instead of solving them in the long run. In this case, the individual seems to be seeking solace in alcohol to alleviate their pain, while also reflecting an inner sense of anger or inadequacy.

Keeping promises represents a person's loyalty to their character and commitments. However, heartbreak challenges this loyalty. The person begins to question the importance of promises and the significance of their own actions.

Insights and Interpretation

• Irrationality from Pain:
  When people are in pain, they act based on emotions rather than logic. This expression reflects the individual's emotional turmoil. When emotions are intense, people may rebel against even their core values and principles.

• Sense of Worthlessness:
  Heartbreak can make a person feel worthless. In such cases, they may adopt a nihilistic approach, believing that promises no longer hold any significance.

• Self-Sabotage:
  Resuming drinking, despite it being against the person's own values, could be considered a form of self-sabotage. Heartbreak has driven the individual to a path that undermines their self-respect.

Conclusion

This expression reveals that the individual is undergoing deep emotional turmoil, feeling as though some aspects of their life have lost all meaning. In such situations, healing involves first understanding oneself and then finding new meanings to repair the emotional wounds. A "promise" is not merely a commitment to someone else but also a reflection of one's loyalty to oneself. True recovery begins when the individual reconnects with their own inner values.

Originally posted by: kuhelidebbarma

But Bilal said that "you can tell me whatever problem you are facing considering me your friend "

Bilal toh USS escort baji 2 ko bhi bol raha tha aren't we friends. Or Humsha jaisi naagin ko bhi Aur konsa usne bola consider me your friend toh Sadaf ne usko apna friend maan lya. Shed didn't tell him every thing, and she told Zavyar to tell Bilal to not talk to Ammar (instead of calling him directly)/

Now the real question is how will sadaf fall in love with bilal? After going through torturous marriage no girl would be willing to fall in love or marry another person atleast till some time ( sometimes one or two years)

Will bilal take a step forward with her or sadaf will make her move?

Originally posted by: dennisdmenace

Hello girls, you all are running faster than the show. 😛 I haven’t yet watched the latest episode.

Saw a meme somewhere where they say in this show no one is listening to their heart but to humshaa’s manipulations.

1-7 episodes- intro, Mirza sahab death, zaviyar illness

8-18- Hamsha manipulations

19- wedding

20-29- cheating and divorce proceeding

All these would have been done in 15 episodes

Originally posted by: hakanturkey

Bilal thought there was a bond between them, at least a bond of friendship. But Sadaf's recent actions, bringing Zaviyar into the picture and using him to block Bilal, made him feel that all the goodness and sacrifices he had made were worthless. This feeling caused him to experience an emotional breakdown. That’s why he started drinking again. This is actually evident from what he said:

"What value does keeping a promise have when the heart is broken?"

The phrase "when the heart is broken" implies that the person has suffered an emotional wound, experienced disappointment, or had their trust in someone they care about shattered. Such heartbreaks often disrupt one's inner balance and lead to questioning the worth of promises or beliefs they were once committed to.

The part "what value does keeping a promise have" carries both a sense of helplessness and rebellion. The value of promises is often measured by one's commitment to them, but in this context, the individual believes the heartbreak has rendered those promises meaningless.

The fact that the person has started drinking again might be seen as an escape mechanism to cope with the pain. Drinking may provide temporary relief but often complicates problems instead of solving them in the long run. In this case, the individual seems to be seeking solace in alcohol to alleviate their pain, while also reflecting an inner sense of anger or inadequacy.

Keeping promises represents a person's loyalty to their character and commitments. However, heartbreak challenges this loyalty. The person begins to question the importance of promises and the significance of their own actions.

Insights and Interpretation

• Irrationality from Pain:
  When people are in pain, they act based on emotions rather than logic. This expression reflects the individual's emotional turmoil. When emotions are intense, people may rebel against even their core values and principles.

• Sense of Worthlessness:
  Heartbreak can make a person feel worthless. In such cases, they may adopt a nihilistic approach, believing that promises no longer hold any significance.

• Self-Sabotage:
  Resuming drinking, despite it being against the person's own values, could be considered a form of self-sabotage. Heartbreak has driven the individual to a path that undermines their self-respect.

Conclusion

This expression reveals that the individual is undergoing deep emotional turmoil, feeling as though some aspects of their life have lost all meaning. In such situations, healing involves first understanding oneself and then finding new meanings to repair the emotional wounds. A "promise" is not merely a commitment to someone else but also a reflection of one's loyalty to oneself. True recovery begins when the individual reconnects with their own inner values.

Just to clarify, in Urdu he had said if the heart is broken so why not break my Tauba. Tauba is repentance to God for doing haram sins and a promise to God to not indulge in that haram sin again.

Originally posted by: NutellaWaffle

Now the real question is how will sadaf fall in love with bilal? After going through torturous marriage no girl would be willing to fall in love or marry another person atleast till some time ( sometimes one or two years)

Will bilal take a step forward with her or sadaf will make her move?

My guess is that Sadaf will somehow realize that Bilal has started drinking again and understand why he drank. She will first apologize to him and then tell him that they are friends to convince him to stop drinking again. This way, their relationship will develop further.

In fact, in the OSTs, Bilal clearly says, "We became friends."

Originally posted by: hakanturkey

In fact, in the OSTs, Bilal clearly says, "We became friends."

Hasn't that line already been said by Bilal for Zavyar. Something like I understood love when we became friends. Bilal said it while in the US.