What's your thoughts on Marriage?

So,hello everyone.

I think this question is suitable for this forum members as I only know them in If and it is related to rishta..

In my mind I always fantasies Marriage as a very beautiful thing in the world,like you know like we seen in movies Ddlj,Romio-Juliet,Laila Majnu.etc. etc.

I always think after marriage life is most beautiful and like heaven because suppose me,Now I am struggling and studying and no one around but after marriage I have my own family and how beautiful is it like think 2 kids and you are playing with them and sharing your experience with your spouse.

Small but little world...

Kehne ko like bahut kuch kehna hai mujhe,but I think whatever my thoughts I wrote abovr fron that you atleast able to understood my feeling at present time..

So that you can connect with me better.

As far as I know in this forum In last one year I observed a thing from reading posts or anything that many many here are already married,And I thing that's why I thought you can also share you experience in a way in which neighter your privacy harm ir you can put your thoughts as well.

So if anyone interested in this question that How I am assuming marriage life from what I observed throughout world and tv,movies and whatever in my life vs what real life marriage is,and how we really feel after marriage,A heanly life or just normal like no changes after before.

I always heard words like Marriage means a type of laddoo,which us harmful for both if anyone didn't eat ut,they wanna do,If anyone already eat it they are suffering.

I seen many many marriage relationship in my life 95 percemts are Arrange marriage and 5 percent are Love marriage,that also in recent generation.

Rest in social media everywhere there is lvoe marriage,and a lot's of issues.

I imagine marriage as a Arranged love marriage,a most beautiful feeling in the world.

Originally posted by: Maanbhira

So,hello everyone.

I think this question is suitable for this forum members as I only know them in If and it is related to rishta..

In my mind I always fantasies Marriage as a very beautiful thing in the world,like you know like we seen in movies Ddlj,Romio-Juliet,Laila Majnu.etc. etc.

I always think after marriage life is most beautiful and like heaven because suppose me,Now I am struggling and studying and no one around but after marriage I have my own family and how beautiful is it like think 2 kids and you are playing with them and sharing your experience with your spouse.

Small but little world...

Kehne ko like bahut kuch kehna hai mujhe,but I think whatever my thoughts I wrote abovr fron that you atleast able to understood my feeling at present time..

So that you can connect with me better.

As far as I know in this forum In last one year I observed a thing from reading posts or anything that many many here are already married,And I thing that's why I thought you can also share you experience in a way in which neighter your privacy harm ir you can put your thoughts as well.

So if anyone interested in this question that How I am assuming marriage life from what I observed throughout world and tv,movies and whatever in my life vs what real life marriage is,and how we really feel after marriage,A heanly life or just normal like no changes after before.

I always heard words like Marriage means a type of laddoo,which us harmful for both if anyone didn't eat ut,they wanna do,If anyone already eat it they are suffering.

I seen many many marriage relationship in my life 95 percemts are Arrange marriage and 5 percent are Love marriage,that also in recent generation.

Rest in social media everywhere there is lvoe marriage,and a lot's of issues.

I imagine marriage as a Arranged love marriage,a most beautiful feeling in the world.

Respect is paramount maybe even more than love

Trust is imp

Communicate the opp person can't read your mind

Respect the pov even if u don't agree ..learn to agree to disagree

Long term relationship to sustain u need the above as per dadu and yes it's the same i applied

My extra one is controversial , I don't believe in. 2 jism ek jaan ..for me it's a tree with branches...each person having own ambition , space to grow yet having a common goal and stay together

Love is cherry on cake

In short Aap sabhi ke experience se mujhe itna samajh aaya ki:

It is the most beautiful feeling in the world..

Yes there are too many issues, because love tedha hai,but us tedhe love mein bhi sukoon pana sirf kuch logo ko hi aata hai.

Ab meri hopes or badh gayi hai overall marriage element ya perspective ko lekar.

And there was a time(a long time 7-8 years) whenever someone started marriage topic and it was related to mine,So I always told them ir tease them that I wanna become brahmchari and blah blah,don't marry to amyone because see in the serial and see the real cases around us,what't happening...At that time I was a kid and scared of marriage but with time I like this dual relationship wheel,the wheel if time that run with compouning love.

I mean nowdays mein real life mein like kuch bolta nahi hoon,but man mein aisa rehta hai ki haan yrr,bhale hi kuch bhi issues ho agar hamara bodn strong hua toh sab short ho jayega and duniya ki dikha hi denge ki relationships un issues ke mohtaaz nahi h,ki aise hi toot jaye.

Now-days You know,hota hai naah filmo mein,ishq wala love,thik waisi hi feeling aati hai,And I believe in pure lvoe not ki bf gf banao and sex dhokadhadi tu apne raste mein apne raste,This is lust not love..

I believe that I will definitely marry her,and together forever we live our life, Bas shabd ajib lag rahe honge mere kuch jyada hi,but haan didi, marriage abhi apke reply or feedback ke baad perspective kafi better version lag raha h.

And Aajkal toh chal raha hai naa, marriage is scary but what if he/she lvoe you...

So,yeah thank you didi,for your guidance,Looking forward to other replies.

Thank you very much.

❤️❤️

Don't marry.

Originally posted by: dandrola

brother your feeling are geniune but in reality marriage is more beautiful than fantasy world just one condition is that you partner should be understandable

But in my opinion first I should myself understandable and should try to understand hee feeling..

That's what I learnt from serials and movies that mistakes happen from both side but if anyone is doing mistake other should try to calm down and think smartly..