Sunn Mere Dil (GEO) #10 - Wahaj Ali, Maya Ali, Hira Mani - Page 65

According to the story, apparently Sadaf is more qualified in design. It’s unrealistic because I’m not sure that’s even what she studied. I understand some other shows are more realistic but most shows have inaccuracies. I saw a thread on Twitter to list things that are unrealistic in real life but totally normal in movies. One of things was how no one actually works at their jobs but spends all day talking about their love lives. It reminded me of SMD 🤭 So I’m trying to ignore what may or may not make sense as that’s another issue altogether. They are saying that Sadaf is more qualified in this regard so I’m just going by that.

Ammar’s insecurities would be understandable if he didn’t just very willingly take all the favours and wasn’t currently out having his own affair and being abusive to Sadaf. When he got the money from BA before the wedding, he told Sadaf that they should take whatever the “Sala” is giving them. He had no issues taking and he was fully aware of Bilal’s feelings for Sadaf.

Ammar has been shown to spend late nights drinking with Dania. I don’t think he’s coming into work on time. He came in late to the meeting Bilal had with all the heads to discuss the new hotels. I know it wasn’t a preplanned meeting but he came in late to work so he came in late to work. He kept everyone waiting and didn’t apologize. Bilal gave him a look then too. Clearly Ammar is distracted whether it’s with taking Dania’s threatening calls, leaving in the middle of work to go to her house and showing up late for work. When he said he had a meeting with Bilal at 10. It was already after 10 and he had just woken up.

Ammar has been consistent to me and nothing with behaviour now feels out of character. They aren’t just suddenly painting him in a bad light to make BA look good. The signs were always there. Refusing the referral by Mirza Saab but then actually writing down his name. Faking suicide attempts and putting on an act appearing sick when he was fine, He was drinking before he even got married. We don’t know when that started. He lives a fake life and is stuck in victim mentality. Even his affair with Dania, he doesn’t want to admit that he is willingly going there. He was stringing Dania along before she left for Canada too. Not to mention all the money he borrowed from her and never paid her back.

In this show,most of things which is happening doesn't make sense right from Bilal Abdullah falling for Sadaf to Sadaf getting the assignment,becoming more qualified than Ammar...but this is not a thriller that everything has to be logical...there is suspension of logic but that's not what the writers are aiming for..the writers want to show the emotions,obsession,love of the characters more than anything.

For example -there is a bollywood movie called Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi..people still debate about the fact that how wife couldn't recognize her husband when he removed his moustache..but that's not what writer aimed to show..the whole crux of the movie was to show the wife accepts her husband as himself..

What I mean is the emotions what the characters are trying to portray needs to be understood instead of looking for logic in everything.

Originally posted by: pilot100

As far as I remember, Sadaf and Ammar had the same qualifications. They were class fellows. So how come sadaf became more qualified than Ammar.

They are just bringing down Ammar character to unite sadaf and BA .

Hamsha is the root cause for Ammar insecurities. I really dont understand why she instigated Ammar .Any husband would feel highly insulted to lose a promotion to his wife that too when he knows his boss likes his wife.

But that's where the trust factor and proper communication between husband and wife plays a role which is clearly lacking in sadaf ammar relationship....I feel Ammar mostly faulty ..he was always an insecured person right from the beginning..it has just escalated due to various factors..what ammar is doing with sadaf is gaslighting behaviour..he himself is insecured that's why he feels even his wife is like that.

Ammar's character seems to exhibit narcissistic traits, with an inflated sense of self-importance and a need for constant admiration. He often uses others to fulfill his desires and has difficulty understanding or caring about their emotions. Despite presenting himself as a good person, he manipulates situations to maintain control. His family issues and his obsession with success and status lead him to behave in a self-centered, defensive manner. His idealization of figures like Bilal is part of his desire for power and validation, not genuine affection.

**"Narcissistic and hypomanic individuals may easily change their values for their own interests. Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition where people have an irrationally high sense of self-importance. They need a lot of attention and seek it out. They want everyone to admire them. Those with this disorder may lack the ability to understand or care about the emotions of others. However, behind this mask of excessive self-confidence, they are unsure of their own self-worth. They get easily upset by the slightest criticism. They see themselves as excessively important and constantly expect excessive admiration. They expect to be recognized as superior even without success.

But remember, what does it mean... I WANT TO BE LIKE BILAL ABDULLAH. In my opinion, Amaar has significant issues with his family... deceitful, selfish, self-serving... presenting himself as a good person but truly being very bad at heart. Remember when he proposed to Sadaf and got rejected, what did he say? "Am I a bad person? I don't drink, I don't have any relationships, etc..." The main reason Sadaf chose Amaar as a shield for Bilal was not related to love, but because Sadaf genuinely saw him as a good person, in contrast to how she viewed Bilal, whom she saw as his complete opposite."**

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Originally posted by: MiVida_Messi

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Originally posted by: unicornhugs

I’m confused what is this outrage about? It doesn’t specifically say

I think it's the slap scene with the do takkay ki aurat, kutta and saali kind of dialogues.

Ammar drinking, Dania encouraging him to drink, the scene where she pulls him by the tie and take him upstairs, the nighties - many Pakistanis do not like these scenes either

Openly showing alcoholism, adultery, the foul language, constant suicidal ideation, sadaf's indecent proposal in the 8 pm slot when families watch TV is too much for some people. They will tolerate thappar but the above same people would have issues with

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

I think it's the slap scene with the do takkay ki aurat, kutta and saali kind of dialogues.

Ammar drinking, Dania encouraging him to drink, the scene where she pulls him by the tie and take him upstairs, the nighties - many Pakistanis do not like these scenes either

Openly showing alcoholism, adultery, the foul language, constant suicidal ideation, sadaf's indecent proposal in the 8 pm slot when families watch TV is too much for some people. They will tolerate thappar but the above same people would have issues with

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

I think it's the slap scene with the do takkay ki aurat, kutta and saali kind of dialogues.

Ammar drinking, Dania encouraging him to drink, the scene where she pulls him by the tie and take him upstairs, the nighties - many Pakistanis do not like these scenes either

Openly showing alcoholism, adultery, the foul language, constant suicidal ideation, sadaf's indecent proposal in the 8 pm slot when families watch TV is too much for some people. They will tolerate thappar but the above same people would have issues with

Exactly ..those same people are okay with ML slapping FL and FL getting back to the ML but if all these things are shown in a negative light they are having problem? Its not like all these things are glorified...so I dont get this outrage.

Also I remember in TB marital rape fiasco,its mainly the Indian audience who did twitter trends and forced makers to change the scene...otherwise in many dramas in PTV,emotional and physical abuse hasn’t been shown in a negative light and done by heroes, and later on heroing forgets everything and goes back to the hero..without hero getting proper redemption.

The problem with PTV is that they are too much habituated of watching either regressive heroes or too goody hero...but if any hero is somewhere in between they start having issues.

Originally posted by: 2RsFan

I am sorry but I don't completely blame Ammar here . You know that your boss likes your wife and suddenly he replaces you with her for a special assignment where she would need to stay away from you. This would have caused issues even without Dania in the picture.