Originally posted by: hypnotoad
i mean it's the trifecta/quadfecta of gaslighting, cheating physical abuse, verbal abuse. things have really escalated to the point where silent acceptance and tolerance is hard to believe if you consider there is no remorse from ammar and he continues to berate her. there are no kids. she is educated, employed and not financially dependent on him. she is not in love. they haven't even been married that long for these manipulations to be rooted. she doesn't come from a family who will not accept her if she divorces. she is supposedly intelligent dabang type of girl with loads of self-respect and khuddari. I am really trying to understand why she is still under the same roof as him after all this. i am not saying divorce him now, but to want to live under same roof and work things out with no reciprocity, remorse and conflict escalation to the point of DV, makes little sense.
also ammar is not smart enuf to gaslight her. she knows he's being ass and lying.
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