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Posted: 10 months ago

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

My take away from the whole episode: What is wrong with the mother?

I actually called her something else but it won’t let me post that. I got a warning to not be toxic and to avoid personal attacks 😂

KRQ believes that when a man cheats then he can be forgiven and the wife should tolerate. The mother is just reflecting his opinions

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Posted: 10 months ago

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

So she is insulting Bilal for his past kartoots. What about the present kartoots of her dear hubby smiley7

Irl if a man hits you, call you names, and cheats on you, some women do stay back IF (a) they are either financially dependent on the man and/or there are kids involved, or (b) if the man love bombs them afterwards, apologizes that it is a one time thing, it will not happen again, that he will change god promise, and to give him one more chance. If not for either of these 2 conditions, AND especially when the man shows no remorse for what he has done and continues to berate her, no self-respecting woman in 2025 will spend another day under that man's roof. she may not ask for divorce then and there, but she will move to her parents' or friend's house to have a think.

I wish this was true but I personally know people who have stayed in toxic relationships for a lot longer than they should. These are educated, independent women born and raised in Canada. Once they are out of it, then they themselves question why they stayed in the relationship as long as they did.

I suspect it’s because they do something similar to what Ammar is doing. He’s putting all the blame on Sadaf, he is constantly gaslighting her. It’s mental manipulation and it unfortunately happens in real life too.

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Posted: 10 months ago

Originally posted by: 2RsFan

KRQ believes that when a man cheats then he can be forgiven and the wife should tolerate. The mother is just reflecting his opinions

But it doesn’t feel like it’s being portrayed as being sound advice. We’ll see as things go forward but I’m not getting the vibe that we’re supposed to be in agreement with her advice. It feels more like a plot device hindering Sadaf’s decision to walk away.
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Posted: 10 months ago

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

second last episode main kuheli yahi keh rahi hogi ke wait karo love story will come later smiley36

Last 10 episodes se zyada nahi hoga yaar romance..that's for sure...and tbh I feel like I have no self respect for watching the drama.smiley36

Btw you can call me RD..Kuheli is my mom's namesmiley9

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Posted: 10 months ago

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

I got a warning to not be toxic and to avoid personal attacks 😂

What ??? Someone called u T and asked to avoid PA . this is not making sense more than the show

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Posted: 10 months ago

See the thing is whatever KRQ has shown about ammar-dania-sadaf toxicity,none of them is glorified..all has been shown in a wrong light..

Some amount of regressiveness is needed to proceed towards positivity and progressiveness but I wish it wasn't dragged too much..

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Posted: 10 months ago

Oh well.... At least the formalities btweeen Sadaf and Bilal are gone smiley44Some bickering might be good for Sadaf and Bilal build up

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Posted: 10 months ago

Originally posted by: Winterberry

Someone decided to kill time to actually understand show instead of roasting it !


https://x.com/prabhashvariA/status/1874533740862685534

There are few people in twitter who actually understood the theme of the show instead of roasting.

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Posted: 10 months ago

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

I wish this was true but I personally know people who have stayed in toxic relationships for a lot longer than they should. These are educated, independent women born and raised in Canada. Once they are out of it, then they themselves question why they stayed in the relationship as long as they did.

I suspect it’s because they do something similar to what Ammar is doing. He’s putting all the blame on Sadaf, he is constantly gaslighting her. It’s mental manipulation and it unfortunately happens in real life too.

i mean it's the trifecta/quadfecta of gaslighting, cheating physical abuse, verbal abuse. things have really escalated to the point where silent acceptance and tolerance is hard to believe if you consider there is no remorse from ammar and he continues to berate her. there are no kids. she is educated, employed and not financially dependent on him. she is not in love. they haven't even been married that long for these manipulations to be rooted. she doesn't come from a family who will not accept her if she divorces. she is supposedly intelligent dabang type of girl with loads of self-respect and khuddari. I am really trying to understand why she is still under the same roof as him after all this. i am not saying divorce him now, but to want to live under same roof and work things out with no reciprocity, remorse and conflict escalation to the point of DV, makes little sense.

also ammar is not smart enuf to gaslight her. she knows he's being ass and lying.

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