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Posted: 7 months ago
#21

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

It's so heartbreaking to read this. You tried your best. You did tried to stop it and made a video to help police to identify culprit. As a common citizen you did the best that you could do. Sometimes you can't do anything as you jumping in the matter will make it worse for the police

Don't blame yourself for the kidnap as there was no gurantee that they would have not kidnapped her as in such incidents criminals tend to hide evidence. Just keep your faith in god and police.

There will be some cctv footages and police would be able to trace them. Just be calm and stop blaming urself.

Hopefully there is no kidnapping, and they just fled the place and left the girl alone.

I tried to do whatever i could but we cant confront them with no weapons or even people on our side, I don't know how many but they were too many for us to do anything.

I did informed authorities asap, and my intention was to get some evidence to identify the culprits or to get their vehicle anything, even to show the police the incident, because i thought if they left before Police arrive would they even believe me.

Just praying for that girls safely 🙏

Edited by Vanyaa - 7 months ago
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Posted: 7 months ago
#22

Originally posted by: Vanyaa

I know its a happy new year for most of us. I also know its not an appropriate place to write this topic here. But i have to while its still raw and i remember much of it.

I have an exam soon so my sleep schedule is all f up. I slept maybe around 8 -9 pm with a plan to wake up soon and start my study session.

I woke up with sound, dogs barking ( sometimes they bark, not that big deal), but then i also heard screaming of girl, loud, crying, scared. I doubted if i heard it right (as i just woke up and both dog barking and her screaming was mixed). But it was clear, my room is attached to balcony, I run to open the door and i saw a girl, she was surrounded by many guys and crying to let her go. I also shouted at them " ayeee choodho usko" twice, they didn't even paid any attention to it. Then i came in my room and i dialed 100, i was having anxiety at that moment, I told the officer that there are guys who are bothering a girl, she is screaming, please come fast, I was so out of my mind that i told them my address but i just couldn't remember the landmark (I know i sound stupid as hell), but at last i was able to make them understand and they said that they will dispatch an officer.

Then i ran downstairs and woke up my parents, they were sleeping and didn't heard any of it, I told them all of it, now we didnt heard screams, so I thought they left, Papa also said I'll make the phone call, but I told him that they have dispatched the police and at that very moment i got the text that they have dispatched the police jeep.

We actually thought that these people left, but when i came back to my room again, there were again screaming but even at more distance, I took my phone and captured the screams and some of guys (the distance would be 4 houses between us), so I have some proof that this crime/ incident did happen and we weren't lying or anything. When I made the video they shouted at me as well to not capture the video but it didn't deter them to stop or leave.

I made the phone call at 12:32 am, the jeep arrived at 12: 55 am, and they goons left at 12 :51 am. The video is no use tbh, because the distance was too much, you can understand the screaming and some of their talk but no vehicle or man can be identified.

Police came at 12 : 55 am and they crossed the place of assault while reaching my home, I asked them " did you find the girl there, sir?", but police officer said that "there was no girl, we just crossed that road." Then i showed them the video to atleast make them believe that it did happened, and my mom said that" please try to find the girl." They asked " Do you know the girl?" , we replied " No, neither the girl nor those goons". Police is trying to find the girl, I'll ask the officer who came here in the morning if they found her.


I don't know how many but there were so so many men, there were multiple vehicles, a car,a bike ( these I know of but mayne there were more) but we had so much distance that i couldn't get any vehicle name plate,.

Just watching this scene, i was panicked, my hands- feet got so cold, and I was safe on my balcony, my family downstairs, I can't even imagine what that girl might have feeling, how much scared she was.

I also feel that if only i had some automatic weapon like gun maybe i couldn't have gone, but I am that buzdil i couldn't go out to stop them, I didn't had the guts, neither my family would have allowed and i can't fault them on it. My dad isn't able to walk, we didn't had enough people in the home to confront them, neither have any weapon as well. We called the authorities asap, but still i feel its too late.

Its 2 : 53 am, I'll ask the officer in the morning about the girl, she can't just disappear, right, either they kidnapped her or she went her home, but could she reach there in 4 minutes.

i think its my fault that I made the video, maybe because of that they kidnapped her, i f up i think, if i didn't made the video they wouldn't have left and when police arrive they would have either got caught or atleast left the girl. I don't know now that i am thinking, I feel its my fault, they knew i was making the video and called the authorities, maybe that's why they took her, not only i couldn't helped her i even f up it more. I just hope that they left and she reached home, even if she doesnt report it jist she is at her home safe now.

Hey dear, you did the right thing. Called the police immediately, alerted your parents, tired to stop/scare them by filming and also tried to gather the evidence to help police. Please don’t feel guilty for anything. You did the best you could in circumstances.

Praying for girl’s safety and hope the police catch the criminals soon.

Please try to calm down now and leave this on god. Wishing you the best for your exams.

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Posted: 7 months ago
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I think your idea was best to capture those people I just remember a movie in which a girl open her Instagram and went live in same situation and then whole india in her support in chunks of minute and the peopel who harrashung other girl caught by police asap.

Though in reality this type of insta reach and this all is impossible but yes you did a right thing by took video,don't delete the video..

It maybe use for future reference didi..

Thank you

If you got scared by video so hide it in any specific place in mobile or folder,

I don't know but I can't sleep after reading your article and I am here from 2 hours,to make usre if you reply that the girl reached her home safely and she is secure now and right.

Waiting for you this reply didi

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Posted: 7 months ago
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Originally posted by: Vanyaa

Me too yrrr, just that she is safe.

I still have that video of her screaming and it breaks my heart, i could feel thag terror when this was happening and i was on my balcony, at a safe distance still when i made the phone call i wasn't breathing properly, i couldn't speak properly. The terror she must have felt is unimaginable.

I didn't thought in the beginning when i started writing this post that maybe because of video they left / or took her. But while writing it when i revisited all the incident, then it clicked me that its my fault maybe i made it worst.

The idea that i made it worst is just giving me this chill, this guilt.I still cannot process it all, this whole terror, I still have the video but its useless, nothing can be identified.

Rather then helping i made it worst, this guilt is eating me up.

i got up late read in blurred eyes thought shonali ka post. Again I read its you. I got my mind blocked. 31st nights are not safe. I faced it myself with my hubby after my first year of marriage. People in open zeeps roam and drunk they don't have hosh Or morality. It's not safe for any girl or woman. So we won't go out on that night. I can imagine that girls pain. While roads in our areas are filled with bikes sounds patakhe people shouting. Mg road is famous people gather wish there in groups but we avoid. Pray God that the girl is safe at her home. You take care of yourself .
Edited by Mehersudha - 7 months ago
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Posted: 7 months ago
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I'm terrified to read this!!

Take care of your self Vanya. You did what best you could do. I hope the girl is safe!!

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Posted: 7 months ago
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That's really terrifying. But I appreciate that you were able to alert the authorities and call out the miscreants yourself. Not many will be able to do that. Let's just all hope and pray that the girl reached home safely.

Kindly give us an update about the same here.

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Posted: 7 months ago
#27

Originally posted by: Vanyaa

I know its a happy new year for most of us. I also know its not an appropriate place to write this topic here. But i have to while its still raw and i remember much of it.

I have an exam soon so my sleep schedule is all f up. I slept maybe around 8 -9 pm with a plan to wake up soon and start my study session.

I woke up with sound, dogs barking ( sometimes they bark, not that big deal), but then i also heard screaming of girl, loud, crying, scared. I doubted if i heard it right (as i just woke up and both dog barking and her screaming was mixed). But it was clear, my room is attached to balcony, I run to open the door and i saw a girl, she was surrounded by many guys and crying to let her go. I also shouted at them " ayeee choodho usko" twice, they didn't even paid any attention to it. Then i came in my room and i dialed 100, i was having anxiety at that moment, I told the officer that there are guys who are bothering a girl, she is screaming, please come fast, I was so out of my mind that i told them my address but i just couldn't remember the landmark (I know i sound stupid as hell), but at last i was able to make them understand and they said that they will dispatch an officer.

Then i ran downstairs and woke up my parents, they were sleeping and didn't heard any of it, I told them all of it, now we didnt heard screams, so I thought they left, Papa also said I'll make the phone call, but I told him that they have dispatched the police and at that very moment i got the text that they have dispatched the police jeep.

We actually thought that these people left, but when i came back to my room again, there were again screaming but even at more distance, I took my phone and captured the screams and some of guys (the distance would be 4 houses between us), so I have some proof that this crime/ incident did happen and we weren't lying or anything. When I made the video they shouted at me as well to not capture the video but it didn't deter them to stop or leave.

I made the phone call at 12:32 am, the jeep arrived at 12: 55 am, and they goons left at 12 :51 am. The video is no use tbh, because the distance was too much, you can understand the screaming and some of their talk but no vehicle or man can be identified.

Police came at 12 : 55 am and they crossed the place of assault while reaching my home, I asked them " did you find the girl there, sir?", but police officer said that "there was no girl, we just crossed that road." Then i showed them the video to atleast make them believe that it did happened, and my mom said that" please try to find the girl." They asked " Do you know the girl?" , we replied " No, neither the girl nor those goons". Police is trying to find the girl, I'll ask the officer who came here in the morning if they found her.


I don't know how many but there were so so many men, there were multiple vehicles, a car,a bike ( these I know of but mayne there were more) but we had so much distance that i couldn't get any vehicle name plate,.

Just watching this scene, i was panicked, my hands- feet got so cold, and I was safe on my balcony, my family downstairs, I can't even imagine what that girl might have feeling, how much scared she was.

I also feel that if only i had some automatic weapon like gun maybe i couldn't have gone, but I am that buzdil i couldn't go out to stop them, I didn't had the guts, neither my family would have allowed and i can't fault them on it. My dad isn't able to walk, we didn't had enough people in the home to confront them, neither have any weapon as well. We called the authorities asap, but still i feel its too late.

Its 2 : 53 am, I'll ask the officer in the morning about the girl, she can't just disappear, right, either they kidnapped her or she went her home, but could she reach there in 4 minutes.

i think its my fault that I made the video, maybe because of that they kidnapped her, i f up i think, if i didn't made the video they wouldn't have left and when police arrive they would have either got caught or atleast left the girl. I don't know now that i am thinking, I feel its my fault, they knew i was making the video and called the authorities, maybe that's why they took her, not only i couldn't helped her i even f up it more. I just hope that they left and she reached home, even if she doesnt report it jist she is at her home safe now.


It's not your fault. You did what many don't, standing up for something wrong and called police who could deal with this


Even if you didn't make video they would have taken the girl. I hope the girl has some family or close friends who can follow up with this. I hope she's safe.


You shouldn't keep it in your guilty conscience. We aren't superheroes who fight against these kinda things. We are normal human beings with shit life and you did whatever you can. That's the end of your power.


I am sorry the year started of in such a bad way. Hugs 🤗

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Posted: 7 months ago
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I am so sorry that you experience/ witness something like that. I hope the girl is also okay and safe now. There is no fault of yours, you did what many others would not do. Tried called the police, you tried to gather proof. You're not just a bystander. You were so very brave.
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Posted: 7 months ago
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Originally posted by: Mehersudha

i got up late read in blurred eyes thought shonali ka post. Again I read its you. I got my mind blocked. 31st nights are not safe. I faced it myself with my hubby after my first year of marriage. People in open zeeps roam and drunk they don't have hosh Or morality. It's not safe for any girl or woman. So we won't go out on that night. I can imagine that girls pain. While roads in our areas are filled with bikes sounds patakhe people shouting. Mg road is famous people gather wish there in groups but we avoid. Pray God that the girl is safe at her home. You take care of yourself .

Actually its very unsafe especially around new year, these people probably are drunk or lost all morality at this point.

Even I don't know understand why she was out alone it is very unsafe here, because mine is a small town, not metro city that we have any night life here, its pretty secluded at night.

Sorry that you also had to experience such thing, its better to stay at home around new year because these people are out of control at this time.


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Posted: 7 months ago
#30

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat


It's not your fault. You did what many don't, standing up for something wrong and called police who could deal with this


Even if you didn't make video they would have taken the girl. I hope the girl has some family or close friends who can follow up with this. I hope she's safe.


You shouldn't keep it in your guilty conscience. We aren't superheroes who fight against these kinda things. We are normal human beings with shit life and you did whatever you can. That's the end of your power.


I am sorry the year started of in such a bad way. Hugs 🤗

Haan yrrr I hope her family or friends could follow up because there is not much we can do now.

New year toh gya mera, my mind still goes there about that incident repeatedly, I can't even focus on my studies atp.

Hugs for you too bestieeee 🤗

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