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Posted: 8 months ago
#11

Originally posted by: The_Best

I totally understand you having a guilt. I have had guilt over things where I thought I may have done wrong than doing right. It feels terrible to feel that, but please it’s not your fault. You didn’t do anything wrong. Your intentions were right and so was your action to take a video in order for the girl to be freed and the men to be identified. Now if that lead to men doing worse, it’s not your fault. You aren’t responsible for their actions. God is seeing your intentions and your actions. I am praying the girl is safe and right 🙏🙏

Even i am praying that she is safe and alright.

I know logically it's those men they are culprit, they are the wrongdoer, they did this, but still somewhere I have this guilt, but my intention was just to protect her or get some evidence that it did happened.

They left the place and there was no one at that place not even girl when police arrived, so atleast I showed that video to the police officer that it happened.

Maybe they left her alone after the video fiasco, they did shouted at me while i was filming so maybe they got scared and left because they don't know that video is all blurred, so they got scared. I can also pray for such scenario, and that she is safe.

Edited by Vanyaa - 8 months ago
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Posted: 8 months ago
#12

Originally posted by: Vanyaa

I know its a happy new year for most of us. I also know its not an appropriate place to write this topic here. But i have to while its still raw and i remember much of it.

I have an exam soon so my sleep schedule is all f up. I slept maybe around 8 -9 pm with a plan to wake up soon and start my study session.

I woke up with sound, dogs barking ( sometimes they bark, not that big deal), but then i also heard screaming of girl, loud, crying, scared. I doubted if i heard it right (as i just woke up and both dog barking and her screaming was mixed). But it was clear, my room is attached to balcony, I run to open the door and i saw a girl, she was surrounded by many guys and crying to let her go. I also shouted at them " ayeee choodho usko" twice, they didn't even paid any attention to it. Then i came in my room and i dialed 100, i was having anxiety at that moment, I told the officer that there are guys who are bothering a girl, she is screaming, please come fast, I was so out of my mind that i told them my address but i just couldn't remember the landmark (I know i sound stupid as hell), but at last i was able to make them understand and they said that they will dispatch an officer.

Then i ran downstairs and woke up my parents, they were sleeping and didn't heard any of it, I told them all of it, now we didnt heard screams, so I thought they left, Papa also said I'll make the phone call, but I told him that they have dispatched the police and at that very moment i got the text that they have dispatched the police jeep.

We actually thought that these people left, but when i came back to my room again, there were again screaming but even at more distance, I took my phone and captured the screams and some of guys (the distance would be 4 houses between us), so I have some proof that this crime/ incident did happen and we weren't lying or anything. When I made the video they shouted at me as well to not capture the video but it didn't deter them to stop or leave.

I made the phone call at 12:32 am, the jeep arrived at 12: 55 am, and they goons left at 12 :51 am. The video is no use tbh, because the distance was too much, you can understand the screaming and some of their talk but no vehicle or man can be identified.

Police came at 12 : 55 am and they crossed the place of assault while reaching my home, I asked them " did you find the girl there, sir?", but police officer said that "there was no girl, we just crossed that road." Then i showed them the video to atleast make them believe that it did happened, and my mom said that" please try to find the girl." They asked " Do you know the girl?" , we replied " No, neither the girl nor those goons". Police is trying to find the girl, I'll ask the officer who came here in the morning if they found her.


I don't know how many but there were so so many men, there were multiple vehicles, a car,a bike ( these I know of but mayne there were more) but we had so much distance that i couldn't get any vehicle name plate,.

Just watching this scene, i was panicked, my hands- feet got so cold, and I was safe on my balcony, my family downstairs, I can't even imagine what that girl might have feeling, how much scared she was.

I also feel that if only i had some automatic weapon like gun maybe i couldn't have gone, but I am that buzdil i couldn't go out to stop them, I didn't had the guts, neither my family would have allowed and i can't fault them on it. My dad isn't able to walk, we didn't had enough people in the home to confront them, neither have any weapon as well. We called the authorities asap, but still i feel its too late.

Its 2 : 53 am, I'll ask the officer in the morning about the girl, she can't just disappear, right, either they kidnapped her or she went her home, but could she reach there in 4 minutes.

i think its my fault that I made the video, maybe because of that they kidnapped her, i f up i think, if i didn't made the video they wouldn't have left and when police arrive they would have either got caught or atleast left the girl. I don't know now that i am thinking, I feel its my fault, they knew i was making the video and called the authorities, maybe that's why they took her, not only i couldn't helped her i even f up it more. I just hope that they left and she reached home, even if she doesnt report it jist she is at her home safe now.

So sorry Vanya! Pls relax and drink up fluids!I can see through ur anxiety and panic while reading the post. Hopefully the girl is alright and police will do their job. There should definitely be one or two cctv camera that record anything remotely like the vehicle or its make or color. Something. Police are always better in this area. Don’t worry and pray for the girl’s safety. U did the right thing by calling them and also recording the incident, don’t for one second think u f’kd it up! Becos it’s those animals who did!
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Posted: 8 months ago
#13

Originally posted by: Vanyaa

I know its a happy new year for most of us. I also know its not an appropriate place to write this topic here. But i have to while its still raw and i remember much of it.

I have an exam soon so my sleep schedule is all f up. I slept maybe around 8 -9 pm with a plan to wake up soon and start my study session.

I woke up with sound, dogs barking ( sometimes they bark, not that big deal), but then i also heard screaming of girl, loud, crying, scared. I doubted if i heard it right (as i just woke up and both dog barking and her screaming was mixed). But it was clear, my room is attached to balcony, I run to open the door and i saw a girl, she was surrounded by many guys and crying to let her go. I also shouted at them " ayeee choodho usko" twice, they didn't even paid any attention to it. Then i came in my room and i dialed 100, i was having anxiety at that moment, I told the officer that there are guys who are bothering a girl, she is screaming, please come fast, I was so out of my mind that i told them my address but i just couldn't remember the landmark (I know i sound stupid as hell), but at last i was able to make them understand and they said that they will dispatch an officer.

Then i ran downstairs and woke up my parents, they were sleeping and didn't heard any of it, I told them all of it, now we didnt heard screams, so I thought they left, Papa also said I'll make the phone call, but I told him that they have dispatched the police and at that very moment i got the text that they have dispatched the police jeep.

We actually thought that these people left, but when i came back to my room again, there were again screaming but even at more distance, I took my phone and captured the screams and some of guys (the distance would be 4 houses between us), so I have some proof that this crime/ incident did happen and we weren't lying or anything. When I made the video they shouted at me as well to not capture the video but it didn't deter them to stop or leave.

I made the phone call at 12:32 am, the jeep arrived at 12: 55 am, and they goons left at 12 :51 am. The video is no use tbh, because the distance was too much, you can understand the screaming and some of their talk but no vehicle or man can be identified.

Police came at 12 : 55 am and they crossed the place of assault while reaching my home, I asked them " did you find the girl there, sir?", but police officer said that "there was no girl, we just crossed that road." Then i showed them the video to atleast make them believe that it did happened, and my mom said that" please try to find the girl." They asked " Do you know the girl?" , we replied " No, neither the girl nor those goons". Police is trying to find the girl, I'll ask the officer who came here in the morning if they found her.


I don't know how many but there were so so many men, there were multiple vehicles, a car,a bike ( these I know of but mayne there were more) but we had so much distance that i couldn't get any vehicle name plate,.

Just watching this scene, i was panicked, my hands- feet got so cold, and I was safe on my balcony, my family downstairs, I can't even imagine what that girl might have feeling, how much scared she was.

I also feel that if only i had some automatic weapon like gun maybe i couldn't have gone, but I am that buzdil i couldn't go out to stop them, I didn't had the guts, neither my family would have allowed and i can't fault them on it. My dad isn't able to walk, we didn't had enough people in the home to confront them, neither have any weapon as well. We called the authorities asap, but still i feel its too late.

Its 2 : 53 am, I'll ask the officer in the morning about the girl, she can't just disappear, right, either they kidnapped her or she went her home, but could she reach there in 4 minutes.

i think its my fault that I made the video, maybe because of that they kidnapped her, i f up i think, if i didn't made the video they wouldn't have left and when police arrive they would have either got caught or atleast left the girl. I don't know now that i am thinking, I feel its my fault, they knew i was making the video and called the authorities, maybe that's why they took her, not only i couldn't helped her i even f up it more. I just hope that they left and she reached home, even if she doesnt report it jist she is at her home safe now.

I just broke my sleep due to mobile Alarm and just checked the if..

My first attention caught here by this post and I just read it.

I never read any comments yet to give a raw and myself view,what I feel in this situation.

First of all I wanna say Didi calm down and sit and relax drink some water and don't be panic,I know after what happened you can't but don't blame yourself first of all,and think it like Ok ok, happened,Ok ok.

Calm down and don't blame yourself at all.

see their are many perspective un this case,

First of all U was shocked and want to kill themat person on spot but is it possible,no,If I as a boy have any weapon then also I don't have that courage ro go outside and attack on them, because we don't know what will the consequences it can lead the situation ti even worse.i know I sound selfish but I am talking about reality My Mami papa also do the same like calling Police or neighbour but don't let me go outside.

The other perspective of this incident us from that girl's side,she need someone right now who can save her but she can't do anything except screaming so that anyone hear her voice and come,

If all neighbours are enough to catch all the mans then yes,Many times it happened they didn't need police but

here comes goons perspective that they only go to that area where there are less peole live,for their security and police also takes time.

So,this is mixed perspective situation.

We know all the morals and we read many many many books and we know how law work,we saw many itv shwos hwo to deal with those,bit when it comes to reality naa,Sach mein dil dhak dhak karne lagta hai,Kisi ka bhi dimag us time sahi se kaam nahi karta,and I am saluting you didi that you even calll police and handled teh situation warna kayi people toh sochte hai apne sath thodi ho raha h jaane do,

That's why I wanna say,you had that courage and you have that courage that's wjy you made the video and called the police amd shouted on them to stop.

It really takes a lot of courage.

And don't fault yourself that you did wring by making a video and that's why thus happened,think it positively that you did it because it was the need of the hour because what if police don't believe you that there is nothing happened,what if they found the girl but police never identify the victim because of no proof and that's why you thought of making a video.

And the intention was 200 peecent pure.

And now stop thinking that what if I didn't make that video and then police comes and they maybe arrested,and all...

See whatever happened we can't change it ,but it upon us how can we take it.

Take it positively didi and stop overthinking.


Now talking about worrying about that firl yes chinta hoti h ueh sab dekhakar and everyone relates to her,I my self relates to her.It shouldn't happened.

Everyone feel sorry about her,and I guess you will here the news about her in future as well by neighbours and othr sources that who was she and her condition and all..

Haan ham jitna bhi bol le uska dukh toh kam nahi kar sakte jis oar yeh bitti hai.

But the world is full of demons around us and we have to be strong and keep ourself safe from them.

I don't know wheather my opinion is helpful not helpful or right or wrong,I just said whatever I felt, Sorry'didi If I said anything wrong.

Talking about the incident and girl so in some days people will forgot it like a rumor and all.

And we saw online reels, shorts about such things and then be like 2 minute shock saddened and then ok,next scroll.

The nation is changing,this is the thing that should be changed,not a perosn here is safe then we are priding that our India,India made from people, people's thoughts in society made such demons,wife jokes and all...people laughimg un gathering and even a foreigneemr girl also not safe here,such a cheap people,so what's fhe proud we have,Cheap mindset..

Then we slang foreignee tmcof telligm dirty to India.

I think I should conclude my words here,

Take care didi,

Once my mother told me a katha that bholenath often visits to Mrityulok and parwati also wanna go there(mean earch).

Bholenath said Parwati you can't handle Dukh dard peeda of people of that place,but Parwati still wanna go said I will don't say a word about their condition,leg me go.

So then they went to mrityuloka bramhan bychanging rheur attire.

They were passing from Shamshan,Streets and many manmy places,Parwadu was saddened by ddp of the people,some nesds food,some don:t have family,some are 1day old kid out of the temple,some old age peole used to earn to eat themself,some havd serious diseases but don't have enough money to pay...

I mean Oarwati saw worst and worstest ddp of people and asked bholenath to fade away his problems, bholenath did and she asked again to fade away another person's problem,fmthey did.

But after so many trials, Bholenath finally told Oarwati that,I told you Parwati this is mrityu loka,Even we can't solve everyone's problem, that's why I didn't want to bring here, because you fdlt sad here and emotional by seeing their current condition,bit there are worst cases then that,and if happens often in mrityulok from a long time ir era,this is nature's rule,don't feel sad.

I knew only half of the story,Bit I tried mybest to tell it,sorry If I interpreted it wrongly.

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Posted: 8 months ago
#14

Originally posted by: Ambajee

So sorry Vanya! Pls relax and drink up fluids!I can see through ur anxiety and panic while reading the post. Hopefully the girl is alright and police will do their job. There should definitely be one or two cctv camera that record anything remotely like the vehicle or its make or color. Something. Police are always better in this area. Don’t worry and pray for the girl’s safety. U did the right thing by calling them and also recording the incident, don’t for one second think u f’kd it up! Becos it’s those animals who did!

Exactly buddy,..

I also thought about Cctv public camera thing,

Police captured salman khan's gun firing goons,who hude their faces with mask..

Theh were found somewhere in Gujrat despite of the fact that they throw the ifn i nthe river,they found gun..

They dound car,they identify him just by his beard(mooche) that scnee under the mask..

So,I mean police is very powerful in that area,In thsi digital world there are cameras in every Mohalla atkeast one,unddr shop,house or polls.

Because everyone want safety,and if they had cars and vehicle they are not don of movie who can hack camera of whole city,they maybe captured in the camera,like isme nahi toh usme,isme nahi toh next mein.

Kahi se toh aayo hi hogi naa gadi us mohalle mein,Toh jis road se mudi hogi whaa se identify ho jayegi..

Or car number milte hi,sab short out..

Halanki it take oen or two day but police is very smart in those mattrers than us and thsoe goons.

Don't worry dear,she us safe and maybe the felt afraid and left her alone..

Praying for her safely first and rest of all the thigns later.

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Posted: 8 months ago
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Omg it's terrifying to even read.

Dear pl don't be so hard in yourself , you did the best you could. It's natural to get anxiety when faced with such a situation.

Just calm down and think, ask the police to check the nearby cctv cams , there may be some in somebody's house or nearby streets. May be the miscreants can be identified if the police acts ..

Just praying that the girl is safe & sound 🙏

You know the video is blurred and it's useless but they might not know so may be bec of that they fled ..so you did your best in saving her , don't take it to heart

Edited by Krinya - 8 months ago
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Posted: 8 months ago
#16

It's so heartbreaking to read this. You tried your best. You did tried to stop it and made a video to help police to identify culprit. As a common citizen you did the best that you could do. Sometimes you can't do anything as you jumping in the matter will make it worse for the police

Don't blame yourself for the kidnap as there was no gurantee that they would have not kidnapped her as in such incidents criminals tend to hide evidence. Just keep your faith in god and police.

There will be some cctv footages and police would be able to trace them. Just be calm and stop blaming urself.

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Posted: 8 months ago
#17

Originally posted by: Ambajee

So sorry Vanya! Pls relax and drink up fluids!I can see through ur anxiety and panic while reading the post. Hopefully the girl is alright and police will do their job. There should definitely be one or two cctv camera that record anything remotely like the vehicle or its make or color. Something. Police are always better in this area. Don’t worry and pray for the girl’s safety. U did the right thing by calling them and also recording the incident, don’t for one second think u f’kd it up! Becos it’s those animals who did!

My own home have cctv cameras installed but the incident happened at a distance that maybe it didnt captured it, ill check it around that time if they passed by my home (where they could have been captured, but i doubt). Police didn't had time to watch the cctv at that moment because they straightaway left to find her, as i said goons left just 4 mins before they arrive.

Althought I read some other replies as well that police is well equipped to deal with this situation so i am more sure that they would catch them or maybe after the video fiasco they fled because they got scared. Hoping just for these scenario. And she is safe now.🙏

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Posted: 8 months ago
#18

Originally posted by: Maanbhira

I just broke my sleep due to mobile Alarm and just checked the if..

My first attention caught here by this post and I just read it.

I never read any comments yet to give a raw and myself view,what I feel in this situation.

First of all I wanna say Didi calm down and sit and relax drink some water and don't be panic,I know after what happened you can't but don't blame yourself first of all,and think it like Ok ok, happened,Ok ok.

Calm down and don't blame yourself at all.

see their are many perspective un this case,

First of all U was shocked and want to kill themat person on spot but is it possible,no,If I as a boy have any weapon then also I don't have that courage ro go outside and attack on them, because we don't know what will the consequences it can lead the situation ti even worse.i know I sound selfish but I am talking about reality My Mami papa also do the same like calling Police or neighbour but don't let me go outside.

The other perspective of this incident us from that girl's side,she need someone right now who can save her but she can't do anything except screaming so that anyone hear her voice and come,

If all neighbours are enough to catch all the mans then yes,Many times it happened they didn't need police but

here comes goons perspective that they only go to that area where there are less peole live,for their security and police also takes time.

So,this is mixed perspective situation.

We know all the morals and we read many many many books and we know how law work,we saw many itv shwos hwo to deal with those,bit when it comes to reality naa,Sach mein dil dhak dhak karne lagta hai,Kisi ka bhi dimag us time sahi se kaam nahi karta,and I am saluting you didi that you even calll police and handled teh situation warna kayi people toh sochte hai apne sath thodi ho raha h jaane do,

That's why I wanna say,you had that courage and you have that courage that's wjy you made the video and called the police amd shouted on them to stop.

It really takes a lot of courage.

And don't fault yourself that you did wring by making a video and that's why thus happened,think it positively that you did it because it was the need of the hour because what if police don't believe you that there is nothing happened,what if they found the girl but police never identify the victim because of no proof and that's why you thought of making a video.

And the intention was 200 peecent pure.

And now stop thinking that what if I didn't make that video and then police comes and they maybe arrested,and all...

See whatever happened we can't change it ,but it upon us how can we take it.

Take it positively didi and stop overthinking.


Now talking about worrying about that firl yes chinta hoti h ueh sab dekhakar and everyone relates to her,I my self relates to her.It shouldn't happened.

Everyone feel sorry about her,and I guess you will here the news about her in future as well by neighbours and othr sources that who was she and her condition and all..

Haan ham jitna bhi bol le uska dukh toh kam nahi kar sakte jis oar yeh bitti hai.

But the world is full of demons around us and we have to be strong and keep ourself safe from them.

I don't know wheather my opinion is helpful not helpful or right or wrong,I just said whatever I felt, Sorry'didi If I said anything wrong.

Talking about the incident and girl so in some days people will forgot it like a rumor and all.

And we saw online reels, shorts about such things and then be like 2 minute shock saddened and then ok,next scroll.

The nation is changing,this is the thing that should be changed,not a perosn here is safe then we are priding that our India,India made from people, people's thoughts in society made such demons,wife jokes and all...people laughimg un gathering and even a foreigneemr girl also not safe here,such a cheap people,so what's fhe proud we have,Cheap mindset..

Then we slang foreignee tmcof telligm dirty to India.

I think I should conclude my words here,

Take care didi,

Once my mother told me a katha that bholenath often visits to Mrityulok and parwati also wanna go there(mean earch).

Bholenath said Parwati you can't handle Dukh dard peeda of people of that place,but Parwati still wanna go said I will don't say a word about their condition,leg me go.

So then they went to mrityuloka bramhan bychanging rheur attire.

They were passing from Shamshan,Streets and many manmy places,Parwadu was saddened by ddp of the people,some nesds food,some don:t have family,some are 1day old kid out of the temple,some old age peole used to earn to eat themself,some havd serious diseases but don't have enough money to pay...

I mean Oarwati saw worst and worstest ddp of people and asked bholenath to fade away his problems, bholenath did and she asked again to fade away another person's problem,fmthey did.

But after so many trials, Bholenath finally told Oarwati that,I told you Parwati this is mrityu loka,Even we can't solve everyone's problem, that's why I didn't want to bring here, because you fdlt sad here and emotional by seeing their current condition,bit there are worst cases then that,and if happens often in mrityulok from a long time ir era,this is nature's rule,don't feel sad.

I knew only half of the story,Bit I tried mybest to tell it,sorry If I interpreted it wrongly.

Thanks for your kind words, i am also praying for her safely and hope that those men could get caught and punished accordingly.

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Posted: 8 months ago
#19

Originally posted by: Vanyaa

Thanks for your kind words, i am also praying for her safely and hope that those men could get caught and punished accordingly.

Same here,

Don't worry,god is very kind,

They will do good to girl,our prayers are Listening above and processed for work.

Just remember your ishth god and tell them everything will be all right,

Just tell your heart ❤️ that everything will be fine soon.

And all the best for your exams didi.

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Posted: 8 months ago
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Originally posted by: Krinya

Omg it's terrifying to even read.

Dear pl don't be so hard in yourself , you did the best you could. It's natural to get anxiety when faced with such a situation.

Just calm down and think, ask the police to check the nearby cctv cams , there may be some in somebody's house or nearby streets. May be the miscreants can be identified if the police acts ..

Just praying that the girl is safe & sound 🙏

You know the video is blurred and it's useless but they might not know so may be bec of that they fled ..so you did your best in saving her , don't take it to heart

When police reached i showed them the video and they left asap, as it was just 4 mins since goons left so they thought of checking the area first to find the girl.

My own home have cctv cameras installed but incident was at a distance that most probably it wasn't captured, as i said it distance was around 4 houses between us and those people, but I'll check if they passed or anything got captured.

Though i read many replies and now i am more assured that Police is well equipped to deal with this situation so they will find those men.

I am also hoping that my video capturing made them fled as they don't know that video was blurred so they escaped and left the girl. I am really hoping for this that she is safe somewhere.

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