Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 09Dec’24 Written Update, Episode Discussion - Page 32

She let go else they would have shown us her plotting phase during 3mths she grew to like ab like they became close... n she would have been shown plotting

Originally posted by: theromanticcrap

Ruhi might’ve tried to move on from Armaan, but trying isn’t the same as actually letting go. Deep down, she still subconsciously blames Abhira for losing Armaan. When Abhira’s parentage was revealed, it triggered that part of her again—the part that holds Abhira accountable for all her miseries. It’s like all the unresolved anger and pain she tried to bury came rushing back, making her project her frustrations onto Abhira even more.

Exactly. Ruhi k character ki sabse bari problem yehi hai ke she doesn't know how to let things go.

Hmm but she got punished too in q diff manner her husband n his actions n all

Hmm but she got punished too in q diff manner her husband n his actions n all

Ruhi hasn't been shown plotting in those months so ig she let go of armaan but she didn't let go of aj

Originally posted by: PoojaaNair

She let go else they would have shown us her plotting phase during 3mths she grew to like ab like they became close... n she would have been shown plotting

She didn't let go. She pushed it back as Ar rejected her. She had no choice but to accept Ab and be okay with her as that was her last resort. But when it was revealed that Ab was Akshara's daughter she brought all her resentment and frustration back up. Ruhi is nit known for letting things go.

Originally posted by: theromanticcrap

You’re not wrong, but I see it differently. Just because someone is taunting you doesn’t mean you should want something that might never happen or isn’t right for you. Having a baby isn’t the only important thing in life. A child shouldn’t be born just to fulfill societal expectations, family pressure, or to prove something. A baby should come into the world because of love—and if not that, at least be loved unconditionally once they’re here.

I know AbhiMaan’s baby was born out of love, but having a child shouldn’t be treated as a priority. That’s why I agreed with Armaan when he wanted Abhira to consider an abortion. Abortion isn’t wrong; it can be the most logical and compassionate decision in certain situations. Bringing a child into the world only to lose their mother soon after is heartbreaking—not just for the baby, but for the father and the family as well.

When there are options like adoption, IVF, or surrogacy, why choose a path that leads to so much pain? Abhira wanting to have a baby knowing she wouldn’t live to raise it was, in my opinion, a flawed decision. Yes, the intention—to bring a baby into a world full of love—was beautiful. But what about the aftermath? Leaving the baby behind?

Going back to PH without BSP would be hard for both AbhiMaan, but time heals all wounds. They can heal and have their own child later, when the timing and circumstances are right—not to prove a point or compensate for anything, but simply because they want to share a part of themselves with the world.

Originally posted by: PoojaaNair

Hmm but she got punished too in q diff manner her husband n his actions n all

Ruhi hasn't been shown plotting in those months so ig she let go of armaan but she didn't let go of aj

Umm no thats not punishment. How is that everybody's deeds are exposed in front of family except for hers? Just because she was nice for 3 months?

Originally posted by: Indira1211

yes this will be how we will deal,with this situation in real,life,.but it doesn’t happen on itv especially in rishta. In a real case scenario..abhira would have consulted specialists to sort out all her healthy issues and got treatment. And when she’s physically healthy she would have planned and tried for a baby..not jumped in and got pregnant while she’s not healthy and had a complicated pregnancy that put her life at risk. On itv educated woman never use contraception ..they all just do the deed and get pregnant..like really..have they never heard of family planning..😂😂

Itv or family planning ka dooor dooor tak koi connection nahi hai behn 😂😂

I think she let it go as she wasn't shown plotting she had only love

U tell me then in paras why u feel ruhi was faking it..do tell