Originally posted by: JustaFan13
Abheera's mom was killed by a gunda.
But Ruhi's mom and dad dies because of Akshara. FYI Neil's death can partially be Akshara's fault, but Akshara didn't kill Aarohi. That was Ruhi, even if it was unintentional. Looks like you're having memory loss like Ruhi.
Abheera didn't know about her family until few days back. She got a chance to grow up with her mother.
Ruhi had a big family and now she doesn't, because of Akshara. That's not Akshara's fault either. She left Ruhi in care of the entire family of Birla's and Goenka's. Half the Goenka's left and Birla's don't even care about her.
Abheera didn't fall in love and her BF dint leave her. Abhira fell in love and her husband left her because he was stupid and was unsure who he loves.
Ruhi's BF left her and asked her to marry his brother and after his death he promised to marry her and left her at the alter. Ruhi said yes to the marriage proposal herself. No one forced her. She was impulsive. She did what she did because she knew Armaan wouldn't marry her and go against his family. So she accepted it and married Rohit because she hoped that Armaan would stay in PH with her and he'd remain unmarried forever. She was living in a delulu world of her own. Not Abhira or Akshara's fault AGAIN. Ruhi got so many signs before marriage that Armaan didn't love her. Did she want to see? She willfully ignored them because she loved him. It didn't matter that he didn't love her. Her obsession with Armaan knew no bounds that even after he rejected her, she came back to her sasural playing good wife/bahu and sabotaging AbhiMaan wedding because Armaan was hers until proven otherwise.
Also Ruhi's childhood trauma was never addressed. So yes, if not addressed at young age, all this is expected. Addressed by who? She had always been like this. Recently I have been watching old episodes of Gen 3. She didn't have a father, but she had Abhimanyu. Even then she'll get worried that her mother would leave her or her poppy would. In the Gangaur track, when Aarohi came to know the truth about Abhir's parentage, she runs away and Ruhi gets all panicked when Abhimanyu decides to go in search of Aarohi. Why? Because she has no self-worth. She always needed reassurance from others, all the time. Also her blaming Abhira and trying to manipulate others, victimizing herself are all lakshans of pre-leap Aarohi. After all the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Ruhi having the Goenka's for 23 years of her life, couldn't erase her insecurities and boost her self-worth then there's no hope for her.
FYI, i am not justifying Ruhi's actions out of trauma.
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