Agree to this point she should give her time and everything but has ever ruhi wanted to come out of her trauma. Whenever people has tried to help her voh chhati hu nhi thi. Usko thek hi hona nhi tha. G fam ki sabse badi galti hei yaha ek bacha lo padhkar dusre ko chor dete hei. Aise hi rahe hei voh log Akshara ko aise conditioned parwarish di thi arohi ko kabhi b samjhane ki koshish nhi ki thi bas usko jyada hi pamper kiya aur arohi k liye akshara ko dur kiya.
Goenkas have always done with their kids, they managed to f up every single one in some way or another, right from Kartik to Ruhi tbvh.
Regarding Ruhi doesn't want to get better, who doesn't want to get better man, I don't think anyone would be happy to get panic attacks, anxiety attacks, mood swings, etc.
Now obviously we aren't shown what happens during generation leap. But from the looks of it Goenka tried the approach of hiding the problem till it goes on its own regarding Ruhi issue . And it backfired on them badly.
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