Yes totally agree!. Also sharjeena used to encourage him to build his games and be excited with him working for joseph late nights too. When he got the data entry job after joseph double crossed him, she even told him there was no need to do that and that his skills and creativity will get it's due - he just needed patience ..and now when all that was coming to fruition and he was an equal partner in a start up and being recognized for his talent ..not sure why she's suddenly getting so depressed. I understand she craves his attention ..who doesn't like their loved one's attention but her behavior went from super mature and understanding to very childish ..like not even communicating her needs to him or not telling him that the doctor said her BP was high and to take care and what not ..how is he supposed to know that it's anything other than a regular pregnancy when she says sab theek hai - and her comment like "tumhare liya paisa hi sab kuch hai" was kind of out of place - that statement makes sense if they were already well to do with stable jobs and then mustafa was going all in on making even more money when they already had more than enough to support a child ..but clearly that's not the case so that statement makes no sense to me!
the writer totally screwed her character ..and the part of mustafa that doesn't like using her money or that puts down her parents concerns is also not well built in ..
they could have turned this thing around by sharjeena being independent and happy and ignoring mustafa and taking good care of herself, doing well in her job and getting promoted ..they barely show anything concerning her career these days ..she seems to be always at home moping and crying ..not nice! ..and now if she loses the baby and blames mustafa that's going to be even worse - when in fact she could have sought timely medical help!!! ..argh! ..
Originally posted by: MiVida_Messi
Yes, he is hardly home because at times we cannot choose to ignore career defining events and sit at home, same thing happened with Mustafa, it happens with everyone who is starting from scratch, and Sharjeena is educated herself to understand this. I am a full time PhD student and sometimes I am going home for 6 hours sleep only, that did create a couple of fights between me and my boyfriend as he complained I do not care to spend time with him, however he realized it once I told him that it is not in my control, and all days won't be rosy and colorful, he understood (thankfully, he is a lovely man).
Mustafa seeing her dizzy and leaving was definitely his fault, however I believe Sharjeena should have warned him once doctor told her that she is weak, instead of taking it seriously she succumbed into more grief, as much as Mustafa is blamed for ignorance, she is equally responsible for not taking precautions like prioritizing her health and well being and getting care by either telling him clearly or leaving to her parents, she is not an orphan.
And as I said, he has repeatedly told her that he is trying to make things easier for the upcoming baby, it is not rocket science that the baby is accidental and none of them were ready, while Jeena took it positively, he saw the ugly side of being moneyless and homeless and feared his child being a victim of his shortcomings, and any parent feeling like that is not wrong, feeling worried for the baby's future is not equal to thinking the baby is a burden? If Jeena thinks that the baby can grow up on his own, earn education and respect without Dad's money and support then she is delusional, to raise a child parents need two basic things, good understanding, maturity and money, sadly Mustafa and Jeena lack all of these, falling in love and feeling the butterflies is different but standing with each other for the struggling days is difficult, while she supported him immensely when he was homeless and jobless, she failed to realize that all he was doing is getting a job, not banging other women and he failed to realize that she is a wife and not a therapist.
Mustafa was fitting in Jeena's so called perfect list resembling the novels she read and all was fine, the day he started facing the reality she wants him to be the romancing homeloving Mustafa again, while Jeena was the therapist who was saying yes sir to all his childish stuff and the day she started cribbing about attention, he is busy with work. Clear case of love with zero understanding and of course unprotected sex which is bad given they conceived when he was practically jobless and even got betrayed by Joseph, WTF is this.
. I remember in Kankar, Sikandar again played by Fahad was a loving but controlling husband and one day during argument he pushes Kiran (Sanam Baloch) and she loses the baby, now that was a great reason to blame him, here it seems like prioritizing career and baby's luxurious future is making him a villainous figure for his wife and god she was telling the baby that your father left us alone, after 20 episodes of great writing, all we got was phuski bomb 
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