Kabhi Main Kabhi Tum (ARY) #4 - Fahad Mustafa, Hania Aamir - Page 54

Yes. I’m okay with the writer playing the ego card for him but the moments have to be chosen wisely. Not over trivial things that should be fine.

Originally posted by: Kittykatkit

yeah but his mother was just as dismissive towards sharjeena and she tolerated it . He should be able to do the same with her parents

And am not denying it..and when is mustafa not tolerating it did he misbehave with her parents..he ranted to her just like she ranted to him when the whole paise fiasco happened at his home..if we are going by that then toh that was rubab ka appreciation hi..tab she felt insulted ke token of appreciation nahi hai toh it is same for him it may look like token of appreciation on surface ya maa ka pyaar but woh nahi hai na the first thign her mtoher said yesterday was mustafa toh khayal rakh nahi paayega provide kar nahi paayega unki beti ko achi khauraak nahi de paayega as if unki beti bhuki hai when mustafa is constantly the one bringing fruits ghosht bla bka all the timr even in poverty ..her mother is on surface meethi banti hain and achi banane ki acting hi karti gain when i. Reality even she is suggesting her daughter to lie to her husband urhmm. Very nice of her.

Also I find it extremely ajeeb ke these very people couldn't keep their daughter at their house then it was about izzat and beti se jaan chudai ASAP chahe kisi ke bhi saath ho I mean mustafa toh tab bhi kangla tha but tab they were like we Don't care just get rid of beti..Caz so called izzat and then they behave like this with the same guy who supposedly have saved their izzat too and has always been nice to them and their daughter but nah..so yeah her parents are no saint either no matter how much they try to act more sophisticated and meethe..

Edit: also would like to add baat maayke ke khane ki nahi hai ..aise toh sidra bhi is always at her parents to eat and then take so much back from her maayka all the leftovers all the time.. amd it is a very normal thing to do as is said bg others too..it is the way it was pitched by SJ ke parents and her maa yesterday and then the way it was sent. Aunty ko dena tha toh tareeke se deti jahan pyar lagta..you can't step in his house can't respect him but then also make sure to make him feel small who can't afford mutton🙄 kahan tha yeh care for your daughter when you were acting as if the world ended and doing dramay and was like first banda pakkad ke shaadi kar do usse..woh toh you got lucky ke mustafa acha insaan nikla warna kya ..

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Urhmmmm did these so called parents ever tried to talk to him decently..heck they totally disregard his presence does not even shake hands with him everytime insult him as if bhagaooed their daughter etc..and still calling him useless and pata nahi jya kya as of today's episode itself..they didn't even had the decency to congratulate him ek call karke ke he is also about to become dad but sure mistafa is wrong in saying jata rahe hain..agar pyar se dena hota toh kya Amma ji ko maut padh rahi thi uske ghar aake tareeke se dene ki ohir banda kehta ke haan bhai pyar hai..the way they send food with a rider felt more insulting and aukqat dilhana then care and pampering but sure Mustafa is wrong..also where did he say she can't have it..usko bura laga he said I won't have it that is all and woh jaayaz hai..he has only being respectful towards them but they call him kachra and kya kya nahi ..ek dafah usse hand shake tak nahi karfe sharjeena ke dad sahib but ok he is wrong in feeling that insult.. and uski ego hai😳🙄

You cannot expect them to show every little detail, they did not show Sharjeena talking to her parents either, so what if there was no scene of them congratulating the to be parents.

Sending food through rider is in no way insulting, if you have a true relationship- like Sharjeena, ofcourse, has with her parents! You cannot expect anybody and everybody to be readily available at your doorstep if they wish to pamper you, that is not necessary. They can pamper their pregnant daughter from a distance if somehow they cannot visit her and there is nothing wrong in it!

And I did not talk about her dad's rude ass behaviour towards mustafa. But the reaction he gave for mere dinner sent to them by her parents, or infact her mother- who actually treated him with love and respect, was too much. I clearly mentioned that monetary interference can be judged as insult, but how is a mother pampering her pregnant daughter with a meal of her choice insult??!!

And also, they did not call him kachra, it was him who took that statement otherwise, because the statement was clearly about the mohalla!

Not supporting her father's behaviour, ngl, but I also do not favour the ott reactions mustafa gives when it's about her parents, while she used to jhelofy everything in his house with a smile. If he is ready to give her all the luxuries of life but not basic respect to her parents' love and care, those luxuries are of no use!

Originally posted by: Tiara-p

I liked the episode except for the food thing.His reaction to the pregnancy news was pretty realistic,he is tensed about the future and it’s justified.I don’t understand what happened to Sharjeena,when has she become such fantasy type girl?She was logical and headstrong before and now all she thinks about Mustafa and nothing else?I feel like her character is compromised to highlight Mustafa more which is making me upset,bcs it wasn’t needed at all?I had better expectations from Farhat.All day every day she is only concerned about Mustafa and it’s getting annoying at this point.Her character just took such u-turn and it’s disappointing to see as a viewer.She was doing MBA right?Has she left that or what?Doesnt she have office work to think about?Why is she 24/7 doing Mustafa Mustafa,like just show me something else?Show me her career growing as well,show me that she is trying for promotion,show me her having some career goals perhaps?She is a topper forgodsake,what Farhat has reduced Sharjeena into,within this 3-4 episodes

Her career is getting sidelined, and while I understand it is because of the story, I was genuinely happy seeing her working, and focusing on her career at the beginning. For once the fl was actually goal oriented, but nahh...uska career bhaad me jaata nazar aa rha hai mujhe ab 🙂

Originally posted by: Stormborn01

Why do PTV writers do this nonsense? To show girls so accepting and tolerant and then men so intolerant and give them a lazy excuse for the trash behavior too. It’s so backwards. If you care about her, care about her parents too. Basic decency hai. Their concern for their daughter is completely valid. And they are staying within their boundaries

Exactly, this is so basic!! If she has to respect her in laws, so does he...its a two way track but we often ignore the second part of it. They have every right to pamper her, to be excited, to fulfill her Little demands, and not everything is about his insult. That was just too much, made no sense!

And it's not just ptv, the general idea of women in lead is the 'devi' type- ready to qurban anything for her family - who in return gives only beizzati! And they are tagged as achi bahus. The one's like Sharjeena-who work in office, then kitchen, managing the entire house, while listening to the constant taunts from in laws are considered as the bahu material. Always forgiving, always loving- it's so infuriating sometime, especially in scenarios where even punishment is not enough.

Originally posted by: Tara_memu12

You cannot expect them to show every little detail, they did not show Sharjeena talking to her parents either, so what if there was no scene of them congratulating the to be parents.

Sending food through rider is in no way insulting, if you have a true relationship- like Sharjeena, ofcourse, has with her parents! You cannot expect anybody and everybody to be readily available at your doorstep if they wish to pamper you, that is not necessary. They can pamper their pregnant daughter from a distance if somehow they cannot visit her and there is nothing wrong in it!

And I did not talk about her dad's rude ass behaviour towards mustafa. But the reaction he gave for mere dinner sent to them by her parents, or infact her mother- who actually treated him with love and respect, was too much. I clearly mentioned that monetary interference can be judged as insult, but how is a mother pampering her pregnant daughter with a meal of her choice insult??!!

And also, they did not call him kachra, it was him who took that statement otherwise, because the statement was clearly about the mohalla!

Not supporting her father's behaviour, ngl, but I also do not favour the ott reactions mustafa gives when it's about her parents, while she used to jhelofy everything in his house with a smile. If he is ready to give her all the luxuries of life but not basic respect to her parents' love and care, those luxuries are of no use!

Did u see how her father walked away after that?? As I said they don't have basic respect and courtesy towards mustafa too esp the dad..and the khana is coming from his paisa too..if he really loves hi daughter so much he can give some respect to her husband who btw is someone whom HE married her off with..it wasn't a love marriage ya kuch where she disobeyed them to be with him in anyway..as I said if anything they should be giving him more izzat but they always act like he is a nobody..it is a lot of grey in all their behaviors and nobody is a saint..again I have to ask plz point me where mustafa has misbehaved with her parents or haven't given them izzat since u are bringing that she respected his parents and she did I am not disregarding that but he do3s that too for her..aisi complains toh she also did ti him when he ahd to samjhao her ke ghar Abba ka hai even if she obeyed and did all the work and tolerated it again it wasn't as of mustafa was unaware or blind towards what his mom did to her or her sacrifices infact usko hamesha zyada chubha hai ke meri ammi meri biwi ki insult karti hain.

So no mustafa ne agar vent kia toh uske baad makeup bhi kar Lia and him objecting to it is not misbehaving with his sasuralis in anyway either..he also voiced what he felt like ke it feels insulting and aur zyada given their situation.even if we assume ke they didn't mean to insult .( which is for me but I can give a benefit of doubt on that)

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Anyone is shipping them yet?

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Originally posted by: meandwho

Anyone is shipping them yet?

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Originally posted by: Kittykatkit

I’m shipping him and Natasha now

And I have watched more Nadeel dates, so their chemistry is there