Kabhi Main Kabhi Tum (ARY) #4 - Fahad Mustafa, Hania Aamir - Page 53

Originally posted by: Stormborn01

I really liked how realistically they portrayed Mustafa’s reaction to the pregnancy today. It’s not that he’s not happy or isn’t caring about her or doing what he can to support her, it’s just that he’s looking at it from a practical and financial standpoint as well whereas Sharjeena is more optimistic and focused on the positive. But the good thing is that they are constantly communicating and taking care of each other despite not being in the same mental state.

The only thing that was really extreme for me was Mustafa rejecting the food that came from Sharjeena’s mom’s house. That was uncalled for and rude. Parents have a right over their kids as well and just because his parents aren’t giving a crap doesn’t mean hers won’t either. Especially given that she’s pregnant now. The ego thing is being taken too far imo with him and it’s becoming annoying now. Not everything is some scheme against him to make him look bad. Sometimes it’s just a mother’s love for her daughter. Like you can have dignity and self respect without being petty and insecure like this? On top of it all, his priority is Sharjeena’s happiness most of the time so it’s ironic how she’s the one he ends up hurting the most when he takes out his ego card. Why punish her for everything that’s going wrong?

Maybe it could have been something bigger for him to react to. Like her parents getting them an apartment or something to live in while she’s pregnant. Then the reaction would still make sense. But over FOOD? Literally food? From her mom? His reaction made no sense 🤡

Exactly! That was very stupid and enraging. They are her parents, your parents don't give a damn, that doesn't mean that her's won't either. That is their daughter, and they are going to become grandparents for the first time...it's their fuking right! Feeling insulted over monetary interference is still ok, but over food? How fragile is his male ego?!

Originally posted by: Tara_memu12

Exactly! That was very stupid and enraging. They are her parents, your parents don't give a damn, that doesn't mean that her's won't either. That is their daughter, and they are going to become grandparents for the first time...it's their fuking right! Feeling insulted over monetary interference is still ok, but over food? How fragile is his male ego?!

Some of these things in writing are really forced. For someone who’s had the chill personality that Mustafa has had his entire adult life, it makes sense for him to say no to certain things now (sure), but these little things were never his problem. And still shouldn’t be. He can be insecure but petty tou na ho. Maybe he could have just felt bad about it later that he couldn’t get her the stuff she craves to eat without making that scene at the dining table. Araam se khaana tou khaa leta. You can show both things in a better way.

Anyway we know where all this behavior is leading

https://youtu.be/ljCosOEblyU?si=HCOHfHZNz7WB0ONX

Saw this guys? That was a small but good attempt.

Originally posted by: Tara_memu12

Exactly! That was very stupid and enraging. They are her parents, your parents don't give a damn, that doesn't mean that her's won't either. That is their daughter, and they are going to become grandparents for the first time...it's their fuking right! Feeling insulted over monetary interference is still ok, but over food? How fragile is his male ego?!

Urhmmmm did these so called parents ever tried to talk to him decently..heck they totally disregard his presence does not even shake hands with him everytime insult him as if bhagaooed their daughter etc..and still calling him useless and pata nahi jya kya as of today's episode itself..they didn't even had the decency to congratulate him ek call karke ke he is also about to become dad but sure mistafa is wrong in saying jata rahe hain..agar pyar se dena hota toh kya Amma ji ko maut padh rahi thi uske ghar aake tareeke se dene ki ohir banda kehta ke haan bhai pyar hai..the way they send food with a rider felt more insulting and aukqat dilhana then care and pampering but sure Mustafa is wrong..also where did he say she can't have it..usko bura laga he said I won't have it that is all and woh jaayaz hai..he has only being respectful towards them but they call him kachra and kya kya nahi ..ek dafah usse hand shake tak nahi karfe sharjeena ke dad sahib but ok he is wrong in feeling that insult.. and uski ego hai😳🙄

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Urhmmmm did these so called parents ever tried to talk to him decently..heck they totally disregard his presence does not even shake hands with him everytime insult him as if bhagaooed their daughter etc..and still calling him useless and pata nahi jya kya as of today's episode itself..they didn't even had the decency to congratulate him ek call karke ke he is also about to become dad but sure mistafa is wrong in saying jata rahe hain..agar pyar se dena hota toh kya Amma ji ko maut padh rahi thi uske ghar aake tareeke se dene ki ohir banda kehta ke haan bhai pyar hai..the way they send food with a rider felt more insulting and aukqat dilhana then care and pampering but sure Mustafa is wrong..also where did he say she can't have it..usko bura laga he said I won't have it that is all and woh jaayaz hai..he has only being respectful towards them but they call him kachra and kya kya nahi ..ek dafah usse hand shake tak nahi karfe sharjeena ke dad sahib but ok he is wrong in feeling that insult.. and uski ego hai😳🙄

Yar sharjeena’s dad is the rude one. Since when has her mom been rude to Mustafa? She has even supported Sharjeena’s decisions throughout and supports Mustafa in front of her husband too. Khaana tou unho ne bhaija tha. Even today she took Mustafa’s side that his parents did wrong by him.

Anyway his reaction to food was a bit much. It’s just food. By her mom. Jo keh for sure pyaar se hi aaya tha given how her mom has been shown to us. She is respecting their boundaries but also wants to pamper her daughter. And her pregnant daughter wants to have a nice meal with her husband instead of ego ke maslay sunna. Kuch zyada forced tha woh scene

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Urhmmmm did these so called parents ever tried to talk to him decently..heck they totally disregard his presence does not even shake hands with him everytime insult him as if bhagaooed their daughter etc..and still calling him useless and pata nahi jya kya as of today's episode itself..they didn't even had the decency to congratulate him ek call karke ke he is also about to become dad but sure mistafa is wrong in saying jata rahe hain..agar pyar se dena hota toh kya Amma ji ko maut padh rahi thi uske ghar aake tareeke se dene ki ohir banda kehta ke haan bhai pyar hai..the way they send food with a rider felt more insulting and aukqat dilhana then care and pampering but sure Mustafa is wrong..also where did he say she can't have it..usko bura laga he said I won't have it that is all and woh jaayaz hai..he has only being respectful towards them but they call him kachra and kya kya nahi ..ek dafah usse hand shake tak nahi karfe sharjeena ke dad sahib but ok he is wrong in feeling that insult.. and uski ego hai😳🙄

Originally posted by: Kittykatkit

yeah but his mother was just as dismissive towards sharjeena and she tolerated it . He should be able to do the same with her parents

Lol his mother was much more worse than Sharjeena’s dad but still Sharjeena showed respect towards her and tolerated her,only bcs she cared about Mustafa and didn’t want to give him a tough time with the saas bahu fight. It’s disheartening to see him not putting or even trying to put the same effort when it comes to her set of parents?Over reacting like this on food?Does that even make sense?Her mother has every freaking right to pamper her own pregnant kid,her mother has always behaved well with him so why is it hurting his ego so much that she sent some food for her own daughter?!It was literally extreme reaction and completely unnecessary as well

Originally posted by: Tiara-p

Lol his mother was much more worse than Sharjeena’s dad but still Sharjeena showed respect towards her and tolerated her,only bcs she cared about Mustafa and didn’t want to give him a tough time with the saas bahu fight. It’s disheartening to see him not putting or even trying to put the same effort when it comes to her set of parents?Over reacting like this on food?Does that even make sense?Her mother has every freaking right to pamper her own pregnant kid,her mother has always behaved well with him so why is it hurting his ego so much that she sent some food for her own daughter?!It was literally extreme reaction and completely unnecessary as well

Why do PTV writers do this nonsense? To show girls so accepting and tolerant and then men so intolerant and give them a lazy excuse for the trash behavior too. It’s so backwards. If you care about her, care about her parents too. Basic decency hai. Their concern for their daughter is completely valid. And they are staying within their boundaries

I liked the episode except for the food thing.His reaction to the pregnancy news was pretty realistic,he is tensed about the future and it’s justified.I don’t understand what happened to Sharjeena,when has she become such fantasy type girl?She was logical and headstrong before and now all she thinks about Mustafa and nothing else?I feel like her character is compromised to highlight Mustafa more which is making me upset,bcs it wasn’t needed at all?I had better expectations from Farhat.All day every day she is only concerned about Mustafa and it’s getting annoying at this point.Her character just took such u-turn and it’s disappointing to see as a viewer.She was doing MBA right?Has she left that or what?Doesnt she have office work to think about?Why is she 24/7 doing Mustafa Mustafa,like just show me something else?Show me her career growing as well,show me that she is trying for promotion,show me her having some career goals perhaps?She is a topper forgodsake,what Farhat has reduced Sharjeena into,within this 3-4 episodes

Originally posted by: Stormborn01

Why do PTV writers do this nonsense? To show girls so accepting and tolerant and then men so intolerant and give them a lazy excuse for the trash behavior too. It’s so backwards. If you care about her, care about her parents too. Basic decency hai. Their concern for their daughter is completely valid. And they are staying within their boundaries