It took some time to read post & tried to respond to each para seperate but can take time. I will have to respond generally. I dont know if I did @Adiandsid explicitly but Virat should apologise privately to Bhavani... also with virat & Amu express feelings publicly. Its like when JK leaves door open inviting trouble. VA doing same expressing feelings publicly
The first few paragraphs. I can respond by saying points @Adiandsid can make show much better. We are in position where we been given so low standard from show that any improvement is a releif. I'm not falling for this chem rubbish in the show but happy we finally get to a point where relationship has some status. Most ML & FL on shows understand what they feel incl KBB RV & Purvi in that revenge marriage have admit feelings.
In terms of last paragraphs for Virat & Amu to come to actual realisation of challenges. This is reason for my comment VA they can make efforts to solve problems but writers don't give them will power to acheive them.
Originally posted by: Adiandsid
First up, we are quite likely dealing with 'not much depth in thought given by the writers in the scenes', but I'll assume due diligence is taken by them, and go by what it may reflect on the characters. But before i write about it, I fear my version of analysis will be 'bad' Virat, 'dumb' Amruta. [So heavy bias there.] But, somehow found a much better way to put it: Virat seems 'tactical' (immediate) and Amruta seems 'strategic' (long term).
para 1: Some growth for Virat perhaps. But did he do it because he wants the immediate gratification of pataoing his Baiko - his already ready to be pataoed Baiko? Probably since the deo ad, he knows he has her in his bag... and wants to seal the deal / sign on the dotted lines. He doesn't want any disturbance.
Nimmi thing came up... he delegated the matter. [Felt Shekhar did more by asking Anjali to be around Nimmi.] Virat switches almost immediately to 'I have something important to talk to you.' (that switch felt odd for me.) He wants to get this done, right here, right now... and probably in his head, he has plans for later too. He didn't think about Nimmi later... except when Shekhar was around.
Going back to Bhavani/Candy v/s Babs argument. Amruta is made aware of it, and delegates the Good Samaritan work to Anjali... and tries to deal with the situation. Virat looks at the same thing and wants to say 'Do Not Disturb'... because I want to patao my Baiko.
Immediate threat to it: disgruntled saasu ma... and I wish he hadn't mentioned in the past 'here I am looking at ways to manao my saasuma', so even though the apology can be good, it comes across as means to an end / not that genuine. And (perhaps because of my negative bias) I felt the two apologies have not been good enough.
Ammu is kind of desperate too. Say, even she may have plans for the later in her head. But felt her attempts are more genuine... though it may be dumb / a mistake. Make him dance with Babs, dance with Babs herself too, pushing him to not give up around Bhavani.
Do get the impression, that even if she wants to go ahead in the relationship 'desperately', unless Virat strongly intervenes (with his 'headlights') 'the deer' wont go ahead until issues she is aware of - Bhavani, Babs - are resolved... and perhaps (or hopefully) a proper wedding ritual too.
Virat may want to ignore the issues and world and go ahead with Amruta, but wont do the necessary thing - move away with her. Amruta may want to resolve the issues and go ahead with Virat, but she hasn't been doing anything about it either.
[haven't got to the 2nd and 3rd para yet... may be in another post... but I guess have written the general tone in this one.]
the plan was that he has to run from there... probably seen by Virat too... but not be recognised... waah... the plan 
[writers trying to convince us crap.] 
So she can survive till then.
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