YRKKH BTS, SM updates & spoilers thread #50 - Page 79

There is a difference between ego and self-esteem/ self-love …there can be nothing more pathetic than for a person to be completely lacking in self-love or self-esteem and being dependent on the mercy of the other person to sustain a relationship ..no lopsided relationship will ever stand the test of time …I think this show has proved that in previous generations ..so, be it man or woman, unless they learn to respect themselves first, they can never be successful at building a solid relationship …and when you don’t respect yourself, your partner will also stop respecting you after a point …what a relationship that would turn out to be …why is it so difficult for ITV shows to bring up issues like therapy and counselling in a positive and healthy manner ..this show is generally a disappointment but on the count of mental health issues, it is an abysmal failure !

Originally posted by: Aadi04

This is a very controversial game .. especially the older folks took it too realistically..
Vidya took it badly ..

anita Raj took it well

but fufasa was annoyed

Arman was baffled

Rohit was traumatised and he let out he’s here for a short while only

Naah Romit said he has been here for a short while,so he hasn't had that kind of camaraderie yet, that's what I understood

Originally posted by: mysticxmyth

I think this is what is going to happen (if miscarriage is on the cards) leading the entire family to isolate her, Rohit-Ruhi will hate her and it will be Armaan-Abhira who will support her and help her patch up with everyone which is when she will realise that she treated them like shit and will go back to being achchi maa to them.

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

There is a difference between ego and self-esteem/ self-love …there can be nothing more pathetic than for a person to be completely lacking in self-love or self-esteem and being dependent on the mercy of the other person to sustain a relationship ..no lopsided relationship will ever stand the test of time …I think this show has proved that in previous generations ..so, be it man or woman, unless they learn to respect themselves first, they can never be successful at building a solid relationship …and when you don’t respect yourself, your partner will also stop respecting you after a point …what a relationship that would turn out to be …why is it so difficult for ITV shows to bring up issues like therapy and counselling in a positive and healthy manner ..this show is generally a disappointment but on the count of mental health issues, it is an abysmal failure !

The fact that the only 2 characters actually going to therapy have such terrible character arcs says something about how DKP views mental health issues

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

when did he carry on a sneaky relationship behind his brother’s back ..come on …he maintained his distance till Rohit was around and it was only post Rohit disappearing or being presumed dead that Ruhi started her emotional manipulation..

Anyway guess I just don’t like the idea of anyone falling at anyone else’s feet ..except God and likely well-meaning elders !

If Abhira believed she had grounds for divorce and wanted one, no one could have prevented her from seeking it ..it is extremely unhealthy to be in a relationship where one person feels obligated to the other for putting up with them ..so if Abhira does not want to stay married, she should’ve walked out ..!

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

The fact that the only 2 characters actually going to therapy have such terrible character arcs says something about how DKP views mental health issues

Originally posted by: Indira1211

he had a relationship with Ruhi and he didn’t disclose it to his brother..causing his brother to,leave..while he was married to,abhira he gave Ruhi,lots of rights over him that fueled her obsession..he went with her to,Shiv shakti temple while still,married and promised her a future. We like Armaan and we want him with abhira but we can’t be blind to the deeds he’s done in the past that did cause immense hurt to,rohit, Ruhi and abhira. Armaan is not a faultless character..he made many many blunders..but it’s fine because we don’t expect him,to,be faultless as nobody is. Abhira is staying with him because she does love him very much.

Abhira should stay with Armaan only if she loves him ..not out of any pity or sense of duty..the day she stops loving him, she should leave !

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I dont like this hairstyle

Originally posted by: mithilalovesksg

Pehle armaan attitude de raha tha ab abhira de rahi hain I am not complaining though but yehi chalta raha to it revealation main kahi abhira akeli na pad jaaye

I don’t think she will be alone and this is the reason why they have brought in Armaan’s realisation before…

His days of attitude are over

Originally posted by: OliviaP

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I dont like this hairstyle

I don’t like her clothes … kyun aaj bhi wrapper banaya hai