Lollywood SM Updates and BTS Thread #4 | DT.N.Pg99 - Page 118

Originally posted by: blahblah131

Don't you realize that members who aren't present here when TB was on air have nothing to do with what was going on in TB threads. You keep bringing this up when I ask you when did I ever sl*tshame anyone?. You have no answer.

But you were very much here when these people came to gossips thread & sl*t shamed Sajal saying even Bilal has moved on now. Did you just read a few pages back it was said that Maya gets linked up with every co actor? Why should her fans stay silent? No one stays neutral in this forum. Even I came here without any bias initially. One thing or the other thing puts you off. This forum works on action & reaction. This victim complex is baffling.

Okay, nvm I think my comment made a blunder. So let's just calm down. please don't fight, I don't want another warning on this page.

Originally posted by: Arreyaar

You are talking about people being pressed with yumna , so I am asking you don’t you see others doing the same with other actresses?(are you not being selective) I do realize it and have no issues with that read my post carefully, what did I say? When people used to criticise the fav show (it didn’t sit well with people over here at present) and at the gossip thread literally everybody criticised even their favs too , without extreme glorification , you can go back and check the threads for receiptsAlso the criticism for an actor or character or a badly written show has nothing to do with people being bullies too. After TB ended ayeza was age shamed, maya was sl#t shamed here on this platform only along with wahaj and if you are not there to see it then I am only mentioning you that because you are setting half narrative. Also pls read I said didn’t you see? So I am not referring it’s you who slt shamed anyone. Now hope I have addressed your concerns so please address particular members and don’t label others members collectively of this forum.

If I see comments age shaming or sl*t shaming any actress. It triggers me and I will call out that person. I assumed that you were responding to me.

I understand that their is some context related to TB threads when it was on air behind those replies. Are those people still active on this forum?. Did they get reported to the mods?. Also, isn't it bad to troll actresses to get back at those users.inka Kya kasoor. Not that it makes any difference to the actresses. It just makes the atmosphere on this forum toxic for the new members.

Originally posted by: spnfan

Mirchi toh yaha kisi aur ko lagi hai. None of us started any sort of personal attack or moral policing members.

If you know all this why care?

Moral policing where? And personal attack kaha Kiya?. People on IF keep throwing these terms, where is the proof?

Originally posted by: chai_chatter

Okay, nvm I think my comment made a blunder. So let's just calm down. please don't fight, I don't want another warning on this page.

All of us should feel free to express ourselves; IF is for everyone. No blunder was made. Don't get upset — most of us are thousands of miles away and don’t know each other personally. It’s just written communication, with no impact on our daily personal lives or the lives of the actors and actresses for that matter

Originally posted by: blahblah131

If I see comments age shaming or sl*t shaming any actress. It triggers me and I will call out that person. I assumed that you were responding to me.

I understand that their is some context related to TB threads when it was on air behind those replies. Are those people still active on this forum?. Did they get reported to the mods?. Also, isn't it bad to troll actresses to get back at those users.inka Kya kasoor. Not that it makes any difference to the actresses. It just makes the atmosphere on this forum toxic for the new members.

Originally posted by: Haalim

But you were very much here when these people came to gossips thread & sl*t shamed Sajal saying even Bilal has moved on now. Did you just read a few pages back it was said that Maya gets linked up with every co actor? Why should her fans stay silent? No one stays neutral in this forum. Even I came here without any bias initially. One thing or the other thing puts you off. This forum works on action & reaction. This victim complex is baffling.

I have no memory of what you are talking about. I didn't even know Sajal and Bilal were ever rumored to be together.

I was responding to all the quotes and didn't see that. Yup, that's sl*t shaming. Let me go back and look for it.

Originally posted by: blahblah131

Moral policing where? And personal attack kaha Kiya?. People on IF keep throwing these terms, where is the proof?

Find it yourself since you are anyway going around digging all comments

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

The IT couple was said by Maria B in the PS and not part of Mein promotions. That PS came out in early Nov whereas Mein started in early August. Maria B was also all gushy about Sajal Bilal chemistry when they did a PS with her during O Rangreza. The ottness is Maria B's MO for years. Besides, fashion PS that use flowery words and titles to describe the couple and chemistry are dime a dozen.

But even if shows and films want to promote a pair, what of it:

• Didn't GM producers do a poll on both actor and character ship names during promotions?
• Didn't GM producers release a poster that said "unmatched chemistry" after the first teaser dropped?
• Didn't one of Nayab promotions poster use the word "ultimate power couple"?
• Didn't Jhoom promotion use the word "impeccable chemistry" for Haroon and Zara Noor.
• Didn't KAM3 promotion use "impeccable onscreen chemistry" for Feroze and Iqra?
• Didn't Hum TV use "magical chemistry of the stunning Maya Ali and the ever handsome Bilal Ashraf" during Yunhi promotions?
  
• Didn't KMKT leads do a bold magazine photoshoot for Hello Pakistan during the promotions period (in addition to the poster shoot)?
• Didn't Radd leads do a Diva magazine photoshoot trying to be hot for promotions of Radd (in addition to the poster shoot)?
• [Edited to add] Didn't Jaan Nisar promotions use "cherished couple" and "fiery chemistry" for Danish and Hiba?
  

Hyping the lead couple is now part and parcel of promotions of many big shows. So the selective outrage is highly hypocritical.

Maya has also worked with many many other co-actors including Affan, Hamza A, Imran Abbas, Ahsan Khan, Fahad Mirza, etc. but didn't have any link-up rumours with them. Also, what a disgusting insinuation to make about a female actor. Talk about s**shaming! There's also a world of a diff when two single people are linked versus when you are being called an adulterer and homewrecker.

All due respect to your research Hypnotoad, but makers using the word “Chemistry,” Magazine covers and photoshoots, coining ship names or premieres is NOT the same as calling the leads “should get married metaphorically” - cringe statement which on its own can maybe be dismissed, but was taken up by multiple media pages and even shared by the friggin director. You yourself called him out on it yesterday that he should have kept his mouth shut. This type of involvement will get tongues wagging about PR whether it’s true or not. It will put people off.

Even if you say that this isn’t deliberate PR, which I don’t think it is, this was definitely allowed to escalate, perhaps even used, and not handled which is literally the PR’s job. Now it’s reflecting poorly on the team and is being viewed as cheap publicity. It’s taking away from the genuine goodwill people had after watching the teaser.

As for the IT couple of Mein, you just need to see the show to find the humor in that. Couple tha hi nahi. But you’re right that it was not part of the show’s promotion (at least Maria B didn’t fool us there but ARY did).

Originally posted by: Arreyaar

See blahblah I guess you are just trying to prove your point but can you go back and see what did I write? Please for once just., I have nothing against you. I am not even talking about any member, I am talking about the situation over here from where it all started, also you yourself used to share twitter tweets like this and believe me the one’s here had problem with all the posts like thesehttps://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/164348846, I have seen one two more specifically for yumna but let’s not go there maybe you have a change of heart , I don’t have a problem. But my point is the normal discussions of calling a show bad, character bad actor not upto the mark was taken as hate by the new members and they used to constantly report and got threads shut down as if it was the biggest achievement no it wasn’t. Also there are other 1000 posts where bilal,sajal,ahad and others are called out and discussed in depth too in the lollywood thread, nobody had problem with that even us too who have few of them as our favs but when it comes to a particular show/actor it’s all the same on all SM platforms as it has cult following. You should go ask ki actresses ka kya kasoor hai when people specifically troll maya for being close with wahaj and I am talking about recent times. Forum toxic hoga if everything is taken in a literal sense and that’s what started after the report game. Earlier everybody used to discuss celebs and even their personal lives very well and you did visit lollywood thread so you know also you can check back your posts too. I hope I have answered you.

I have no problem with calling someone's acting bad or the show bad. I hope Mod also also them as false positives. The post that you have linked to, I said something similar a few days back in this thread i.e criticizing the excessive shippers