YRKKH: BTS, SM updates and Spoilers Thread # 36 - Page 49

Originally posted by: A_Derry_Girl

Obviously women do balance all of it today. But motherhood should always be a choice imo, cause it is such a huge responsibility. You gotta be mentally ready for it.

Baki about abhira toh she has been a bahu in this house for 10 months already, doing bahu duties along with internship and college. Toh kaunsa naya hai uskey liye

Originally posted by: Indira1211

apart from career ..having a baby is just a big responsibility on its own. Even if family help out..they’re not the parents..so until you feel emotionally ready ..like you feel you can take care of this little person..you won’t be confident ..also there’s so many things attached to bringing a little person into this world..Anyway maybe we will get better discussions about this later on. I remember a nice scene in Gen 2. Naira thought she was pregnant..she got excited but then it was a false alarm..and karthik,told her..it’s fine..they can wait for the baby and in the meantime their baby’s mumma and papa can mature a bit more. It was such a nice conversation..Kaira had some very lovely scenes regarding pregnancy and babies..because they went through so,much before having their first living child ..so I hope we get some similar scenes with abhimaan as well.

Originally posted by: A_Derry_Girl

She literally said that she needs two years to focus on other aspects of her life and then think about motherhood. Like she is 23 in the show, so it's not like she does not have the time.

Armaan's dialogue about family hain manage karne kliye seemed rather stupid to me, cause that's never a solution. Anways, the writing of that scene should have been better and that's why I have felt since the start.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

This article says Abhimaan are arguing- I'm not sure about what. If they are discussing prenup Armaan would be upset at Kaveri. So what are they discussing?

https://www.indiaforums.com/article/yeh-rishta-kya-kehlata-hai-armaan-and-abhira-clash-at-their-wedding-due-to-ruhi_210751?ri=6&rv=5755

It's still a constant fear that Ruhi and her plans can influence Armaan against Abhira.In my case,It's all because of the events happened before Armaan 's love realisation.its not going away.it will not go away they show Armaan realise how actually Ruhi is.They are not showing any track or scene where Armaan going against Ruhi and hearing it's following ghum's story line is traumatic

Originally posted by: Solitudelover

Rohit ke paas vakeel uniform hai bhi ki nahin for Ab vs Rohit in court? 😃

Ab vs Ar to Ab vs Phuphasa to Ab vs Rohit bas KPs chalega.. . Court tho koi bhi nahin jaa raha hain😃

Mujhe waise bhi court scenes nahi chahiye. Bas dialogues kaafi hain, I will happily assume ke court mein tashan waale scene hue the

Lets see. But armaan is being written well. He's genuinely trying to be better and he's inherently a good guy . Ab does not tolerate BS either.

I'm curious why they are arguing.

Baccha matter they have put on hold. Career argument with V- armaan is pro Ab. And if prenup stuff is disclosed, I expect him to support Ab.

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

I agree completely ..it is about being mentally and physically ready for the responsibility ..family can chip in physically ..her mental readiness is something only she can gauge ..which is why that should have been the focus along with her professional ambitions ..mixing up everything dilutes the argument !

Originally posted by: A_Derry_Girl

Abhira said that she wants to first become a good wife, bahu and work on her career before stepping into motherhood, and because she does want to do well in all the three roles. Being a good bahu is important to her, otherwise why would they have this long drawn track about kaveri's blessings. I do not think that being a good bahu equals to becoming a mother, if the family wants it. You have to be mentally and emotionally ready for motherhood. Someone can be a homemaker and not be ready to become a mother, and that too is perfectly fine, which is why these conversations are extremely important before marriage.

One bit of that conversation that particularly felt off for me was dadisa ke nazron mein laayak badi bahu. Could have left at simply wanting to be a good bahu rather than the need for validation/ approval from Kv.

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

the part about learning to be a good daughter-in-law was highly unnecessary as well ..if that is what she wants, she should have the baby as that is what is expected of her as a bahu..why is it so difficult to say that I want time to live my dreams before taking on the responsibility of a family ..? Why make a woman be apologetic about her dreams and add all that nonsense about good Bahu and Dadi sa and all ? DKP has handled the same track pretty well in KTLK..it was only about her career and ambitions ..no excuses about learning to be a Bahu and all..

All the confusion, abhira has is to pitch in goenkas. Aaj nahi toh kal, she will share her concern with mg & he will advice her. Warna bonding kaise dikhayenge abhira mg ki??? Nowadays, goenkas just stand in a corner

Originally posted by: Solitudelover

One bit of that conversation that particularly felt off for me was dadisa ke nazron mein laayak badi bahu. Could have left at simply wanting to be a good bahu rather than the need for validation/ approval from Kv.