Originally posted by: rysohini
Every single word you say here is nothing but the truth Vira !
I have said this before and I say this again - Positive Feedback and Constructive Criticism - can do wonders to some one who is at the wrong !
However, if the choice of words are incorrect, the feedback falls flat and drives home a result that is quite the opposite !
We have here a very angry, hurt , battered, bruised 21 year old, who feels betrayed in love and understandably so !
And while Ani's jealousy brings out the beast in him, J's , brings out the best in her, quite literally or should I say verbally
I give it to her, that she found an opportunity to give Sirji a piece of her mind and she did so with elan 
And most viewers enjoyed the bashing, coz they felt dear boy deserved every bit of it ! The more she gave it back to him, the louder the cheering 
J and the audience are now some what happy, chalo it is at least a lil fair and square , J has been wronged in so many ways for so long, at least her 'wrong-doer' , gets it back from her FINALLY !
What this 21 year old did not realise is that every time, she has tried to show him the 'correct' mirror, it has fallen flat - coz of how she has tried to show it to him with her choice of words !
Last time it resulted in Anishi PDA, this time it might end up in Anishi SR 
IF LEENA HAS THE GUTS TO SHOW THIS THAT IS !
If Leena did not fear TRPS and Viewers leaving, she would possibly show a few more , similar J-Ani interactions, the start of which was today, followed by Anishi SR as a ripple effect, IF SHE WANTED TO BE TRUE TO HER NARRATIVE that is !
And the viewers who are so happy with J's bashing today, will feel betrayed by Ani and ask how could Ani do this ? 
The fact of relationships are - they are never transactional - tumne mujhe do mara, main tumhe 4 palat ke mara - chalo ho gayi hisaab barabar ! An eye for an eye would make the world go blind !
Words like ehsan - Ani hates this word from J's mouth, do nao pe sawar - just a question for J, when Ani was busy doing Anishi PDA during his sangeet, post that , why did you mouth a monologue - Sirji ne mere taraf mudkar bhi nehi dekha, mujhse baat nehi ki?
Why did you ask Sirji at the clinic at the proposition of leaving for Kashmir - Abb toh mujhe khushi khushi jane denge na, mujhe rokenge nehi na?
Sirji was back then Arshi didi's right? Or is Sirji Arshi didi's only now?
Mallab boyfriend hai toh J can fancy him and crave for his attention, but shaadi ho gayi hai toh he should not 'do nao par sawar'?
I kinda like this selective sense of morality - kudo s to this Moral Science Teacher 
What could have really shown Ani the mirror, in case that was J's intent that is - Is she telling him when questioned, Boss I left BH coz you mis-trusted me ! You for a second thought that I could jalao Arshi! That's how skewed your thoughts were about me! And I could not bear you thinking so low of me ! How could you Sirji ? Period !
Coz while Ani is guilty of mis-trusting J, he is oblivious of the crime and the extent of the impact it had on J !
What today's conversation and a few more Ani - J interactions in the future will do -
It will lead Ani on to a path of self-destruction, and the only way he can be saved , is, if J tells him she loves him! Nothing else will work except Jโs acceptance of Ani! - this is unfortunately the difficult truth!
The only way J can show him the 'correct' mirror, if that is what J's intent is , is if she brings home her points, lovingly - nothing else will work, unfortunately !
Now many of you will say, it is not Jโs responsibility to save Ani , and I would agree, it is not her responsibility! She should leave him and let him fend for himself !
If Jโs accusations give her happiness and peace that she has successfully nikaloโed her bharas and taunted Ani, I am happy for her!
If Jโs accusations are with the hope that it is positive criticism, she is trying to provide Ani with, then I am sorry for how miserably she failed , before and now !
And I hope she is super proud of her Sirji, now that she finds him to be a devoted husband to her Arshi didi, something she has always dreamed of and pushed her Sirji towards- strange that she realises he is stuck between the mother-daughter duo who would finish him, if Arshi lost to J - must be a rewarding feeling to understand the extent of suffering Sirji is being meted with !
And while we will find Ani commit a way lot more mistakes, when he sees J with AK, despite warning J of AK's ill-intentions, I hope if a time comes, when Ani falls ill or ends up being a drunkard, as a ripple effect , J stays away and feels nothing about it !
I hope she manages to wash her hands off it , and does not come daudi daudi to resurrect Sirji back to life and health ! Ek hi nao par chalna J !
For the viewers who have moved on from RuNak, you should revel in glory, as today is one RuNak haar day, there will be many more to come ! So pop corn out folks 
For the viewers, who are struggling to move on from RuNak or hoping they end up together, today is one day, I might want to disagree with you and say RuNak should not be end game, not now , not ever !
If you believe that a certain relationship has given you a lifetime worth of grief and mis-fortune, you GIVE UP, STAY AWAY AND ABANDON that relationship at all costs ! Haha, phir matt kehna ki maine bataya nehi tha 
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