🌸🌸𝓙𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓪𝓴 Written Update And Episode Discussion thread 73🌸🌸 - Page 50

Originally posted by: MMR2810

Girls I have a genuine question.

What makes Ani believe that Arshi loves him truly and selflessly and where as Jhanak never loved him.

If we consider both Arshi and J's actions, from day 1, Arshi is the dominant one; she gets everything by making demands. It's Ani who used to apologize whenever they had a fight.

I had never seen her love in action, except in words.

J proved many times her love for him...

When she heard about his accident, she came back to BH for him.

She was ready to sacrifice her life and agreed to marry Tejas to save his.

Actions speak louder than words, right?

Then why had he never thought that she also loved him the way he did before his marriage to Arshi?

Now what made him to change his statement that I thought you also have feelings for me but I was wrong.

The reply to this post would be a Arshi praising one..because she has proved time to time that she loved him.Whether it is true love , for the status all that is debatable.

The epiosde which starts itself shows how much they were in love with each other. The first epiosde which starts with Kolkata pooja , they had shown how much they both love each other and how nice Arshi was to the entire Bh family. The first meet with Jhanak , how he says maafi maango meri hone wali patni se ...They were in love and relation.

She also was worried when Anirudh was stuck in Kashmir , she getting ready to go to Kashmir after her dance inspite of some bad weather conditions ...her constant calls to him in those episodes and asking him are you ok, you sound as if in trouble..her conversation in those episodes with Shristi and Vinayak about how Anirudh is stuck there and Tejas doesnt harm him ...

During the accident she too went to the temple ,its was choton who blocked her entry to his room for Jhanak . Otherwise she would have also placed the shoeflower . Her slapping Jhanak was also a part of her love for Anirudh ,since she believed its because fo Jhanak he met with accident...even though slapping wasnt right thing to do. They were in relationship for six long years , she would have shown her love in many ways else how will it last so long.

About asking sorry ,its always and always Anirudh who apologises be it Arshi or be it Jhanak.

Just writing in line with your question here because I dont want to make an Arshi appreciation post, but facts are facts..

Her ultimate change was when she realised she lost Anirudh to Jhanak and that is why she hated her . The sindoor wiping everything was done because she thought Jhanak snatched Anirudh from her. There was dialogue after that holi hospital scene by her to Jhanak...may be our relation would have been better if we met in different circumstances ...which can be true as she was initially not so evil.

Originally posted by: MMR2810

I just control my self to not to curse certain someone...afterall she is winner...it seems he forgot how he begged jhanak.

Mayuri not hope from ani because now he is only devoted husband.i like this he just ignore and keep saying to arshi hum chale.i don't want any drama

Originally posted by: Varsha188

Mayuri not hope from ani because now he is only devoted husband.i like this he just ignore and keep saying to arshi hum chale.i don't want any drama

Originally posted by: Varsha188

Mayuri not hope from ani because now he is only devoted husband.i like this he just ignore and keep saying to arshi hum chale.i don't want any drama

Originally posted by: MMR2810

OK I agree CA of our darling...but our darling also not putting any efforts to stop CA of his ex.zimmedgari by his family.

Ok..fine .

She is ex also , still he needs to speak for her.

If he speaks then why is he not sticking to his present ..

Everything is issue , whatever he does...

Kare toh kya kare...

I am feeling so so bad for this character.

Originally posted by: rysohini

Every single word you say here is nothing but the truth Vira !

I have said this before and I say this again - Positive Feedback and Constructive Criticism - can do wonders to some one who is at the wrong !

However, if the choice of words are incorrect, the feedback falls flat and drives home a result that is quite the opposite !

We have here a very angry, hurt , battered, bruised 21 year old, who feels betrayed in love and understandably so !

And while Ani's jealousy brings out the beast in him, J's , brings out the best in her, quite literally or should I say verbally

I give it to her, that she found an opportunity to give Sirji a piece of her mind and she did so with elan

And most viewers enjoyed the bashing, coz they felt dear boy deserved every bit of it ! The more she gave it back to him, the louder the cheering

J and the audience are now some what happy, chalo it is at least a lil fair and square , J has been wronged in so many ways for so long, at least her 'wrong-doer' , gets it back from her FINALLY !

What this 21 year old did not realise is that every time, she has tried to show him the 'correct' mirror, it has fallen flat - coz of how she has tried to show it to him with her choice of words !

Last time it resulted in Anishi PDA, this time it might end up in Anishi SR IF LEENA HAS THE GUTS TO SHOW THIS THAT IS !

If Leena did not fear TRPS and Viewers leaving, she would possibly show a few more , similar J-Ani interactions, the start of which was today, followed by Anishi SR as a ripple effect, IF SHE WANTED TO BE TRUE TO HER NARRATIVE that is !

And the viewers who are so happy with J's bashing today, will feel betrayed by Ani and ask how could Ani do this ?

The fact of relationships are - they are never transactional - tumne mujhe do mara, main tumhe 4 palat ke mara - chalo ho gayi hisaab barabar ! An eye for an eye would make the world go blind !

Words like ehsan - Ani hates this word from J's mouth, do nao pe sawar - just a question for J, when Ani was busy doing Anishi PDA during his sangeet, post that , why did you mouth a monologue - Sirji ne mere taraf mudkar bhi nehi dekha, mujhse baat nehi ki?

Why did you ask Sirji at the clinic at the proposition of leaving for Kashmir - Abb toh mujhe khushi khushi jane denge na, mujhe rokenge nehi na?

Sirji was back then Arshi didi's right? Or is Sirji Arshi didi's only now?

Mallab boyfriend hai toh J can fancy him and crave for his attention, but shaadi ho gayi hai toh he should not 'do nao par sawar'?

I kinda like this selective sense of morality - kudo s to this Moral Science Teacher

What could have really shown Ani the mirror, in case that was J's intent that is - Is she telling him when questioned, Boss I left BH coz you mis-trusted me ! You for a second thought that I could jalao Arshi! That's how skewed your thoughts were about me! And I could not bear you thinking so low of me ! How could you Sirji ? Period !

Coz while Ani is guilty of mis-trusting J, he is oblivious of the crime and the extent of the impact it had on J !

What today's conversation and a few more Ani - J interactions in the future will do -

It will lead Ani on to a path of self-destruction, and the only way he can be saved , is, if J tells him she loves him! Nothing else will work except J’s acceptance of Ani! - this is unfortunately the difficult truth!

The only way J can show him the 'correct' mirror, if that is what J's intent is , is if she brings home her points, lovingly - nothing else will work, unfortunately !

Now many of you will say, it is not J’s responsibility to save Ani , and I would agree, it is not her responsibility! She should leave him and let him fend for himself !

If J’s accusations give her happiness and peace that she has successfully nikalo’ed her bharas and taunted Ani, I am happy for her!

If J’s accusations are with the hope that it is positive criticism, she is trying to provide Ani with, then I am sorry for how miserably she failed , before and now !

And I hope she is super proud of her Sirji, now that she finds him to be a devoted husband to her Arshi didi, something she has always dreamed of and pushed her Sirji towards- strange that she realises he is stuck between the mother-daughter duo who would finish him, if Arshi lost to J - must be a rewarding feeling to understand the extent of suffering Sirji is being meted with !

And while we will find Ani commit a way lot more mistakes, when he sees J with AK, despite warning J of AK's ill-intentions, I hope if a time comes, when Ani falls ill or ends up being a drunkard, as a ripple effect , J stays away and feels nothing about it !

I hope she manages to wash her hands off it , and does not come daudi daudi to resurrect Sirji back to life and health ! Ek hi nao par chalna J !

For the viewers who have moved on from RuNak, you should revel in glory, as today is one RuNak haar day, there will be many more to come ! So pop corn out folks

For the viewers, who are struggling to move on from RuNak or hoping they end up together, today is one day, I might want to disagree with you and say RuNak should not be end game, not now , not ever !

If you believe that a certain relationship has given you a lifetime worth of grief and mis-fortune, you GIVE UP, STAY AWAY AND ABANDON that relationship at all costs ! Haha, phir matt kehna ki maine bataya nehi tha

I'm ready for anything

Imlie serial kuch ise type ka tha so koe farq nahi parega jitna torture humne wahan jhela tha yahan itna feel nahi ho raha.

One advice for everyone here.

Daikhna ha yeh serial to

Patience se dekho, nahi to mat dekho for your sanity of mind

Originally posted by: MMR2810

Girls I have a genuine question.

What makes Ani believe that Arshi loves him truly and selflessly and where as Jhanak never loved him.

If we consider both Arshi and J's actions, from day 1, Arshi is the dominant one; she gets everything by making demands. It's Ani who used to apologize whenever they had a fight.

I had never seen her love in action, except in words.

J proved many times her love for him...

When she heard about his accident, she came back to BH for him.

She was ready to sacrifice her life and agreed to marry Tejas to save his.

Actions speak louder than words, right?

Then why had he never thought that she also loved him the way he did before his marriage to Arshi?

Now what made him to change his statement that I thought you also have feelings for me but I was wrong.

What is happening in J land people?

Originally posted by: Anusha16

What is happening in J land people?

Nothing they always confused person and we always hoping that everything will be resolved.

Originally posted by: rysohini

My comments added inline-

Yeh dono chezen seperate hain.

Originally posted by: Varsha188

Mayuri not hope from ani because now he is only devoted husband.i like this he just ignore and keep saying to arshi hum chale.i don't want any drama

But what is his attitude..she is winner...so they organized party for her that too infront of J, from whom you snached that victory.