Originally posted by: vira76
The first paragraph, sure all of that is something we know of and that is why we oppose her but that is not something Anirudh knows. She never showed it in front of Anirudh...Anirudh never had enough reasons to break up with her. He always said, break up with me Arshi if you want... not the other way around.
You can question her love all you want but then again, we need to question Anirudh's love as well for Jhanak as well as for Arshi, as he is questioning that himself yesterday. π
We don't know anything about their past relationship. All we know is that they were in love, and happy with each other. I do not want to say, that she never loved Anirudh, she cared for him, she was heartbroken when he was in the hospital, and she blindly trusted his words, and she imagined a life with him... yes her love might not have been as pure in our dictionary, came with conditions applied and it changed and degraded gradually because her insecurities got better of her since well anirudh hid the fact from her that he was married to someone lol. A normal person will break up at that point but she chose to continue because of her mother and somewhat because of her own darker side as well. Her reactions yesterday were justified but her decisions are not, and that is what makes her a bad person.
If her love changed, Anirudh's as well... Her love turned into hatred and Anirudh's love turned into just a responsibility, a bond that is simply there for namesake. Neither of them knows what love means then... If Arshi was marrying Anirudh out of revenge, Anirudh is also marrying Arshi just because he is pressured, he does not truly love her. If I put myself in Arshi's shoes, I would have reacted the same way as well, I understand his good intentions but how dare he marry me when he has someone else in his heart?
From Anirudh's POV, he is trying to do the right thing, this 29-year-old BokoBose has the emotional intelligence of a 9-year-old kid. But his trying to do the right thing from his POV, trying to keep everyone happy, the logical-minded dude... but that does not mean he is doing the right thing to arshi.
I feel for him, I do but what arshi said yesterday is something he needed to hear. If he was emotionally abused by his parents, well then arshi has the most despicable mother of all! Both are emotionally cheating on each other and grew up in a toxic family environment... Both are to be blamed for their relationship. and I don't want to deny arshi the right to be hurt because she is an evil person at heart.
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