YRKKH: BTS, SM updates and Spoilers Thread # 23 - Page 28

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

I'm not your well wisher but why didn't you keep it to yourself, hamesha

Especially after this @1:45-2:40

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uHnYsoC6k8k

Ruhiza, kyyyyuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

Thank you for ths tag, Rani and reminding me his heartfelt confession. Waise, this should have been what he should have told Abhira what she is to him, rather than I love you and woh infatuation thaThis seems so real, while what he told Abhira felt like a cop out

Also the start of this video where he says, he can't live without Abhira nor can he with the guiltHrmmmmph....... there in lies the problemAll emotions in right proportions are needed to make us more human and work as internal checks and balances to make us who we are. While guilt is necessary to keep us conscious of the good and the bad we do, over expression which destroys or impairs relationships, work, personal life and people around us is pathologicThis guy should find other healthier means of assuaging his guilt, not bending over backwards.

Waise, it is a run of the mill road accident case haina. It is not as if he is the only brain surgeon in the world who can perform a very novel procedure that he has to take it. And why the hell don't the family/well wishers help him out? Why doesn't Manoj step in to say, let me handle it, both of you just had a bad history?

Whatever the writers tell us, I won't believe for one second that he is the best vakeel in town. A guy who couldn't even identify his own nakli divorce deed and almost performed a criminal( is bigamy a criminal conduct?) act is the best vakeel. And the justification of tum bahut pareshaan ho, that is why you didn't. Yeh experienced vakeel should already have attained muscle memory by this time that he can spot if something is amiss, may be not in specifics right away If he didn't issko how to spot a fake/fraud 101 classes ki zaroorat hain, in more ways than one

But, I didn't understand the bolded statement, my friendWhat should he have kept to himself?

I really am mad at Armaan, but RoPu's acting where he portrays Armaan's sincerity is disarming me

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

This looks like the last gen for yrkkh

He maybe sincere, his intentions may be good, but he is looking like he will repeatedly making the same mistakes again. This guilt for Ruhi is going to ruin his life. If he can't keep Ruhi away for good he will in due course lose Abhira and he will deserve it :(

Hopefully since he's on a redemption path, he will figure out more appropriate ways of dealing with this panauti called Ruhi.

https://youtu.be/xEQOYB0K8hA?feature=shared

RoPu is really good in this segment

But i have to say Sam ke expressions in this same segment were a teeny bit better.

My pufferfish and her goldfish miss them a lot. Wish makers actually utilised this beautiful Jodi

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C8tQIRovzS1/?igsh=bWI4cTVscWJnem0z

Originally posted by: Pinecone

He maybe sincere, his intentions may be good, but he is looking like he will repeatedly making the same mistakes again. This guilt for Ruhi is going to ruin his life. If he can't keep Ruhi away for good he will in due course lose Abhira and he will deserve it :(

Hopefully since he's on a redemption path, he will figure out more appropriate ways of dealing with this panauti called Ruhi.

Exactly, he will destroy both himself and Abhira if they are together without sorting this lady out. Abhira will be fed up, bitter and resentful, while he will be wallowing in guilt

I know a lot are calling for separation and Abhira getting out of town and their outhouse. May be unpopular opinion, I don't see any reason why Abhira has to do either. Of course, the show won't let her out of Poddar house or their vicinity for obvious reasons. But, also she doesn't have any family in this world. Madhav has adopted her as his beti and by extension, Vidya as well. More importantly, she considers them her parentsShe has individual relationships with other family members, independent of Armaan, such as Manisha, Manoj, Krish, Kiara and Aryan . If she had a supportive family tucked away and she is hanging around Poddar outhouse, I would join in the hue and cry for her to get outI am not pointing fingers at a certain someone, just saying.

Right now she is still in a marital bond with Armaan. They can work on differences if this is even possible, if the differences cannot be overcome, then she can always take that call to end once and for all. She decided to leave town just before the reveal of non-divorce, now this is pulling her back again to stay.

And by the time she decides, if she has established a law practice or if she plain likes living in Udaipur, why should she leave town? Just move out of Poddar house.

Originally posted by: mili9

Thank you for ths tag, Rani and reminding me his heartfelt confession. Waise, this should have been what he should have told Abhira what she is to him, rather than I love you and woh infatuation thaThis seems so real, while what he told Abhira felt like a cop out

Also the start of this video where he says, he can't live without Abhira nor can he with the guiltHrmmmmph....... there in lies the problemAll emotions in right proportions are needed to make us more human and work as internal checks and balances to make us who we are. While guilt is necessary to keep us conscious of the good and the bad we do, over expression which destroys or impairs relationships, work, personal life and people around us is pathologicThis guy should find other healthier means of assuaging his guilt, not bending over backwards.

Waise, it is a run of the mill road accident case haina. It is not as if he is the only brain surgeon in the world who can perform a very novel procedure that he has to take it. And why the hell don't the family/well wishers help him out? Why doesn't Manoj step in to say, let me handle it, both of you just had a bad history?

Whatever the writers tell us, I won't believe for one second that he is the best vakeel in town. A guy who couldn't even identify his own nakli divorce deed and almost performed a criminal( is bigamy a criminal conduct?) act is the best vakeel. And the justification of tum bahut pareshaan ho, that is why you didn't. Yeh experienced vakeel should already have attained muscle memory by this time that he can spot if something is amiss, may be not in specifics right away If he didn't issko how to spot a fake/fraud 101 classes ki zaroorat hain, in more ways than one

But, I didn't understand the bolded statement, my friendWhat should he have kept to himself?

I really am mad at Armaan, but RoPu's acting where he portrays Armaan's sincerity is disarming me

Yes, I completely agree Armaan needs to find other ways to that is more sane

healthier in dealing with guilt, that's why I said Armaan needs to learn to say No.

I do feel, Armaan has express the depth of his feelings to Abhira especially when

he got hurt and both will express more once MU is clear.

Well only Armaan and the people of Udaipur, believe he's the #1 vakeel

As for keeping it do yourself, it was in regards to Ruhi, in the precap telling Armaan

she tried to get over him and haven't, he doesn't need to know it.

Originally posted by: mili9

Exactly, he will destroy both himself and Abhira if they are together without sorting this lady out. Abhira will be fed up, bitter and resentful, while he will be wallowing in guilt

I know a lot are calling for separation and Abhira getting out of town and their outhouse. May be unpopular opinion, I don't see any reason why Abhira has to do either. Of course, the show won't let her out of Poddar house or their vicinity for obvious reasons. But, also she doesn't have any family in this world. Madhav has adopted her as his beti and by extension, Vidya as well. More importantly, she considers them her parentsShe has individual relationships with other family members, independent of Armaan, such as Manisha, Manoj, Krish, Kiara and Aryan . If she had a supportive family tucked away and she is hanging around Poddar outhouse, I would join in the hue and cry for her to get outI am not pointing fingers at a certain someone, just saying.

Right now she is still in a marital bond with Armaan. They can work on differences if this is even possible, if the differences cannot be overcome, then she can always take that call to end once and for all. She decided to leave town just before the reveal of non-divorce, now this is pulling her back again to stay.

And by the time she decides, if she has established a law practice or if she plain likes living in Udaipur, why should she leave town? Just move out of Poddar house.

I have read your posts, so even knowing I will not win a pov difference with you.. here it goes😀..

Ab should stay in PH / OH only if she wants to give her relationship with Ar a chance (ignoring about Madhav not letting go , because if she really wanted she would have convinced him that she wanted to move on and he would not force her) - divorced or not. Her individual ties with PH members is not a good enough reason. If tomorrow Kv asks Ruhi to come to PH because she considers Ruhi as her daughter and Ruhi comes to live, she would be wrong and will be bashed - rightly so.

Being an orphan also is not a good enough reason for Ab atleast because she had said ( and she can as well) she can manage independently especially now when she is a practicing layer. She had good ties with most of the family members even when she left after divorce. There if she even lied to them about her situation ( and was justified by most in doing so ) and refused to take any help ( I thought she should not have put her safety at risk then, but that is another story) and tried to manage alone - then she shouldn't stay in PH/ OH due to those same ties if she wants to move on and dont give Ar a chance. Those ties are Ar' s first of all and almost everyone wants Ab to stay for Ar's sake

Originally posted by: mili9

I know a lot are calling for separation and Abhira getting out of town and their outhouse. May be unpopular opinion, I don't see any reason why Abhira has to do either. Of course, the show won't let her out of Poddar house or their vicinity for obvious reasons. But, also she doesn't have any family in this world. Madhav has adopted her as his beti and by extension, Vidya as well. More importantly, she considers them her parentsShe has individual relationships with other family members, independent of Armaan, such as Manisha, Manoj, Krish, Kiara and Aryan . If she had a supportive family tucked away and she is hanging around Poddar outhouse, I would join in the hue and cry for her to get outI am not pointing fingers at a certain someone, just saying.

Right now she is still in a marital bond with Armaan. They can work on differences if this is even possible, if the differences cannot be overcome, then she can always take that call to end once and for all. She decided to leave town just before the reveal of non-divorce, now this is pulling her back again to stay.

And by the time she decides, if she has established a law practice or if she plain likes living in Udaipur, why should she leave town? Just move out of Poddar house.

Consider this scenario buddy..

Kaveri brings ruhi to poddar house coz she adopted ruhi as her own & ruhi shares am independent bond with Kaveri, Sanjay, charu & kajal

What will abhira do then ? N why would it be wrong to bring ruhi to ph by the elders ?

N it's not a far fetched possibility . Garvita hinted that she will be bk very soon

Originally posted by: Solitudelover

I have read your posts, so even knowing I will not win a pov difference with you.. here it goes😀..

Ab should stay in PH / OH only if she wants to give her relationship with Ar a chance (ignoring about Madhav not letting go , because if she really wanted she would have convinced him that she wanted to move on and he would not force her) - divorced or not. Her individual ties with PH members is not a good enough reason. If tomorrow Kv asks Ruhi to come to PH because she considers Ruhi as her daughter and Ruhi comes to live, she would be wrong and will be bashed - rightly so.

Being an orphan also is not a good enough reason for Ab atleast because she had said ( and she can as well) she can manage independently especially now when she is a practicing layer. She had good ties with most of the family members even when she left after divorce. There if she even lied to them about her situation ( and was justified by most in doing so ) and refused to take any help ( I thought she should not have put her safety at risk then, but that is another story) and tried to manage alone - then she shouldn't stay in PH/ OH due to those same ties if she wants to move on and dont give Ar a chance. Those ties are Ar' s first of all and almost everyone wants Ab to stay for Ar's sake

I just said the same thing 🫡 being a swabhimani as claimed by vidya yesterday , she has no business in ph if she doesn't wanna give a chance to arman