Mehndi Wala Ghar: Episode Discussion Thread #3 - Page 76

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

The hoping this is false, at least for me, was before the divorce BTS. Now, unless Rahul knew Rati was faking since the beginning and wanted to bring out the truth (the chances of which are nil to one), the wedding is real and so is my disappointment with the show 😂

I know I am the only one on here but I found Rahul to be wrong and Mauli right. Mauli wasn’t going to leave Rahul, she was living there even with the taunts and bullshit because she loved Rahul. She never promised anyone to leave Rahul or tyaag their love or go away even when everyone was spewing crap about her. Rahul messed up by freaking getting married to another person, thereby making Mauli the other woman, making her want to leave the house, and giving his disgusting family more ammo to taunt Mauli with. What rights exactly does she even have now? Being the lover/affair partner of the son of the house?

Should Mauli have been stronger against the family? Yes. But she was not weak or wrong anyway. She deserves better imo. And I say this even when Rahul is my favorite character.

I agree and welcome your opinions.As I said this situation cannot have only one single opinion.Some would side with Rahul while others are on side Mauli but I personally think dono apni jagah sahi hai.Just as you mentioned Mauli isn't going to run anywhere but Rahul patience level has faded as mentioned by him and we know Rahul is driving force when he is in that mode he was desperate to marry Mauli so that family can stop torturing her again as mentioned by him but it was naive thinking by him.Both had their weak moments during the week which led to this situation maybe better communication among them would have prevented all of this but here we are.

I too not liking Mauli's position it only gives another reason for this family to degrade her character.She genuinely deserves better but it seems Mauli ko seedha seedha kuch deserving nahi milne wala yaha pe.Sab kuch cheen ke lena padega hak bhi and Rahul bhi.

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

The hoping this is false, at least for me, was before the divorce BTS. Now, unless Rahul knew Rati was faking since the beginning and wanted to bring out the truth (the chances of which are nil to one), the wedding is real and so is my disappointment with the show 😂

I know I am the only one on here but I found Rahul to be wrong and Mauli right. Mauli wasn’t going to leave Rahul, she was living there even with the taunts and bullshit because she loved Rahul. She never promised anyone to leave Rahul or tyaag their love or go away even when everyone was spewing crap about her. Rahul messed up by freaking getting married to another person, thereby making Mauli the other woman, making her want to leave the house, and giving his disgusting family more ammo to taunt Mauli with. What rights exactly does she even have now? Being the lover/affair partner of the son of the house?

Should Mauli have been stronger against the family? Yes. But she was not weak or wrong anyway. She deserves better imo. And I say this even when Rahul is my favorite character.

Yes the bts is actually pointing at the wedding to be real and as you said until and unless Rahul is carrying out a long drama with rati it's almost seems impossible for the wedding to be a farce.

Mauli was definitely right more than Rahul, especially in the current shadi scenario and the point has been almost proven through Manoj, Mauli Rahul themselves and even chachi ji and rohit who accepted that he indeed took a hasty step though they justified him with his reasons.

The point is that everybody knew Mauli can not be scared or pressurized to give up on Rahul but can definitely be emotionally blackmailed and exploited. Rahul at this point just wanted to marry her anyhow, by hook or by crook because he thought that nothing could be done once they are legally married. But we all know that was not going to be the case as long as they cosr to stay in MWG after it.

By society's standard Mauli and Rahul relationship are now going to be marked as an extra marital one i agree. Rahul is to be blamed here but just for trusting rati blindly otherwise if with her consent he married and divorced her immediate many of the things would have been at place except for playing with a holy rite like marriage.

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

If the wedding is fake (God, I hope so!), then unless Rahul planned it, does it make a difference if it is or not? For me, as a Rauli fan, it’s not only that he got married to Rati that is unacceptable, but also him completing all these rituals with her; having someone else in his heart but willingly going through all the rasams. He says, we say, Rauli team members of the family say, that he did it for Mauli. But to go through those rituals knowing he would be married to Rati at the end of the day, just irritates me at this point.

He was naive in thinking that he will marry Rati now and after few hours they will get divorce and Rahul too become divorcee like Mauli so now no one can stop them from marrying.Anyone after reading this will say how naive Rahul is but in real he isn't but desperate times made him naive and he fell into Rati's manipulation and I agree it's quite irritating to see Rahul behaving this way.

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

The hoping this is false, at least for me, was before the divorce BTS. Now, unless Rahul knew Rati was faking since the beginning and wanted to bring out the truth (the chances of which are nil to one), the wedding is real and so is my disappointment with the show 😂

I know I am the only one on here but I found Rahul to be wrong and Mauli right. Mauli wasn’t going to leave Rahul, she was living there even with the taunts and bullshit because she loved Rahul. She never promised anyone to leave Rahul or tyaag their love or go away even when everyone was spewing crap about her. Rahul messed up by freaking getting married to another person, thereby making Mauli the other woman, making her want to leave the house, and giving his disgusting family more ammo to taunt Mauli with. What rights exactly does she even have now? Being the lover/affair partner of the son of the house?

Should Mauli have been stronger against the family? Yes. But she was not weak or wrong anyway. She deserves better imo. And I say this even when Rahul is my favorite character.

I still have my hopes of this marriage being fake & I'm gonna stick to it till everything plays out.

Well no one is perfect. All r humans & humans tend to have flaws & behave recklessly in adverse situations arise. Rauli both have flaws & it's good to see both talking it out & deciding to work together. Now coming to ur point of Mauli not leaving him yes she wouldn't have left him but that doesn't mean the taunts & all the insults she was getting weren't affecting him. They were affecting him badly & he wanted to protect Mauli at any cost which made him take reckless decisions. Understanble cos when it's about loved ones ppl tend to forget any sense of rationality & go to extremely lengths for them.

That's what I have to say.

Originally posted by: Vidvish

Clown planning this crossed my mind too. Can't expect much from him still the makers can anyday surprise us.

I am all in for this surprise but I think they will chose to make vaibhav lachar and betrayed at the end rather than so streetsmart and mastermind

Originally posted by: Vidvish

Such things r very common in ITV loving someone & getting married to someone. Same thing happened in DMG too. There Riddhima wasn't even clear that she'll go back to Armaan but she did. Here Rahul is very much clear that he wants to get back to Mauli breaking this marriage. We cannot forget the fact that he wasn't even in favour of all this in the first place he was manipulated by DN. And his desperation & his unconditional love for Mauli got the worst out of him. Ppl tend to makes blunders & it's very human.

In DMG, Riddhima never thought Armaan would come back. She married Sid and respected the marriage (till the almost love making) all the while being in love with Armaan. If Armaan had been present in the beginning or never left, she would have never married Sid.

I actually left watching DMG when the new gen was introduced because they ruined AR, RM and NA for no reason before that. Only watched 4 episodes in the middle (save Sid instead of Armaan from going into the gas chamber room thing and the locker room conversation after that) and the last episode. A lot of viewers left the show if I remember correctly. Anyway, if you want to reminisce older AR days, read The World’s Oldest Story by Zephyr if you haven’t already. It’s incomplete but it’s so worth it and her Armaan is probably my book boyfriend forever.

Sorry for the tangent 😂

Originally posted by: Divya294

Truly said. Divorce bhi kar ke ate to hi achcha tha. Coming to your question that's why i mentioned, like if we are still giving the marriage being fake a chance to stand, it must also hold that both Rahul and rati are unaware of that. Otherwise the whole divorce sequence is a stupid and crap thing that would be shown in coming episodes. As most of us still hopes for the wedding to be a farce, I can only think of a quite few reasons for defe ding the same

• They only knew about sindoor mangalsutra and fera thing, with same mantras or whether in the right direction or not, they did not cared.

• Apart from these three they forgot to fulfill an even more necessary ritual according to their family custom🙄(am being so lame in guessing the reasons but can't help)

• The kanyadaan part was not done sabha samapt🙈

Again all these reasons can only be effective when someone has purposely made it to happen that way. The pundit ji and rest had no reason for turning a seemingly happy wedding ceremony into a joke for life for some people .

Other than vaibhav I can not think of any person being benefitted in near or far future by doing all this blunder. Moreover it was only him present at the spot as far we know till now.

Over to you all

Totally agreed with all your points. It's highly possible that Rahul & DN both r unaware of the wedding being farce.

Same here clown doing all this still makes sense. Is it clear that he was present at the wedding spot?

Originally posted by: Vidvish

Such things r very common in ITV loving someone & getting married to someone. Same thing happened in DMG too. There Riddhima wasn't even clear that she'll go back to Armaan but she did. Here Rahul is very much clear that he wants to get back to Mauli breaking this marriage. We cannot forget the fact that he wasn't even in favour of all this in the first place he was manipulated by DN. And his desperation & his unconditional love for Mauli got the worst out of him. Ppl tend to makes blunders & it's very human.

Exactly the show though better than most of its counterparts is still an itv and nowhere an exception to some amount of drama, childish and illogical things but still....

DMG ??

Originally posted by: Vidvish

Totally agreed with all your points. It's highly possible that Rahul & DN both r unaware of the wedding being farce.

Same here clown doing all this still makes sense. Is it clear that he was present at the wedding spot?

He was at the temple where rati manipulated Rahul and if they got married at the same place, he must be hidden somewhere there or may be bribed somebody to act according to him. It's because he was at the home as well even before all the rest entered so he must have hired somebody if at all he wanted some kind of ghapla in that wedding

Originally posted by: VirenDev

I agree and welcome your opinions.As I said this situation cannot have only one single opinion.Some would side with Rahul while others are on side Mauli but I personally think dono apni jagah sahi hai.Just as you mentioned Mauli isn't going to run anywhere but Rahul patience level has faded as mentioned by him and we know Rahul is driving force when he is in that mode he was desperate to marry Mauli so that family can stop torturing her again as mentioned by him but it was naive thinking by him.Both had their weak moments during the week which led to this situation maybe better communication among them would have prevented all of this but here we are.

I too not liking Mauli's position it only gives another reason for this family to degrade her character.She genuinely deserves better but it seems Mauli ko seedha seedha kuch deserving nahi milne wala yaha pe.Sab kuch cheen ke lena padega hak bhi and Rahul bhi.

Exactly. As I've mentioned earlier too both r right & wrong at the same time. Both have their flaws which makes them human.

True about Mauli's position. Well that's how it is in today's world especially with a family like NWG u have to snatch what is rightfully urs.