•°*”˜𝓙𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓪𝓴 Written Update And Episode Discussion Thread 45•°*” - Page 26

I don’t think he has chosen his family over jhanak yet..

Right now actually he wants to avoid making a choice in my opinion. That is why he brought jhanak back with him. He doesn’t want to be in a position where he has to pick a side. He is scared about that day when he has to do that and honestly anyone will be scared. He has done lot of brave things when it comes to jhanak. But when it comes to him he doesn’t fight as much as he gives importance to others happiness lot more. He was always shown someone trying to balance things in family. With two different kind of people living in family and him always being in the middle and loved by everyone , he was always someone who had to find a middle way ! Find short term solutions to keep peace, and that nature is truly showing its colors right now. Where he is trying to keep himself happy with jhanak somehow being in his life and marrying arshi to keep his family happy. He always had answers to solve most difficult situations in his family , he managed to come out of lot of chaos. He kept jhanak for as long as he could is testament if that. But now he is finding it hard to balance … because it’s jhanak we are talking about and she is more stubborn than anyone he has met. She doesn’t mend in his ways , doesn’t follow the path , has mind if her own, she likes to do the right thing that can cost her a lot… she couldn’t be more different! First time his plans aren’t working and that is throwing him all off … it’s the heart vs mind .. for both of them !

Originally posted by: Anusha16

Exactly Vira, these are external factors that will put even more pressure on their fragile relationship as it is. Ani ka stand tho hum already witness kar rahe hain. He is choosing family over J in a way. How will she have the confidence he will stand by her after accepting the marriage? Yes, he does support her, but he fails her when it really matters the most. Aise tho dono mein dooriyan aa jayenge. And what good are cracks in a fragile relationship like glass as it currently is between them?

RuNak relationship in retrospect is really like glass. Ek hadd takk bahot strong hai par sirf ek achi angle/height chahiye usse thodne ke liye, tukde tukde ho jayenge.

Tumne individual growth ke baare mein tho pehli bhol diya. I agree.

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

I absolutely agree....

If she can't be given the dignity that she deserves as his wife even now...then she must leave that place asap ..

Yesterday Jhanak's expression....oh my God..

It is better if one is crying , shouting and expressing their inner emotions...but this silence acceptance....the assumptions that I was just a roadblock in his path...it is heartbreaking...

And I don't have much knowledge regarding depression...waise but as much as I know...it is really insensitive of makers to show someone with symptoms of depression going through all this....

Yeah. Jhanak is depressed severely. It's not even funny anymore, to say the least. Hence my comment about her mental health. Me and Arna have had long discussions on J's mental health before. I have clinical depression and if I were J, I would have long unalived myself. Plain truth as such.

People don't get to understand depression much. It's not merely being sad or miserable, it's gut-wrenching indifference; it's not giving a eff about anything anymore including life or death, or yourself for that matter. Death is just the natural conclusion to it because you don't find any worth in living. The more people encourage you to live and say life is beautiful, the more you feel hopeless and wrong and find it ugly. Your efforts to end yourself only become stronger. You don't cure depression; you actually just learn to live with it.

I know a lot of people worry about Ani, but I worry about J more because I have been there, and I know how it ends very clearly. That's why I get angry at Makers sometimes at how inconsistent and insensitive J is being portrayed concerning depression/mental health. It's not a topic for TRP attraction. It's much more serious and devastating.

Originally posted by: shanakanj

Rishta mein bhi FL is again back at ML house . So I doubt in jhanak also somehow they will keep leads together with love and hate story. There are YouTube spoilers flowing that Arshi will run away from mandap due to the Dubai trip . And ani will marry jhanak in the mandap. Then Arshi will again make re entry into their life.

In star plus....

Fl ka Career...

Away from in laws toxicity...

Wo kya hota hai......

Yes jhanak is under depression for long long time … it’s surprising how she is holding on. It’s quite brave.

Once they part ways I will be worried for her, but I will be more worried if she stays with this toxic family long as well. She has tough life ahead. The only meaning to her life is with anirudh, I wonder how she will live on once he is also also lost to her.., 😣 why she came ti hide house why she is going through what she is ., because she loves him and he is the only thing that matters in her life now. And that is why I want makers to give a some other meaning and purpose as well…

Originally posted by: Anusha16

Yeah. Jhanak is depressed severely. It's not even funny anymore, to say the least. Hence my comment about her mental health. Me and Arna have had long discussions on J's mental health before. I have clinical depression and if I were J, I would have long unalived myself. Plain truth as such.

People don't get to understand depression much. It's not merely being sad or miserable, it's gut-wrenching indifference; it's not giving a eff about anything anymore including life or death, or yourself for that matter. Death is just the natural conclusion to it because you don't find any worth in living. The more people encourage you to live and say life is beautiful, the more you feel hopeless and wrong and find it ugly. Your efforts to end yourself only become stronger. You don't cure depression; you actually just learn to live with it.

I know a lot of people worry about Ani, but I worry about J more because I have been there, and I know how it ends very clearly. That's why I get angry at Makers sometimes at how inconsistent and insensitive J is being portrayed concerning depression/mental health. It's not a topic for TRP attraction. It's much more serious and devastating.

Originally posted by: rysohini

Ani and his petty games, ek din before Anishi shaadi, Babu busy with revenge saga. Kyu, coz J thukrao'ed him and said 'that night' held no meaning for her !

Wah wah

J thinks Ani was hesistent to 'celebrate' his wedding with Arshi, but now he can, after her infamous speech

So they are both just willing to give up on themselves and on eo? Kisiko ek inch na hilna hai !

Tabhi it is so easy for external factors to come and break everything about them! If not for God, ab tak Anishi shaadi aur teen zindegi ya barbaad ho chuki hoti !

In their need, to take this shaadi till the mandap, the makers have kinda spoiled the very 'flavour' of RuNak

#NonCommittal

So true ,the flavour is lost..

Even without romance it was best to watch with their eyelocks , care for eachother , fights , arguments ,....

Now after giving romantic scenes opposite they are showing .

True … and that is why I don’t and to have lot of hopes … 🤦🏽‍♀️

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

In star plus....

Fl ka Career...

Away from in laws toxicity...

Wo kya hota hai......

Originally posted by: Edkv74

Remember this pic? Srishti ji takes ideas from me always- whether it is her daughter’s honeymoon destination or sangeet attire!!

🩷🩷🩷🩷

Both needs to take classes on improving communication skills ! Whenever they talk they just create more disasters !

Ani’s genius plan this time to make jhanak jealous two days before wedding is so stupid !! I don’t know where did he leave his brain in Kashmir !

Originally posted by: rysohini

Ani and his petty games, ek din before Anishi shaadi, Babu busy with revenge saga. Kyu, coz J thukrao'ed him and said 'that night' held no meaning for her !

Wah wah

J thinks Ani was hesistent to 'celebrate' his wedding with Arshi, but now he can, after her infamous speech

So they are both just willing to give up on themselves and on eo? Kisiko ek inch na hilna hai !

Tabhi it is so easy for external factors to come and break everything about them! If not for God, ab tak Anishi shaadi aur teen zindegi ya barbaad ho chuki hoti !

In their need, to take this shaadi till the mandap, the makers have kinda spoiled the very 'flavour' of RuNak

#NonCommittal

Originally posted by: tellyme

Makers have made the mockery of their own concept. They showed that the marriage that happened was to happen and bound by nature's force and then they themself invalidated their own concept by making the leads sign the paper.

So in all this we are the fool to root for the couple which were never meant to be.

Definitely we are fools...watching itv serials and feeling for fictional characters.

Originally posted by: vira76

Both needs to take classes on improving communication skills ! Whenever they talk they just create more disasters !

Ani’s genius plan this time to make jhanak jealous two days before wedding is so stupid !! I don’t know where did he leave his brain in Kashmir !

He is vice President of company,he doesn't learn about communication skills this can happen Dil ki baat na kehnee aati ho☺️