Mehndi Wala Ghar: Episode Discussion Thread #3 - Page 37

Originally posted by: Rheaa40

Rati is not supporting him she is just using this opportunity to be called as Rahul's wife ....Rahul will be trapped very badly in this fake marriage drama bcs we know that Rati will not accept later that they were never married and will not be ready to leave him

Ofcourse she's gonna try to use the situation to her benefit but it's Rahul we're talking about I'm sure he must've thought smthg crazy.

Originally posted by: princesspurple

She's 100% going to use this opportunity to get married to him for real. We may even see her call her parents to add more drama to this.

Of course yes. As of now no news of new entries let's see if her parents actually enter.

Originally posted by: Divya294

Exactly I just read your comment immediately after posting mine and could absolutely relate with it.

In fact my whole family shared the same thought ki he was talking so highly ki maine kiya jo bolenge Sab main sununga lekin sabke aate hi inko mauka hi nahi mila bolne ka aur main mudda intoxicate kar ke lane ka to uth hi nahi paya

Are in pagalon ne bolne hi kaha diya. But still both Rahul & Manoj spoke. Intoxication wala part yes aaya hi nhi.

Originally posted by: Rheaa40

they were in different wavelengths and i agree Rahul's pov was better than Mauli's mahaanta but that should not decide his support for his love . When everyone was blaming her i just felt he should have supported her

Agreed Rahul's pov was better. He did support her yaar but now it's time for action rather than words just wait for tomorrow's episode.

Originally posted by: Divya294

I agree ekdum achanak se hriday parivartan to nahi ho sakta. Of course wo apna fayda dekh ke karegi jo karegi.

I think you are right she is going to misuse it badly against him😭 unless and until Rahul already has some backup plans for it

DN is just being herself bus.

Well I do feel that he has some plans.

Originally posted by: Divya294

Tricky question. Dharmsankat jaisa hai it's not easy to answer.

Rahul is right but only when they don't chose to stay with the family after this much like Manoj. Otherwise they are going to make her life a hell, he can't be with her all the time and mauli is still so innocent amd simple for this family.

Moreover through his silence probably makers suggested that one should remain prepared for such a circumstance, especially the girl, if they chose to elope and marry against the wishes of the family, even if the partner seems to be very trustworthy and madly in love with them. Not everybody is like Rahul and family due to their experience may be able to see what children can't. (Not in this case, but generally)

But by the family I mean those who have given birth or brought up you or at least truly loves or cares about you. Usually I won't recommend going against family ever but in mauli case it's only Manoj who fits in this criteria. It was he alone who adopted, brought up, educated and loved her all her life, so it must be only his say in such a huge decision of her life and so mauli should just care about his opinion and willingness and nobody else while marrying to her love.

I don't support mauli's obsession over family here but considering the fact that they have to live in that house with those people for all theithar lives, she needs to be in good terms with them.

Pretty good points you have put up and I agree with each one of your points Mauli's sole responsibilities for an family lies only with Manoj here but she needs and wants to co-exist amongst these creatures so she need to maintain that amount of peace and calm which also means SUNEGI TOH MAULI HI.

Originally posted by: Vidvish

Are in pagalon ne bolne hi kaha diya. But still both Rahul & Manoj spoke. Intoxication wala part yes aaya hi nhi.

Yes i agree bolne ka mauka hi nahi mila amd Rahul was looking broken like hell but still intoxication ko at least lana chahiye tha. But may be tomorrow this issue will ne addressed and with much more intensity.

Originally posted by: Rheaa40

I was on Rahul's side i believe his pov's are correct but his actions disappointed me and i didn't understood his point of going back to same place after marriage

Mauli is not completely wrong she loves Manoj a lot and we have seen that from first episode and she know if she marry Rahul all will blane Manoj that is the main thing which is stopping her and Rahul don't have anything like that no1 from the family is blaming him or his family so he is not worried about anyone

The problem here is from Mauli's pov is no one is understanding her pov na Manoj ko ghanta fark pad raha na Rahul ko same with Rahul but atleast Manoj shares Rahul pov's.As far as blaming Manoj is considered no one will target Manoj here coz according to family here is MAULI KI HI GALTI HAI USI NE HI SAB KUCH KIYA HAI.

Originally posted by: VirenDev

Pretty good points you have put up and I agree with each one of your points Mauli's sole responsibilities for an family lies only with Manoj here but she needs and wants to co-exist amongst these creatures so she need to maintain that amount of peace and calm which also means SUNEGI TOH MAULI HI.

Yes the coexistence is the sole justification for all her ati mahantam attitude. Now when Manoj is already in for her wedding plans, she otherwise did not required the permission and goodwill of other members of his family. In fact all of them except chote dadu comes under just her extended family by general norms and barring the emotional connection issue.

Even if she would have been clever and selfish enough to put up with these people, showing them their real places and equally argue with them like earlier ajanta used to then only she could have lived there but considering Mauli's present personality she will just be the victim of everybody's target (with or without marriage after this incident)

Originally posted by: VirenDev

Genuine question :

Who do you side with Rahul or Mauli?

Rahul who only did what was right for him and Mauli without thinking about consequences whatever and thinking about family especially about that family that doesn't give a dime about Mauli anyway and Rauli's relationship.

Mauli who thinks family is everything.She wanted her marriage to have in family's happy presence again mentioning that family who doesn't give a damn about her still she is looking out for that family like they are best family in the world and happily sacrifice her love for them and also happily give them any promises they ask them.Does Mauli's mahaanta in regards to this family has become an obsession for her? Or do you guys think whatever she is doing can be considered righteous in the long run?

Discuss.

First of all kudos to u for asking this question cos even I was about to ask the same.

I feel both r right as well as wrong to some extent.

Rahul's thoughts & povs were absolutely right I mean why do u have to think & care about them. This is absolutely me & quite practical too. He's impulsive yes but he does think about the consequences of his actions too. Today too hw he was ready to face anything & everything after they return home proves that. But yeah his actions r reckless & that's where he's wrong.

Mauli & her ati mahanta is getting on my nerves now. And that's where she's wrong in doing anything & everything for the so called family who doesn't give a damn about her. This is where she's wrong. The right thing is her love for Manoj & she knows if they do this the blame will come on him & she doesn't want that.

So that's my opinion. I don't know if I'm able to voice out my thoughts properly or not. Do let me know if I'm making sense.

I can't pick sides clearly but yeah my inclination is lil more towards Rahul.