Mehndi Wala Ghar: Episode Discussion Thread #1 - Page 98

Originally posted by: Rheaa40

Mauli is not spineless and we all saw how she managed Manas (initially alone)... yesterday she was in a situation where she was not able to answer back other than that she have always took stand for right be it in mini and vicky track, or Manas track

Exactly. Mauli is not spineless she's way too selfless which may be mistaken as spineless. She always takes a stand for the right. Yesterday's situation has nthg to do with her strength.

Originally posted by: rekha_crm

Mauli is not spineless. Yes, she just is too selfless and tends to put others in front of herself.

But she came to this house only coz of Manoj...so she started clearing Manoj's path to Janki ma's forgiveness and she's gotten deep into it now.

But yes she's really sorted and avoiding Rahul as much as she can. Her decision to leave for Mumbai in this circumstances is the right thing. She's doing herself a favour. She doesn't want to witness Rahul's engagement to Rati... And I'm glad that here she has given her own feelings some importance.

This is exactly what I'm saying. Mauli is just too selfless which may seem as spineless but that's not true.

Her gratefulness for Dumbnoj however stupid may seem she values it way too much hence her mahaan behaviour.

It's really brave of her to leave for Mumbai & distance herself from Rahul. Might have been a tough choice but I'm glad she made it.

Originally posted by: VirenDev

Agar baat uske related hai toh yes she is a little spineless probably not her fault if Dumbnoj has always been her voice growing up and has not really given her a chance to stand for herself or teach her that going a little overprotective on her but agar baat family ki hai toh she is not spineless at all yes she cares too much which also come from the fact she was adopted and never really had real family so she is yielding for this type of relationship but maybe in the process it would seem to us that she cares a bit too much but in her pov she doesn't want anyone to get devoid of such family due to family tensions that's why she was one who was most eager to get that forgiveness from Janki maa for Dumbnoj.Right answer would probably be she values this family more than other members in this family.

I'm saying this again Mauli is too too too selfless which appears as spinelessness. She cares way too much about others & hence her own self takes a back seat. About dumbnoj yeah what u r saying is absolutely right that guy is useless usne shi parenting nhi ki hogi which obvio has made her this selfless. Her being orphan has only added to that. U r right she just values others & family much more than her own self.

Originally posted by: rekha_crm

Definitely. She had the spine to refuse marriage to Manas even though Janki ma literally forced her to accept him back.

True inspite of everyone forcing she was quite strong she'll not accept him the 2nd chance thing she agreed bcos of Dumbnoj.

Originally posted by: VirenDev

Exactly she is not spineless she is just conflicted on one end she wants to confess her feelings on the other end she can't see her love getting engaged to a dumb, jealous and annoying girl.Amidst all this it may seem she is spineless but she is not she is just going through emotions rn.

True. She's conflicted now & anyone in her place would've been. The guy she loves understands her too well is her support system but is oblivious to her feelings. Plus her latest identity crisis is adding more to the misery. She's going through a lot yet has taken a firm decision Kudos to her for that.

Originally posted by: rekha_crm

Her conflict between wanting to confess and holding herself back is justified.

This family is narrow minded. They'll not consider her eligible for Rahul, since she was douchebag's wife for a few hours.

She realises that it's not so simple.

Yet she was willing to hear Rahul's confession and then tell her own feelings to him but it's Rahul who tied her tongue completely. Him telling her that he's in a relationship has made her suppress her feelings.

And until she knows that Rahul is not in love with Rati, she's not going to tell him anything.

Totally justified.

She already knows what'll be the consequences of her relationship with Rahul yet can't help herself from falling more for him. The other side he's oblivious to her feelings till now to top it he kinda agreed for the engagement. All of this r making things difficult fr her. Just hope she leaves soon. Maybe tomorrow or Friday.

Originally posted by: Vidvish

Totally justified.

She already knows what'll be the consequences of her relationship with Rahul yet can't help herself from falling more for him. The other side he's oblivious to her feelings till now to top it he kinda agreed for the engagement. All of this r making things difficult fr her. Just hope she leaves soon. Maybe tomorrow or Friday.

I too want her to leave bt she will not leave she is present there in sangeet bts too..so the chances of her leaving is very less

Originally posted by: Rheaa40

I too want her to leave bt she will not leave she is present there in sangeet bts too..so the chances of her leaving is very less

Sangeet BTS? Where did u see? Site or channel name.

Originally posted by: Vidvish

Sangeet BTS? Where did u see? Site or channel name.

Insta it was shared by pujarisudharshini i think she is creative director of MWG

So much discussion on my single sentence 😂 I feel so special, guys! 😂

I’m not going to go deep into it because you guys have said everything.
If you look at my very first posts, I was very understanding of Mauli’s love and wish for a family unit because of her being an orphan.

But this is an educated, sorted and mentally strong woman we are talking about. She had so much self respect when it came to Manas. She even stood for herself in front of Ajanta. The fact that she is so indebted to Manoj that she fails to see how badly the family treats her, how ungrateful they generally are of her, how all they do is take and take and take from her without giving her any real acceptance or gratitude or bonding is what grates my nerves.

I sympathise with her feelings with regard to Rahul. That was never my point of contention - isliye I watch RauLi scenes. I understand where both of them are coming from. She is reeling from her failed marriage and unrequited love. He is in a relationship with a childhood friend who everyone expects him to marry. I empathise with both of them. I HAVE NOT called her spineless in Rahul’s matter. Her avoiding Rahul and understanding the ground reality of their relationship is proof of that.

Even now the reason Mauli is leaving is Rahul and Rati.

I called her spineless with respect to the way she is ready to be taken for granted by the family. Yes, it is her selflessness. I agree. Yes, it is because of her past as an orphan. It all makes sense but like I said a few days ago - the family has given her responsibilities but no rights. She is alone but no one cares. They fail her every single moment they do not acknowledge that she is the reason they are all even in the same bloody room. But she doesn’t see it. And if she does, she doesn’t find anything odd about it. And if she does, she doesn’t do anything about it.

I am annoyed by both the family’s nonchalance about all the injustice that happened with Mauli and Mauli’s acceptance of it.

They see Manisha’s dukh dard and peeda but not Mauli’s? Are they going to wait another 24 years before they address how wrong and ungrateful they have been with the poor girl?
And the fact is that we all know that Mauli is not the kind of person who will ever ask them to acknowledge her. Which, as a very normal human being, and not an ITV bahu, I find very annoying 😂

Do I make sense to you guys? I hope my rambling makes sense…just had a 36 hour shift😒