We do give him margin.thats why people were rooting for him to gradually get over his ex . We were happy whenever he showed boundaries and could look past some cringe moments. But he ruined things. Even now the expectation isnt that he loves Abhira back but only clears his stance with Ruhi. He remains blind to Ruhis evil behavior. She pours kerosene in fire and then pretends to be unaware. He buys it. She is SO manipulative and he's allowing it. Does he really think Ruhis behavior of public exposure is appropriate? Does he think she's going to give him well meaning advice when she's made her contempt for Abhira and her love for him and expectations to marry him amply clear? But he's thanking her and asking for advice?!
He couldn't show her thr boundaries when she drew up DP but is upset Ruhis deeds were revealed. She is clearly lying that she made DP to help him or family. She made it to clear the road for their marriage. And if thats what he also wants, why is he leading Abhira on?! He has been leading her on even if he said pyaar nahi hoga because of all his actions. Why hide things from Abhira? Does she not deserve respect, honesty, transparency?
Abhira proposed deal because she didn't want either of them to be tied zabardasti forever. He took the deal because he loved Ruhi but he is now making her face the allegations of "trapping" him and character assassination. Its him who is extra touchy with Abhira and she allowed it because she has fallen for him over months and thinks he is over his past because he said so. But he is flipping like a switch.
There's no comparison in the wrongs.
Abhiras faults are she's impulsive and meddles. But she's more than paid the price for it. She has been name called and taunted a fair bit. Today she gets more blame than even the main culprit like Charu and in deal shaadi also- Armaan who is equally party to it- is getting off much easier as seen in bts. It is he who made her hide it but she's getting character assassinated.




. Just because she's the FL doesn't mean she's always right and never makes mistakes. Abhira actually messes up a lot, so is Armaan. Abhira's problem is she's always sticking her nose into other people's business instead of minding her own. She gets called out for it but keeps making the same mistakes. As for Armaan, his issues seem to stem from some deep-seated psychological stuff from his childhood. That's not going to magically disappear in 9 months just because Abhira is a ray of sunshine around him. It's a long-term thing, plus he's a people pleaser.

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