Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 24th Apr 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 14

I absolutely disliked Armaan's temple and Vaada scene with Bhabhi, and I do find him useless, spineless, and indecisive. But, sadly, we give absolutely zero margin to him whenever he is at fault. Even when he is doing well in one of the episodes, that day as well, he is bashed for all his previous mistakes. Right now, even Abhira did wrong by not telling Ar about Charu, by starting to talk about how Dev is a good person, etc., without actually knowing him personally, and especially when people just got to know about the relationship. There is a time and place for everything; that was not the place to defend Dev or Charu. The defense for her is that she is in love, so she can make mistakes. Even Armaan thinks he is in love with Ruhi or maybe he is, then he can make mistakes too; he has made it clear to Abhira that he can never love her, and this marriage is not real. It was always a deal that was reiterated by Abhira a thousand times. Abhira's emotions have recently changed; before that, she did not want to be with Armaan. The touching and being close part, from the day their marriage started, have been very touchy with each other; none of them have ever strictly made any boundaries. Even when Abhira had no feelings, she never cared for his touch. It did not matter to her. Her change in feelings is known to us, not Armaan. God forbid, if Armaan in her sleep would have touched Abhira's hair like she did, he would have been dragged over coals here because he gets bashed for everything and what Abhira does is for some reason. How is he leading her on when they have always had this close intimacy? I do feel he is leading Ruhi on because he knows what she feels for him.

Another huge mistake was not taking a stand for her parents. She is being defended for not taking a stand for her parents, but Armaan is being bashed because he did not defend her in front of the family in Charu's matter?? Armaan here himself feels she is wrong; how and why should he defend her? Any brother would be mad if they just got to know that his sister is having an affair with her boss who is 15 years older than him. No one in the world will be okay with this.

No character or person in this world can always be right all the time. Armaan has made mistakes, and there's no doubt that they are much bigger than Abhira's.(I still feel his biggest mistake is what he did with Rohit). However, Abhira has also made mistakes. If we are defending her because she is in love, naive, or has no ill intentions, then Armaan can be defended in the same way. Whatever he has done, he has never had any ill intentions towards anyone. Maybe he is still in love with Ruhi. He definitely has unresolved childhood issues, which lead him to make decisions by prioritizing the family's interests to gain their approval.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

I absolutely disliked Armaan's temple and Vaada scene with Bhabhi, and I do find him useless, spineless, and indecisive. But, sadly, we give absolutely zero margin to him whenever he is at fault. Even when he is doing well in one of the episodes, that day as well, he is bashed for all his previous mistakes. Right now, even Abhira did wrong by not telling Ar about Charu, by starting to talk about how Dev is a good person, etc., without actually knowing him personally, and especially when people just got to know about the relationship. There is a time and place for everything; that was not the place to defend Dev or Charu. The defense for her is that she is in love, so she can make mistakes. Even Armaan thinks he is in love with Ruhi or maybe he is, then he can make mistakes too; he has made it clear to Abhira that he can never love her, and this marriage is not real. It was always a deal that was reiterated by Abhira a thousand times. Abhira's emotions have recently changed; before that, she did not want to be with Armaan. The touching and being close part, from the day their marriage started, have been very touchy with each other; none of them have ever strictly made any boundaries. Even when Abhira had no feelings, she never cared for his touch. It did not matter to her. Her change in feelings is known to us, not Armaan. God forbid, if Armaan in her sleep would have touched Abhira's hair like she did, he would have been dragged over coals here because he gets bashed for everything and what Abhira does is for some reason. How is he leading her on when they have always had this close intimacy? I do feel he is leading Ruhi on because he knows what she feels for him.

Another huge mistake was not taking a stand for her parents. She is being defended for not taking a stand for her parents, but Armaan is being bashed because he did not defend her in front of the family in Charu's matter?? Armaan here himself feels she is wrong; how and why should he defend her? Any brother would be mad if they just got to know that his sister is having an affair with her boss who is 15 years older than him. No one in the world will be okay with this.

No character or person in this world can always be right all the time. Armaan has made mistakes, and there's no doubt that they are much bigger than Abhira's.(I still feel his biggest mistake is what he did with Rohit). However, Abhira has also made mistakes. If we are defending her because she is in love, naive, or has no ill intentions, then Armaan can be defended in the same way. Whatever he has done, he has never had any ill intentions towards anyone. Maybe he is still in love with Ruhi. He definitely has unresolved childhood issues, which lead him to make decisions by prioritizing the family's interests to gain their approval.

Agreed on your post regarding Abhira..

But don't on Armaan..

His actions have no edge..

His actions are im-moral + unethical,and tgey shouldn't be justified..

Abhira was good,she had the habbit of interfering since start..

But she used to have voice of reason..

She hid charu's internship,and than stood up for her,I could imagine that from her character..

But after that her hiding charu's affair and thats also with her boss,it was doomed but lets say,it was not good to snitch so she kept quite as charu didn't deny regarding informing harvale about it,she asked for some time..

But wehn it came out in open than her stupidly defensing that affair was bekaar,purely stupidity..

And than her lecture on pyaar to Armaan,she is in love is no explaination..at that time Armaan was worrued abouther sister..and she was going pyaar galat nahi hai,dev sir ache hai blah blah blah..

My blood was boiling....

And above all,her chupi on sl*tshaming of her paremts,oh ho ho.....that was done deal..

And maze ki baat yeh hai ki after all that crap of armaan about 3 years deal she is still holding on his sleeces for emotional support..

Not going to defend thus batsh*tjustbecoz she is FL..

And don't get me start on Armaan...that character is filthy..thats it...

End of discussion on him..

For all this she has no family or extended family except one relationship her mom. She sees ar like her mom who cares her . So she expects ar to defend her like her mom does at home or outside. Which will never happen. Because he is a hubby though fake. He is a responsible son of poddars first. When he himself turned his love away didn't go to claim it against family why will he support someone's love against his family that too charu is his sister. In reality everyone will look that way only. Very few love marriages are successful rest all go in flow of family and other conditions. She is immature and childish to talk about love and married life where she took her own shadi in a deal one. Whenever cousins or family are saying aap ka pyar both used to gigle. They never projected as fake shadi. Cvs kept ruhi away from this deal shadi to be disclosed by herself to family. She was bound to ar promise to make abhira independent so kept calm Orelse kab ka pata chalta. Rohits words have come true if bhabhi loves you and you take her as jimmedari. He said no i won't love her. Chitwali ko bhoolke aahe bhadoge 🤣🤣 chitwali samne hi bhoolna degi kureedegi poora.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

you see if you only watch clips..you don’t get the actual picture like if you watch the whole episode..actually in my opinion that show story is being built up quite well.. I watched it from the start of this Gen 3. We were angry because the intial couple love story was built up.so nicely..and then he got killed..but they want to show second time love I suppose. And also her first husband was mistaken for his twin by some goons and his vehicle was shot at..and he eventually fell off a cliff.so the second husband wasn’t really responsible for the first husbands death..but he felt that way as it was his brother..and the relationship with her second husband is far from developing into anything romantic..I won’t be surprised if they do bring the first husband back and do a happy ending 🤔

Originally posted by: Indira1211

not true..last Gen had a different story..I didn’t find leads destroyed at all..heroine found love second time around..nothing new with that..as many women do get divorced then find love again with their second husbands and are very happy. And here nobody is destroyed…

She destroyed her sister’s wedding and later made a complete stranger father of her child and if that wasn’t enough she was enthusiastic to get back with her ex within few months of her second husband’s death.

What was the point of her moving on from her ex and his toxic family then if she was going to go back to her ex mother in law’s feet and beg for a chance ?

The moving on with second love is a nice trope but Gen3 had a very poor storyline , sorry but I don’t think Abhira’s mother got any better character development , her step sister is more liked than her rightfully so .

Nobody is destroyed here….. about that true they’re the same characters we got introduced to but their progress is definitely destroyed . Armaan was recognising cracks in Ruhi’s behaviour and was trying to maintain boundaries till Divorce/Mussorie track but subsequent shiv Shakti just butchered all the development he made , Abhira is ignoring the obvious clues for a long time now and Ruhi is getting insane day after day . They’re getting worse than how they started .

Originally posted by: Daffodils01

I did some research on last gen and got to know that the step sister who started out bad had the most amazing development arc while FL kept switching between males for her dream of having a family .

She destroyed her sister’s wedding and later made a complete stranger father of her child and if that wasn’t enough she was enthusiastic to get back with her ex within few months of her second husband’s death.

What was the point of her moving on from her ex and his toxic family then if she was going to go back to her ex mother in law’s feet and beg for a chance ?

The moving on with second love is a nice trope but Gen3 had a very poor storyline , sorry but I don’t think Abhira’s mother got any better character development , her step sister is more liked than her rightfully so .

Nobody is destroyed here….. about that true they’re the same characters we got introduced to but their progress is definitely destroyed . Armaan was recognising cracks in Ruhi’s behaviour and was trying to maintain boundaries till Divorce/Mussorie track but subsequent shiv Shakti just butchered all the development he made , Abhira is ignoring the obvious clues for a long time now and Ruhi is getting insane day after day . They’re getting worse than how they started .

They successfully detached me from this legacy show.. Happy that I stopped watching from last week.

Hello everyone

Haven't been able to watch the show in the past 2 days

Is it true hotsa Maasa gave Ar a pitaai

I can't wait to watch that

Does Ruhi Birla also gets more slaps?

Originally posted by: bangtanARMY

Hello everyone

Haven't been able to watch the show in the past 2 days

Is it true hotsa Maasa gave Ar a pitaai

I can't wait to watch that

Does Ruhi Birla also gets more slaps?

Ruhi ko kuch nhi milta na pitai na pyaar.

Ar Sa ko maar padi Hai, kaafi zyada .

https://x.com/kinzouelmire/status/1783092830711263265

Armaan is weird.

He does not like his father; the only people he loves and wants approval from are Dadi and Vidya.

https://x.com/kinzouelmire/status/1783113448173310206