YRKKH: BTS, SM updates and Spoilers Thread # 7 - Page 107

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Lets wait and see. Abhira has never been shown as stupid or rash.

She's never been ungrateful either.

However this roof, food is not some khairat they are giving her. If they throw her out today she will fend for herself.

The reason she's there is because her mom made the ultimate sacrifice for Armaan and she has been large hearted enough to not guilt trip him about it. She knows that it was a choice her mother made.

Only fufa shamed Akshara and he has been vile. She's not in his house. Moreover it was completely out of the blue. Sometimes the only reaction one can give is stunned silence which is what I saw. She's clearly very hurt and upset.

I will wait to see her actions before calling her out since the other characters are much much worse anyway that i dont see her behavior as being too outrageous

Its a joke for example to see Abhira called out for interference when Ruhi is much much worse. In this jount family every one is up in each others space and meddling so why should only Abhira be called out.

And she's never done anything with malicious intent or with intent to cheat or betray trust or anything.

I will wait to see what she does before bashing her.

She's always had reasons for what she does. She has opinions and sticks by them. She doesn't hide or manipulate, sabotage peoples lives.

Originally posted by: Susi26

I didn’t understand the statement badon ko bhi badalna padega.. I mean why parents at home has to change their mindsets according to their child.. at home there will be certain restrictions for the benefit of the children, children do follow them right until their marriage. It’s in every house. Children should definitely express their choices and elders who are much ahead in wisdom should guide children if they are going wrong. In charu’s case, elders know that Dev is from rival firm, so they have instructed her not to work under him for the benefit of the family.. but neither Abhira understood it and Charu obeyed her parents. Any parent or elder in family get mad and become furious knowing that girl had fallen in love with a person like Dev.. he may be good at heart and decent in character.. but any parent reaction will be same in the first instance.. Did Abhira ever gone against to her mom? No right? Why she wants to change the dynamics of that family who were ok with each other?? I felt bad for her today, but I expected that this would come on her long before.. and I strongly wanted her to leave the house, but people bashed me saying she is poddar bahu, permanent wife blah blah.. and now the same people wants her to leave immediately . Armaan is not right for her.. for her hostel is better than PH. She no need to depend, get humiliated now and then, tolerate all the hate. And now she totally has fallen for him. Hope she come into her senses at least now.

I am all for both sides adjusting acc to each other's need but some things should not be ignored.

Like Kaveri coz of her ego or whatever, disapproving of Ar's mother and destroying 4 lives in one go, or choosing career based on gender, etc. it is quite prevalent in India but with time it has to change.

@bold it was because they don't want their daughter to work outside. If this was the case they could easily ask Charu to work in their firm.

Even if Ab was not here all these kands by charu or krish would definitely happen.

And when it comes to family being ok with each other, none except chacha's fam live a normal life. Madhav vidya don't even have a decent relationship, Ar's whole life is being in guilt, kajal is victim of domestic violence, sanjay is a disgusting person, their kids are suffering to have career of their choice or get love from parents. Ro was normal but his brother - wife betrayal was a huge blow on him.

I agree with you that it's natural for family to get this reaction when their daughter is dating someone like that and except dadisa and fufasa none of the family members were wrong at their part. Ab should stop defending dev again and again as she doesn't know him personally.

Also I agree Ab should stop meddling with everything and fight with dadisa for people who will not think twice to throw her under the bus.

Sometimes even if we feel something is not right we should mind our own business as it's not worth it but as itv fl she cannot keep her mouth shut. A day before she was standing up for ruhi to do puja against dadisa and gave her own clay like girl a few days earlier she was the one who brought DP and Ab is playing sisters with her.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Only fufa shamed Akshara and he has been vile. She's not in his house. Moreover it was completely out of the blue. Sometimes the only reaction one can give is stunned silence which is what I saw. She's clearly very hurt and upset.

I will wait to see her actions before calling her out since the other characters are much much worse anyway that i dont see her behavior as being too outrageous

Its a joke for example to see Abhira called out for interference when Ruhi is much much worse. In this jount family every one is up in each others space and meddling so why should only Abhira be called out.

And she's never done anything with malicious intent or with intent to cheat or betray trust or anything.

I will wait to see what she does before bashing her.

She's always had reasons for what she does. She has opinions and sticks by them. She doesn't hide or manipulate, sabotage peoples lives.

Not telling Armaan about Yuvraj is stupid

Accepting case against Dadi in which Dadi is innocent is stupid

Frequently running out of the house without telling anyone is stupid

Involving in people’s businesses rather than minding her own business inspite of Armaan warning her many times is stupid.

Finally Staying in a house where where people bash and attack her if anything goes wrong is utterly stupid.

Replying to someone who thinks Abhira is a very intelligent person.

Just realized that I was blocked by that user with whom I never interacted .

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

This is going the OG way, in OG the FL got the ML's cousin married with her ex bf without telling anyone. Plus the cousin wasn't mentally stable. Uske baad pure khandaan ko lecture diya.

Yes the og situation was different. ML's cousin was already married to the guy and had a child with him. She was forcefully taken away and her child was abandoned by her family. They even drove her to unstable condition. And then kidnapped her husband after he came looking for her years later. So the ML's family were criminals and the cousin was not in a state to escape herself. So the FL helped the two to reunite. That is not the case here. There is no need for Abhira to interfere in this matter. If Daru cannot take a stand for their relationship and take necessary steps being grown-up adults, then they are better off separated. Dev is a goddamn reputed senior lawyer. If he can't get his gf away from her pagal family, then he should just get lost.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Yes the og situation was different. ML's cousin was already married to the guy and had a child with him. She was forcefully taken away and her child was abandoned by her family. They even drove her to unstable condition. And then kidnapped her husband after he came looking for her years later. So the ML's family were criminals and the cousin was not in a state to escape herself. So the FL helped the two to reunite. That is not the case here. There is no need for Abhira to interfere in this matter. If Daru cannot take a stand for their relationship and take necessary steps being grown-up adults, then they are better off separated. Dev is a goddamn reputed senior lawyer. If he can't get his gf away from her pagal family, then he should just get lost.

I don't think the FL knew that the family was criminal or the cousin was unstable because of her mother when she got them married. She got to know this later on but the audience knew.

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

by comparing Abhira to Ruhi, you are doing Abhira a disservice.:.Ruhi is a manipulative wretch who has no scruples .:why are we even talking about her ..for me, parents are holy cow ..no matter what, you don’t allow anyone to say a word against them and get way with it ..anyway I understand your connect to Abhira ..hope your trust in her is rewarded ..I have given up reading even updates after today

Yes Abhira standing by while that ghatiya phupha was character assassinating her dead parents was just so off. No matter who was talking or what the situation was, her not reacting to such allegation just left a bitter taste altogether. This is was not the usual blame games, but much more disgusting than that. You don't just let people get away after saying such things about your parents.

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Exactly Abhira should know when to step back .. she was gung ho in helping Ruhi making a clay idol .. the same girl who served her divorce papers .

her so called lover did not have the guts to stand up for her even her grand parents did not

today fifasa is angry with Abhira .. and he has a valid reason .. his daughter is doing stupidity Abd somebody from the same family knew about it Abd kept quiet ..

frankly even I would be very annoyed if any young girl of 21-22 being involved with a man who is 15 years older than her and has child from a broken marriage

As we grow older if Charu was 30-35 like Ruhi is now if she was involved with someone of fufasa ‘s age even that’s disturbing but at the age of 30 you have seen the world ..

Why shouldn’t the vandals scream at their daughter and Abhira .. but my problem what was kajal doing .. even Kaveri had over heard Charu has a boyfriend she still was involved in the treasure hunt of Abhira and Armaan why didn’t Kaveri tell kajal to call Charu right now after gangaur puja