yeah this is true well... my cousin was very violent and he used to have fights , I felt like he bullied other people he used to take drugs but It all was because of problems he had at home!
His mum was beaten to a pulp by their dad, she was physically abused and at the time when this was happening they were young.
I felt like if they kept this torment inside them, this pain and horror and thats probably the reason why he was doing it, all these bad things at home made him violent!
after a while it was when their mother was beaten
Hun- it takes a LOT of guts to admit what you just said. I am SO happy that you've let us all know how true abusiveness is. It's true- if a kid grows acustomed to an abusive environment, they sadly grow up to be abusers. I can totally feel for your cousin- because it wasnt his fault that he was the way he was. It was the environment he grew up in. But still- Still I will say that we can make a difference. You'd be surprised at how just talking about such issues can make such a great big impact.
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