Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 10th Mar 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 24

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

dev asked her do you know kaveri poddar. She immediately said no. There only it could have cut. It could be some other lawyer vs arman and ar could have held her hand dadi is right instead of ruhis hand 😜.

She didn't say no. She was going to say but dev assume by own ki kaveri poddar is famous so she must have known her.

Originally posted by: Nephy1

But stil thats not how you behave with family..

So ab agar poddars use apni family na manein mujhe koi issue nhi hai..

Dadisa ki innocence ka proof dekhne ke baad toh dev bhi unka sath de dega..

But yeh trust nhi hai jo family members ko hota hai ek dusre par..

Jo abhira ko hota akshara par in same case scenario...

So now poddars are very well justified to treat abhira as outsider...becoz she is acting like third party not family.

Sayad tum shi ho woh galat hai

Lekin sry iss family ne kabhi usse family ka part nhi mana ...jab jab unhe woh pasand nhi aati pura khandan uski parvarish per sawal uthata hai tumhari maa koun hai baap koun hai tum kya ho etc etc aur yeh bar bar hua hai ....

Aise mein uska use family per yakin Na Karna bahut normal si baat lagti hai ...yehi family unki convenient ke hisab se use Bahu mante Hain nahin to use a ladki bulate Hain bahar wali ,koi gair ladki ...

Aise me koi bhi kitna bhi acha ho unka trust toot ge agar dadi ko uski baat itni buri lagi toh sacho jab jab pura khandan uski Mari Hui maa ki parvarish per sawal uthati hai to usse kaise lagta hoga ...?

At the end yanha per dono dadi aur abhira galat hai thoda bahut dadi ko bahut ghamand hai apni badi si Parivar per aur abhira ko apni maa ke parvarish per bahut jyada Bharosa hai 👍....

Originally posted by: Nephy1

Its not about heart,its a sho,we have to go by the script..

Uska dialogue after armaan says dadisa ko jail ho jayegi and abhira is like ki mein imagination ke pool mein nhi kudna chahti daidisa ke khilaf mere pass proof hai tum dekho tum unhein kaise innocent proof karoge..

I think its very subjective thing,mein apni family ke liye bahut possesive hoon aur distrust mujhe nhi acha lagta when someone shows on family...so maybe isliye I am finding abhira very wrong..

Thsi is their basic concept

Abhira doesn't know to adjust in a family. She doesn't know ki kaise baat karni hai. Her mother knew how to manage in family but her sasural waas too professional ki tum hmare matters me Mt bolo.

Now they changed it entirely

Originally posted by: Nephy1

Mein apni family se question nhi karungi and thats where abhira started getting wrong..

Tum batao mujhe tumhari family ke khilaaf koi saboot leke aa jeye would you trust those proofs and start question your family or would downrightly reject them...answer this question to yourself not me..

There is only one scenario where you will pay heed to such proofs and question the concened person and that is when he is your padosi,koi jananewala who you think is good but now you are in conflict after those proofs and would think ki chalo yaar bnda toh acha hai ek baar puch lete hai....

So abhira doesn't consider poddars her family,yeh toh clear ho gya.

Mein nhi keh rhi ki kare but fir they are also not wrong to not treat her as family...

Originally posted by: Nephy1

Its not about heart,its a sho,we have to go by the script..

Uska dialogue after armaan says dadisa ko jail ho jayegi and abhira is like ki mein imagination ke pool mein nhi kudna chahti daidisa ke khilaf mere pass proof hai tum dekho tum unhein kaise innocent proof karoge..

I think its very subjective thing,mein apni family ke liye bahut possesive hoon aur distrust mujhe nhi acha lagta when someone shows on family...so maybe isliye I am finding abhira very wrong..

Originally posted by: priyabehera

Sayad tum shi ho woh galat hai

Lekin sry iss family ne kabhi usse family ka part nhi mana ...jab jab unhe woh pasand nhi aati pura khandan uski parvarish per sawal uthata hai tumhari maa koun hai baap koun hai tum kya ho etc etc aur yeh bar bar hua hai ....

Aise mein uska use family per yakin Na Karna bahut normal si baat lagti hai ...yehi family unki convenient ke hisab se use Bahu mante Hain nahin to use a ladki bulate Hain bahar wali ,koi gair ladki ...

Aise me koi bhi kitna bhi acha ho unka trust toot ge agar dadi ko uski baat itni buri lagi toh sacho jab jab pura khandan uski Mari Hui maa ki parvarish per sawal uthati hai to usse kaise lagta hoga ...?

At the end yanha per dono dadi aur abhira galat hai thoda bahut dadi ko bahut ghamand hai apni badi si Parivar per aur abhira ko apni maa ke parvarish per bahut jyada Bharosa hai 👍....

Mein aaj ka epi nhi dekha toh us par comment nhi karumgi..

Lekin abhira ka outrightly daidsa ko culprit maan lena mujhe toh acha nhi laga...see people will say ki nhi mana usne aake pucha toh sahi dadisa se but vhi na puch hi liya toh fir bharosa hi nhi hai..

Dadisa uske sath act kara karti thi but baat vahi ki yeh baat tabhi hoti when abhira just enetered tab itna bura nhi lagta ab 4 mahine ho gaye hai and we all saw how dadisa started accepting her..

Ek growth unke relationship mein bhi ayi hai isliye its looking bad to me..

Agar yeh rohit ke time hota jan mein hota toh mujhe abhira nhi lagti thi galat...

Now toh I amfinding her wrong in this case..

Aur mujhe lag rahi hai toh IDK trp audience ko toh kitni lag rhi hogi..

We all know how trp audience values family...

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

she is wrong i know.But she is raised alone so she cant trust anyone easily. Ar panah di word is harsh but he was also right as in her zidd she is not listening to other side holding that proof in hand as truth. Sometimes zidd is bigger enemy which is shown before too. Abhiras mom family reference done today through dadi. Kabhi tumhari maa bhi ho sakti hi. They are getting the fb out .

Han...thats why I didn't find dadisa dialogue not rude today ki family nhi hai toh family ki value kaise samjhogi..

Abhira proved her right yaar..

And me wrong..

Originally posted by: Dk_2024

Thsi is their basic concept

Abhira doesn't know to adjust in a family. She doesn't know ki kaise baat karni hai. Her mother knew how to manage in family but her sasural waas too professional ki tum hmare matters me Mt bolo.

Now they changed it entirely

Hmm..

Yes thats what I am feeling..

Ki it should be eye opener for her..

Ki proof humesha sach nhi hote.

Jo log humare hote hai proof unke khilaf bhi ho toh bhi unke liye khade hona padta hai(jaise armaan uske liye hua tha when dadisa thrown her put of house after drunken act),kyunki aise toh kal ko koi armaan ko fansa dega yeh toh chal padegi case ladne fir aise toh rishte na bane na sambhale aur na hi chlein, its not ki parivaar ke pyaar ki patti bandhi hai..

If armaan is wrong I call him out everytime,toh mein abhira ko kaise edge de doon..

Jaise vo apni mumma ke liye khadi hoti vo uska pura parivaar tha vaise hi yeh saara ar ka parivaar hai...

Isliye toh I want ki vo case haare use pata lage ki proofs are not truth..your trust on your closed ones is also necessary in life to be balanced...

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

we have to trust both families in that factor either mayka or sasuraal as both give that place , love and ijjat. In mayka we are pampered with love and told the mistakes to be set in a calmer way by parents. But in sasural we are told in a harsher tone as there is no blood connection there any day. Its all accept relations as bonded that way for life. If our parents scold us for our mistakes we ignore as love whereas if inlaws point us we take in ego and anger. Thats why sasural looks horrible for many but any relationship is built on trust and understanding . Mostly handling issues with maturity, no impulsiveness and words to be used carefully. And everyone has to experience it on their own the situations rolled in . For abhira she has accepted arman like her mom who takes care of her. Still she is on arman ki maa , arman ke papa. She saw vidya as mom when vidya told no gadbad no badbad..Once she said maa before yuvi when vidya is unconscious. She will slowly accept the relations. Dadi she herself said so its going there only. What i found was when she saud to ruhi in yuvi track don't be like my elder sister immediately she was struck with yuvi . Another round done yesterday so accident is coming next . She was raised alone without any family around except her mom so it takes time.

Yess..

I understand this..

Being modern is not means not being always argue and prove yourself right..

Sometimes you had to think about your husband,your in-laws also...

Originally posted by: Nephy1

Han...thats why I didn't find dadisa dialogue not rude today ki family nhi hai toh family ki value kaise samjhogi..

Abhira proved her right yaar..

And me wrong..