Teri Meri Doriyaann Episode Discussion Thread - 53 - Page 16

Originally posted by: DanmeiLover

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I don't know what expectations people had from Sahiba. I never did. I don't believe in undue expectations from human beings. Especially flawed characters like Angad and Sahiba , who are made of 90 % ego and are in no way sorted human beings.

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Respectfully if Sahiba had as much ego as Angad, divorce would have happened a long long time ago. A woman with ego like Angad's would not have put up with all the sh*t thrown at her quietly and graciously. She would have said some harsh truths everytime bebe trotted out "Sahiba ne mujhe bahut naraz kiya hai"

No person with even normal healthy ego would put up with the treatment meted out after she saved their business/house/lives/angad (I am not talking about Angad here, but rest of Brars

Angad with his ego could slap her but Sahiba with her alleged ego could not utter a word to push back against the harshness of Brars.

Even at the worst of Sahiba's fears about Seerat, she never did the equivalent of "sorry bolo Sahiba..bolo ki mai galat hun". Yes she left the house without speaking about what she had seen and heard, yes she was adamant about not speaking up, but her ego here was within the healthy side of spectrum. One can argue it was pushing the boundary of healthy and headed towards unhealthy...but was still within the norm

Angad's behavior has been extremely self centric and egotistic...from him raining money down her head ...to the slap

PS: Maybe it is the nature of daily soap, but watching things in 20 mins increments, it is easy for the audience to get past bad behavior of characters easily.

The show is running for SahAn.

No matter what Angad stand tall over Sahiba, he is the one who fixes everything in the end. inculding their marriage.

Originally posted by: DanmeiLover

But that's norm for ITV , FL suffers a bit more than ML always. But ML does too , though viewers may or may not believe that , it's their prerogative what they want to believe. Mard ko dard nehi hota kind of society mein ML phoot phoot ke ro bhi nehi sakta.. if they injure themselves in repentance, it's called nautanki. But when the FL does the same , she's genuinely hurt.

So , see, it all balances out. ML suffers less in itv shows but they're judged with a different yardstick than that of FL.

Any way it's all perspectives. TMD is not bad at all, because of the time slot PH is taking a lot of pressure. Not balancing. It.

no one expects Angad to suspect a plot or poisoning but a man who supposedly thinks he is the "victim" and Sahiba is the one who has done all the kaands- he cant justify his utter lack of concern for her. insaaniyat bhi nahi hai. she almost jumped off a roof and he couldnt be bothered to even check on her, let alone stay put. if roles were reversed, Sahiba would have stayed outside the door all night even if the door was slammed on her face or found someone else to watch over him. he did none of these things despite knowing how his family feels about her- in terms of just disdain and utter lack of concern. he may not suspect them of killing her or poisoning her but they may certainly disregard any health issues she has because they have done so before. he has witnessed many moments where Sahiba has been treated cruelly by his mother and his family and he has let it all slide. if he was cheated by his brother she has also been cheated by her own sister. but he has only ever blamed her. NEVER paid any attention to her

When Angad shunned Sahiba she found a way to still feed him- she was an "anonymous" cook and till date he doesnt know that all those meals he loved were made by Sahiba only. she found a way to help him and take care of him even when he was insulting and cruel to her. that is LOVE. that is genuine fikr. she was insulted by everyone but she did what was needed to care for the man and not because she was getting anything out of it- no credit, no clean chit, nothing.

Even when Sahiba felt cheated by him, she was unable to stop herself from being happy for his success professionally. but Angad never feels like that. HAs he ever taken pride in Sahibas deeds when it hasnt been his bidding or something for family?! has he ever been happy to see her excel in her art ?!

In contrast everything Angad has done has been forced or for his OWN image, to save his own ass.

When was the last time apart from Simran track- where he sincerely of his own free will and out of love, care simply was there for her and not done something without any surreptitious benefit for himself or pressure.

he buys material things for her like a gown or a necklace or a bag but fails to care about her feelings even when its obvious she is not ok.

Thats the fundamental difference between Angad and Sahiba. He will wait for things to get out of hand and then swoop in as if he is some knight in shining armor. Well he is NOT. His ego gets a kick when he needs to "rescue" Sahiba but when she is strong or ambitious or provides any opinion contrary to him- he will lose his shit. this is not love. its pure toxicity.

Let’s wait for today’s episode nd see whether Angad will be successful in saving sahiba or not nd what he will say to his criminal mumma nd jaahil family actually makers have totally showed Angad very negative and abusive in this track, hie ego and anger ruined his relationship completely, Sahiba mein bhi ego hai nd she’s also blind towards her family but makers ne Angad ko zyada hi abusive dikha diya hai nd short tempered which completely ruined his image

Criminal Manbhir friends ko jyada pisaPisa diya Kya, oh god I laughed so hard at their over-action.

I agree completely.

Thats why I say no comparison of ego and kaands at all.

no one is flawless. but the way they have written and portrayed this show, one person pales in comparison to the other when you compare the level of kaands and ego.

In the Seerat scenario also, before she walked out she had raised alarm bells but she was unable to get herself to care enough to discuss anything after seeing with her own damn eyes- Angad proposing to Seerat. That broke her.

When Seerat truth came out, she didnt raise all the things Angad did to validate her feelings but immediately mellowed down and apologized. Angad knew WHY she was SO mad that she refused to even talk to him but what did he do- he rubbed his own screw ups in her face as her lack of trust in him.

He couldnt even stand Sahiba getting roses from some admirer but he expected her to "trust" him even after she has seen multiple instances of boundaries not respected. he kept her in the dark about Seerats deeds- infact she still doesnt know rain dance. She only knows about farmhousem finger sucking and proposal but thats coz she walked in on it. She trusted him even when she saw Seerat earring in his pocket, apologized when she had to witness her sister changing his shirt because Angad made her do so publicly and yet she trusted him but he failed her and then when truth was out he acts as if Sahiba did everything wrong. ZERO introspection.

But she withstood it. she worked for maafi. She found ways to be with him and care for him because she wanted to make things better.

Whereas he has only ever done anything for her - to protect his own image or Brar image. His whole attitude during Rumi track was not fear for her safety but "meri biwi ko haath kaise lagaya" waala attitude- so basically she is his possession. She cant leave him unless he dumps her. How dare she have a choice in anything. thats his issue.

Originally posted by: nipunsharma

Let’s wait for today’s episode nd see whether Angad will be successful in saving sahiba or not nd what he will say to his criminal mumma nd jaahil family actually makers have totally showed Angad very negative and abusive in this track, hie ego and anger ruined his relationship completely, Sahiba mein bhi ego hai nd she’s also blind towards her family but makers ne Angad ko zyada hi abusive dikha diya hai nd short tempered which completely ruined his image

Let's ee I wish and hope anagd save Sahiba and no more drug crap ✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️

After all it’s just drama and fiction , it’s the crap writing but from last 2 -3 episodes whatever angad is doing right things so let’s just enjoy the episodes and stick to them . I know it’s very difficult to get over the thappad but then how they will create drama and get numbers. In today scenario there is no storytelling it’s only pointless drama . I am only disappointed how they are not closing tracks . Villians don’t get punishment . Now I don’t expect any proper story but just watching for acting of Vijanshi. They have ruined the sanity and purity of sahan be it angad or Sahiba. Angad is apologised from his heart that’s good enough for me . If Angad and Sahiba does not repeat their mistakes in future how they will stretch the story. In ITV always FL has to suffer more so let it be.

https://youtu.be/BK6R7gVYDBY?si=xdnKTxcJG0ncnoXo