What Aloo said about infidelity in 2019 (NOT FROM KWK) - Page 4

Now, I am really someone who really TRIES, (I DO) to find sense in the nonsense & see both side of the coin, a don't jump into conclusion, try to understand another's pov even when I don't agree with it but even then, when I come across statements like this, I can't seem to reason with their reasoning no matter how hard I try.

She is right! Shit happens. Life goes on! That's why there is also KARMA. You reap what you sow. Falling out of love is normal eventhough back then the term wasn't popularized but it was there. People cheated on their other half all the time, physically, emotionally but how on earth it's okay? How can you reason with someone cheating on you with someone else then coming home to you? Now a days, women are much independent & can come out of such relationships but back in the days it was hard. Even now, it's not easy for MANY!

Also, WHY would we have to understand cheaters feelings when they are out there ruining a happy home, messing with a person's head, life! What they did to deserve such trauma! What is there to give a damn about cheaters!.

WORD truly have magic. You use them Shakespear style & suddenly you are wise, piece of art no matter how dumb you truly are!

Anyway, I hope she can leave things how it is instead of parading it. That way, atleast people won't talk about it. If it works for her, that's on her.

Laugh at Alia all you may; she is actually talking sensibly here.

She is not condoning or encouraging cheating. Cheating will always be morally wrong and hurt people. If you are in a monogamous committed relationship, you should end things instead of cheating.

But cheating happens. You have to be aware that we humans are emotional and fallible. There is always a slight chance that you or your partner may cheat. To believe it to be impossible would be naive and stupid.

And children born of extra-marital affairs always have a different perspective. They wouldn't exist if not for cheating. They don't see their parents through the same black-and-white lens as the rest of society does. Often times, they see love, caring, support, and family that we are oblivious to. Instead of just laughing it off - try putting yourself in the shoes of someone else; what if you were an outcome of extramarital affairs? What would you do if you found out the parents you loved so much had done some bad things?

Originally posted by: naaznin

Infidelity was normalised in showbiz since time immemorial.. that's why children see n adapt same values.

Anyone alia would have married, good chances he too would turn out to be a cheater hence these things don't matter to them anymore.

Karishma didn't divorce her businessman husband for so long who was trading her on honeymoon n even had children with him. She was so successful n rich still had to tolerate him.

Originally posted by: lauriesa

Karishma makes me sad. I wonder if she married Abhi would it have worked out for both. One in a miserable marriage, the other was in a miserable marriage.

Originally posted by: lauriesa

We just follow Reddit they do all the job for some of us.

Kat is incog, as she is when she isnt releasing a movie, same for Vicky who is busy shooting. HR love him but so boring in real life, Deepika is hiding pregnancy and is also icong, same for Ranveer. But Aloo is here to give us gossip.

Did they told you? I didn’t say they are in an open relationship. I said “if” she knows, it isn’t cheating. I am not saying he is sleeping with other people or she. I just pointed about it doesn’t amount to cheating if she knows.

Originally posted by: wat_up

so he was having other men be with her that’s so vile

He asked her to go to other men for getting profits in his business. But she declined

Originally posted by: Haila_tu

She clearly says she doesn't propagate infidelity. She was talking about her mother and human relations.

Regardless, atleast She doesn't come from a family of p*rnstars or is friends with UKs biggest p*rn producer, Terry Stephen's.

You know, Alia is not wrong. Infidelity is a common things, it's immoral and hurtful but humans do immoral and hurtful things. Aliens from Mars don'f come to earth to do things we hate. People do. One doesn't have to tolerate or forgive such behaviour to understand that people can end up doing shitty things knowingly or unknowingly.

That said, you don't need to degrade your fave's ex to defend him or his marriage.