Ruhi the Gaslighter, the Hypocrite - Page 7

Originally posted by: pranurosid

Crying since eternity 😂

Why are you crying since eternity ? Don't be too harsh on yourself. But because you are openly accepting that you have been crying since eternity, you can definitely improve your situation...get well soon.

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

If someone heard about arranged marriages they happen in the same way. Akshara is on death bed so it’s not a grand ceremony but she knew Armaan for a long time , he went against his own family to support the truth and he came all the way to protect them. He is educated ,and had a good career. So she thought Armaan is the best choice for her daughter then. AA’s shadi is like an arranged marriage. And I also watch the show so I know what’s exactly happening in the show ,so I ignore senseless false narratives

Along with the reasons you mentioned her main reason for marrying Abhira with Armaan is Abhira's safety. As Yuvraj is highly influential and can do whatever he wants which is threat to Abhira, Akshara felt Yuvraj can be stopped only by another influential family like Poddars as Yuvraj won't dare to stalk daughter in law of Poddars

Poppy Birla answered the phone and said he didn't want anything to do with Akshara or her child. Ruhi Birla's call was attended by a girl and she blocked Armaan's number. Neither bother to find out if something is wrong with their so-called soulmates or what really happened. Then very conveniently played victim card. Mahaan Poppy Birla's mahaan parvarish.

Originally posted by: LadooCandy

There's not even an appropriate time gap between the year displayed in sirat's pregnancy report and the year printed on abhir's admission form. It's as if the d.o.b of akshara and her son abhir are both within 2-3 years.....weird.... The show which boasts of multiple generational leaps isn't even considerate to display proper dates according to the leaps undertaken. This goes on to show that the leaps are just an excuse for shifting the tracks and not a dependable criteria for actually calculating the age of the characters.

So if someone claims that ruhi is 28 , it's null and void statement because age isn't calculated by leaps , because if it had been the case the show would have been considerate to take it into account in various documents concerning the characters.

32 years old armaan

30 years old rohith

28 ruhi

22 abheera

Ps: poddars are not progressive to get their son married to a women older than him. So age calculation ke according ye hoga sab ka age.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Ak got them married legally and according to ritual as well. So it’s not a deal marriage when they got married. The condition came in later when Abhira was not ready to go with Arman.

Secondly, Ak knew Arman was a good guy when he left lawyering up for Yuvraj after knowing about his crime. He not only went against his family but actively Ak to put behind bars.

Thirdly, when Arman knew Abhira was kidnapped and being forced to marry yuvraj, he left everything to come to save her.

I think these points are enough for Ak to know Abhira will be in good hands after her death and Arman will do everything to protect her from Yuvraj.

Just because of hatred for Ak, don’t make a mockery of a mother who took this extreme step for the well being of her child.

Even on death bed she tried to give Abhira's responsibility to Goenkas and called Manish but he didn't listen to her. So her last resort was Armaan

Originally posted by: LadooCandy

Ruhi is not 28 , she is of abheera's age , because......in yrrkh universe time fabric is distorted , abheera was conceived long after her father had died ......each generation doesn't even have a proper gap between the years.

How can Ruhi and Abhira are of same age😂.. So Ruhi too died at 6 years age when Abhir was dead and reborn to dead Arohi?😂 btw Akshara got to know she was pregnant after 3 months of Abhinav's death That's nothing beyond science..

Ak was a brave and resilient woman. She received so many setbacks yet came back stronger and raised her daughter on her own, giving her best of the world. Even on her death bed, her main concern was to protect Abhira. When there was no recourse left, she chose the most drastic step. She knew Abhira won’t be happy with her decision but made her marry Arman because she knew she couldn’t live without her mother, her family.

Originally posted by: The_Best

But after clearing the misunderstanding didn’t Armaan not want to be with her as he valued his family more and chose them over her?

They cleared misunderstanding after she got engaged with Rohit. Also he always said her his family is more important to him than anyone..He asked Ruhi to go ahead with the marriage as she already got engaged to Rohit. He was wrong to ask her to go against her wish but she also had an option to break off the engagement and cancel the marriage. But she still wanted to marry Rohit so she can stay close to Armaan

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

if ruhi is 28 then kya akshara ne abheera ki shadi 10 saal bade armaan se kara di ye toh molkki hogaya 😄

32 years old armaan

30 years old rohith

28 ruhi

22 abheera

Ps: poddars are not progressive to get their son married to a women older than him. So age calculation ke according ye hoga sab ka age.

I think Armaan is 30 years old.Rohit could be 28-29 which is same as Ruhi's age. In the initial episodes Manisha asked Ruhi to call Armaan as Jeth ji when Ruhi called him by his name then Vidya told Ruhi and Armaan are of similar age group so it's fine if she calls Armaan by his name..

Originally posted by: The_Best

It’s misogynist to blame Ruhi for being hurt by Armaan before they married when Armaan was at fault for not supporting someone he claimed to love. Whether or not, if it was a real love or not is irrelevant. He claimed to love and lead her on and then dumped her for his family. If he had a spine, Ruhi wouldn’t have bothered to marry anyone. Yes, it was her decision at the end to marry but Armaan was behind it and caused it. Why be with someone if you can’t stand up to them when the need arises? As for Ruhi acting as a victim in other situations, many women are like that irl. Even the ones in Padoor family are like that. Most people can’t see their wrongs and feel they are the victims and resort to violence and anger(mostly men) or crying (mostly women).

Only rohith is a character who is the victim.

Armaan: having no spine to accept his love infront of his family. Was okay his brother marrying his bhabhi even though he promised he will kept on loving her and will not marry anyone. Which sane guy does that.

Ruhi : for trusting armaan and ruining rohith's life. She had a choice to say no to marriage but she still eventually went with it. It could be because she is just craving for some one to love her as she lost literally everyone in life so she just thought about herself that she will recieve some one who will love her but in reality she ruined rohith's life along with armaan.

Abheera: who boasts being independent but never cared enough about armaan just shouts at his family even after knowing his position in the family is not as good as rohith's position. What if dadisa throws armaan out because of this contract marriage or because of this girl who just insults them infront of guests. Abhira is taking favour from poddar atleast she can return it back by adjusting with them for some days as anyways she would be leaving after a year. How does it matter to her who does what. She even never told armaan i married your for my mom. But you are free to go. I will take care of myself. She just treat him as slave.

So in my conclusion only victim of this situation is rohith. No one else. Rest all are part of the marriage because of one or the other benefits.

1. Ruhi to stay closer to armaan.

2. Armaan to complete his vaada.

3. Abhira to get roti, kapda, makaan,security guard and college fees.