Akshara would never have asked Armaan to take care of Abhira if that Yuvraj guy wasn't after her. It's not easy for any girl to live alone when someone like Yuvraj is constantly eyeing for the girl. Even then, Abhira was never scared to live alone, she left the house because she knew she isn't bechari and can fight her own battles. It's Armaan who kept pursuing her because he felt guilty as Abhira lost her mother because of him. He never let her go. It's not Abhira's fault or weak nature, she has always been a strong girl.
Abhira didn't reply back to elders when she was constantly humiliated when Armaan brought her his home for the first time, she stood there silently. She didn't sit on dining table and prefer to cook noodles for herself because family didn't want her on the table.
She only raised her voice - when she felt that something wrong is happening with someone else or when her mother's upbringing had been questioned.
She stood up for Armaan and his cousins because she did get some kind of affection from them. So shd could not stop herself from involving herself into their lives.
She made Armaan's mom eat food when Armaan himself couldn't. She saved Dadi Sa. She could have been rude and heartless to them because of all the blames but she didn't. She never played victim and sat and cry and became dependent on others for smallest things like going to doctor or eating food, or taking care of her health or blaming others for her condition. And that's why, she is better for me than Roohi. That's why I don't feel she is wrong because she did show her share of respect and empathy when family members needed them.
She didn't tell Roohi about B-Nanu's health so that she doesn't get hurt. She does know the value of family and relationships despite being a part of nuclear family but never at the cost of her self respect, at the cost of wrong happenings and her mother's upbringing.
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