RIP Akshara (DTNt: pg-12) - Page 5

People think that akshara sharma abhinav are bashed particularly by abhiM fans.......nahhh.......some people aren't even fans of harshad/abhiM , rather they are critical due to the continuous glorification of such moral less akshara abhinav characters as 'protagonists'.

It's not like as if such moral less characters aren't there in other serials , but in those shows they aren't glorified.

Akshara and anupama are the opposite of what can be termed a strong woman. Lol...strong doesn't translate to the primitive urge of exploiting those around for the benefit of ownself. Akshara only yelled , killed , caused people suffering. She used her own kid as a tool for personal vendetta , taking revenge for her hurt ego. Her husband being justified in his decision refused to accept her when she killed his brother , delusional akshara couldn't take it that howcome abhiM isn't dancing on her tunes any more.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

I think we’re not crying because Akshara lived a full complete life.yes she faced alot of tragedies but she lived a complete life..she had 2 marriages..2 children.‘and she raised her living child until adulthood ..she died in her mid 50s ?? So at least she didn’t die young like her mom..and leave behind small children..she lived to see her daughter become an adult and she even got to see her daughter get married..and I’m glad the makers didn’t kill her off last gen..she remained to,raise her daughter..and she had a peaceful life with her daughter for 22 years without her useless family ..yes she was sad losing her son, husband abhiNav and other people she loved ..but she went on living and had a successful career and made a happy life for her daughter and herself. So her journey was complete.,🥰

Cannot deny that she was a strong woman! Dheet aurat thi! She had this silent strength that not a lot of women or men can even hope to achieve! How much ever difficult situation she was in, she could always separate herself from it; from the pain of it, from the challenge of it, from the consequence of it... She could step out of the circle, look at it from an outsider/untangled perspective, analyze it the way she felt right... displace herself and resettle in a new place with a new set of people and relations...

She had a rare super power! She could successfully shut her heart-open her mind, shut her mind-open her heart whenever she wanted to do it! That was a really great talent in her! We are all slaves of our heart and most of the decisions we take in life are ruled by our hearts! But she could overcome that and that is why she was able to have a complete and content life in every stage of her life.

IMO, she could do that so many times throughout her life, because she suffered from self victimizing savior's complex!... In any given scenario, she would first decide to be the savior, make decisions that'd satisfy this complex and then victimize herself due to the repercussions of her actions. That is why she could always be happy, because in her head, she never did anything wrong, if anything, she was actually saving everyone around her. So, there is never any regret, need for accountability, and since she always chose to live 100s of miles away, she never faced the aftermath of her actions... So she could always live in a happy delusion, peacefully, with her head held high, feeling proud of herself. Not a bad way to live! One needs to be very very strong to live like that!

A perfect nomadic life! Noone from her past will remember her fondly, everyone in her present will love her(I mean, till they become her newest past), and only god can help anyone who she will encounter her in future... this has been her life! People come and go, but she has always sustained, living her complete life!

Originally posted by: KaunIMEMYSELF

Cannot deny that she was a strong woman! Dheet aurat thi! She had this silent strength that not a lot of women or men can even hope to achieve! How much ever difficult situation she was in, she could always separate herself from it; from the pain of it, from the challenge of it, from the consequence of it... She could step out of the circle, look at it from an outsider/untangled perspective, analyze it the way she felt right... displace herself and resettle in a new place with a new set of relations...

She had a rare super power! She could successfully shut her heart-open her mind, shut her mind-open her heart whenever she wanted to do it! That was a really great talent in her! We are all slaves of our heart and most of the decisions we take in life are ruled by our hearts! But she could overcome that and that is why she was able to have a complete and content life in every stage of her life.

IMO, she could do that so many times throughout her life, because she suffered from self victimizing savior's complex!... In any given scenario, she would first decide to be the savior, make decisions that'd satisfy this complex and then victimize herself due to the repercussions of her actions. That is why she could always be happy, because in her head, she never did anything wrong, if anything, she was actually saving everyone around her. So, there is never any regret, need for accountability, and since she always chose to live 100s of miles away, she never faced the aftermath of her actions... So she could always live in a happy delusion, peacefully, with her head held high, feeling proud of herself. Not a bad way to live! One needs to be very very strong to live like that!

A perfect nomadic life! Noone from her past will remember her fondly, everyone in her present will love her(I mean, till they become her newest past), and only god can help anyone who she will encounter her in future... this has been her life! People come and go, but she has always sustained, living her complete life!

Now the latest shikaar of her need to do ‘good deeds’ is poor Armaan Poddar. He is stuck with an immature girl who doesn’t even know how to talk or behave with elders

Originally posted by: KaunIMEMYSELF

Cannot deny that she was a strong woman! Dheet aurat thi! She had this silent strength that not a lot of women or men can even hope to achieve! How much ever difficult situation she was in, she could always separate herself from it; from the pain of it, from the challenge of it, from the consequence of it... She could step out of the circle, look at it from an outsider/untangled perspective, analyze it the way she felt right... displace herself and resettle in a new place with a new set of relations...

She had a rare super power! She could successfully shut her heart-open her mind, shut her mind-open her heart whenever she wanted to do it! That was a really great talent in her! We are all slaves of our heart and most of the decisions we take in life are ruled by our hearts! But she could overcome that and that is why she was able to have a complete and content life in every stage of her life.

IMO, she could do that so many times throughout her life, because she suffered from self victimizing savior's complex!... In any given scenario, she would first decide to be the savior, make decisions that'd satisfy this complex and then victimize herself due to the repercussions of her actions. That is why she could always be happy, because in her head, she never did anything wrong, if anything, she was actually saving everyone around her. So, there is never any regret, need for accountability, and since she always chose to live 100s of miles away, she never faced the aftermath of her actions... So she could always live in a happy delusion, peacefully, with her head held high, feeling proud of herself. Not a bad way to live! One needs to be very very strong to live like that!

A perfect nomadic life! Noone from her past will remember her fondly, everyone in her present will love her(I mean, till they become her newest past), and only god can help anyone who she will encounter her in future... this has been her life! People come and go, but she has always sustained, living her complete life!

These both will get affected soon with ak ka past deeds coming out before arman and abheera. Tijori khulegi aur barbadi 🤗.dadis words today competition for bahus , ruhi will win dadisa. First will be sympathy to abheera as sue lost her mom next is for ruhi total topple hoga.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Yup! When they introduced AbN, I never expected that Ak would fall in love with him but she broke the stereotype and fell in love with him and how.

It was the most pleasant thing I have ever seen in ITV. I just hope more and more shows dare to show their fls moving on with their lives instead of pining for their abusive or cheat husbands/lovers and wishing to be reunited with them

Not an avid iTV watcher, but this part I totally agree on! Bang on! Don't be pining for abusive/cheater husbands/lovers FLs wishing to be reunited with them. Although IMO, this isn't the case with Abhi or Akshara here, the statement still is 100% true!

At the same time, don't expect your husband to be your YES man FLs.....Don't put him on a pedestal, he too can be imperfect, he too can be vulnerable; and though he is a 'MAN', he can be sensitive, have feelings and emotions; he too can have soft spots in relations, when he explains, listen, understand and respect them. At times, he too will weaken, falter and collapse, he too can make mistakes, understand that he may need your unquestioning support then... and you as a wife should muster strength and courage when be becomes weak, for him and for the both of you! Just like how he had held you and the relationship together a hundred times earlier, when you couldn't! Marriage works when you both balance each other, more importantly during tough times!

IF HE IS THE ONLY ONE HOLDING YOUR RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER, YOUR MARRIAGE WILL COLLAPSE IN HIS WEAKEST MOMENT! Be strong when he cannot ladies!

There is a clear thick line between respecting self and egoism! Women should definitely respect themselves but respect the relationship too! Marriage will work only when you love and trust a man/woman so much that you surrender your heart and give yourself to them! You should love someone else more than you love yourself!

Sorry if I've opened a can of worms, but I cannot accept that just because iTV audience is mostly women, and to please them, whatever nonsense FLs do is always projected as right!

PS: I am speaking from my own experience, not demeaning other's experiences. Respect.

Originally posted by: KaunIMEMYSELF

Cannot deny that she was a strong woman! Dheet aurat thi! She had this silent strength that not a lot of women or men can even hope to achieve! How much ever difficult situation she was in, she could always separate herself from it; from the pain of it, from the challenge of it, from the consequence of it... She could step out of the circle, look at it from an outsider/untangled perspective, analyze it the way she felt right... displace herself and resettle in a new place with a new set of people and relations...

She had a rare super power! She could successfully shut her heart-open her mind, shut her mind-open her heart whenever she wanted to do it! That was a really great talent in her! We are all slaves of our heart and most of the decisions we take in life are ruled by our hearts! But she could overcome that and that is why she was able to have a complete and content life in every stage of her life.

IMO, she could do that so many times throughout her life, because she suffered from self victimizing savior's complex!... In any given scenario, she would first decide to be the savior, make decisions that'd satisfy this complex and then victimize herself due to the repercussions of her actions. That is why she could always be happy, because in her head, she never did anything wrong, if anything, she was actually saving everyone around her. So, there is never any regret, need for accountability, and since she always chose to live 100s of miles away, she never faced the aftermath of her actions... So she could always live in a happy delusion, peacefully, with her head held high, feeling proud of herself. Not a bad way to live! One needs to be very very strong to live like that!

A perfect nomadic life! Noone from her past will remember her fondly, everyone in her present will love her(I mean, till they become her newest past), and only god can help anyone who she will encounter her in future... this has been her life! People come and go, but she has always sustained, living her complete life!

Originally posted by: KaunIMEMYSELF

Cannot deny that she was a strong woman! Dheet aurat thi! She had this silent strength that not a lot of women or men can even hope to achieve! How much ever difficult situation she was in, she could always separate herself from it; from the pain of it, from the challenge of it, from the consequence of it... She could step out of the circle, look at it from an outsider/untangled perspective, analyze it the way she felt right... displace herself and resettle in a new place with a new set of people and relations...

She had a rare super power! She could successfully shut her heart-open her mind, shut her mind-open her heart whenever she wanted to do it! That was a really great talent in her! We are all slaves of our heart and most of the decisions we take in life are ruled by our hearts! But she could overcome that and that is why she was able to have a complete and content life in every stage of her life.

IMO, she could do that so many times throughout her life, because she suffered from self victimizing savior's complex!... In any given scenario, she would first decide to be the savior, make decisions that'd satisfy this complex and then victimize herself due to the repercussions of her actions. That is why she could always be happy, because in her head, she never did anything wrong, if anything, she was actually saving everyone around her. So, there is never any regret, need for accountability, and since she always chose to live 100s of miles away, she never faced the aftermath of her actions... So she could always live in a happy delusion, peacefully, with her head held high, feeling proud of herself. Not a bad way to live! One needs to be very very strong to live like that!

A perfect nomadic life! Noone from her past will remember her fondly, everyone in her present will love her(I mean, till they become her newest past), and only god can help anyone who she will encounter her in future... this has been her life! People come and go, but she has always sustained, living her complete life!

In most cases was forced to leave behind ppl. Be it the goenkas or the Birlas. So how can we blame her for leaving behind ppl who don’t want to include her in their lives in the first place?

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

In most cases was forced to leave behind ppl. Be it the goenkas or the Birlas. So how can we blame her for leaving behind ppl who don’t want to include her in their lives in the first place?