~Neil-Yuvika {NeiVika}~ AT#3 [Dil Ka Rishta Bada Hi Pyaara Hai] - Page 15

Originally posted by: rbpll

Arre yahi hua hoga...kaam neil karta hoga aur dj saara credit le jaata hoga

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

Yuvika was trying to Fool Impress her DJ Bhaiyaaaaa so aake Paani ki jagah AAG mein GHEE daal diaaaa

DB was right, Yuvika is Opportunist

She TOOK that opportunity which is good game wise but at the cost of Neil because she knows she will fix it with Neil later on!

She always takes her partners for granted.

Kartik mein laakh buraiyaaa hoga but Yuvika did so many blunders even in that relationship too!

Yuvika is actually a taker in relationship not the giver. Khud se kuch initiative leti nai hai kabhi.

That's why I said that as much as I like Neil's lover era, but he is too consumed in yuvika's thoughts. Yuvika ko lekar hi stress leta rehta hai leaving all his kaam-dhanda. Vaha yuvika ko ek call karna bhi yaad nai rehta.

Neil being always available for help instead let yuvika come to her. After all the struggle she has gone through due to mahajans, usme thoda to dimaag aa chuka hai abhi tak. Let her tackle her own instead of neil being always there to help her.

Originally posted by: rbpll

Yuvika is actually a taker in relationship not the giver. Khud se kuch initiative leti nai hai kabhi.

That's why I said that as much as I like Neil's lover era, but he is too consumed in yuvika's thoughts. Yuvika ko lekar hi stress leta rehta hai leaving all his kaam-dhanda. Vaha yuvika ko ek call karna bhi yaad nai rehta.

Neil being always available for help instead let yuvika come to her. After all the struggle she has gone through due to mahajans, usme thoda to dimaag aa chuka hai abhi tak. Let her tackle her own instead of neil being always there to help her.

I don't mind Neil coming to help because the more he will come, the more he will get involved HE will prepare himself for the coming VastraHaran Equivalent Track. For me it's not entirely Yuvika's Journey, it's NEIL's journey too.

He has mostly avoided Mahajans but due to Yuvika's existence HE is getting into direct fights with Mahajans, something that he and Vidur always avoided. Avoiding something is never the solution or I should say avoiding something, you can't change anything. Neil is bound to bring a change along with Yuvika so Yuvika in a negative way drives Neil against The Mahajans, Vidur's arrest or Yuvika falsely taking DJ's side or herself being a target it only pushes Neil towards Mahajans, preparing him for the greater battle ahead.

He isn't actually Lord, so he needs his own experiences to take part in future battle.

What you think Neil is doing for Yuvika isn't entirely for Yuvika but Neil's growth too.

He is right now very Vulnerable with regards to his feelings for Yuvika! He needs to overcome this for the VastraHaran Equivalent Track sooo he needs all these for himself too it's not entirely about Yuvika!

Previous thread got locked so replying here

There are two stages of emotional bond.

One is the first stage of emotional bond where love trust faith attachment develops that comes first and you trust and love your partner enough to get physical with your partner.

But after physical intimacy there comes another emotional bond, 2nd stage of emotional bond where you get more confidence and relaxation in your relationship. After physical relationship you develop a certain kind of Emotional bond that is more of hormonal and less of outwardly feelings thus that emotional bond is more stronger than the first one.

I hope I made sense lol I guess any married woman can explain it better than me

Bro, I am married In my view, emotional bond and physical bond are 2 completely different things. I don't think a physical bond is needed for an emotional bond. You can still have a strong bond even if there is no physical bond. Just like having a physical bond does not ensure your emotional bond will be strong.

Originally posted by: MochaQueen

Previous thread got locked so replying here

There are two stages of emotional bond.

One is the first stage of emotional bond where love trust faith attachment develops that comes first and you trust and love your partner enough to get physical with your partner.

But after physical intimacy there comes another emotional bond, 2nd stage of emotional bond where you get more confidence and relaxation in your relationship. After physical relationship you develop a certain kind of Emotional bond that is more of hormonal and less of outwardly feelings thus that emotional bond is more stronger than the first one.

I hope I made sense lol I guess any married woman can explain it better than me

Bro, I am married In my view, emotional bond and physical bond are 2 completely different things. I don't think a physical bond is needed for an emotional bond. You can still have a strong bond even if there is no physical bond. Just like having a physical bond does not ensure your emotional bond will be strong.

But the point is I NEVER said, Physical relationship is needed for emotional bond.

My only point is, after physical relationship there comes a type of enhancement, a type of 2nd STAGE of emotional bond.

You can disagree with it. Just my POV

Oh! You are married great, may be my POV is Fu*ked up because at the end of the day I am not married so

But I will still stick to MY POV

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

But the point is I NEVER said, Physical relationship is needed for emotional bond.

My only point is, after physical relationship there comes a type of enhancement, a type of 2nd STAGE of emotional bond.

You can disagree with it. Just my POV

Oh! You are married great, may be my POV is Fu*ked up because at the end of the day I am not married so

But I will still stick to MY POV

I guess it depends on the relationship too, but I think if a bond is strong enough then it does not need to get physical to enhance it.

Originally posted by: MochaQueen

I guess it depends on the relationship too, but I think if a bond is strong enough then it does not need to get physical to enhance it.

Of course a strong bond doesn't need physical relationship for enhancement but my point is a natural enhancement comes from physical relationship like it's something VERY Natural process.

I guess connected to hormones and biology because I have read it somewhere.

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

Of course a strong bond doesn't need physical relationship for enhancement but my point is a natural enhancement comes from physical relationship like it's something VERY Natural process.

I guess connected to hormones and biology because I have read it somewhere.

Wohi na, you only wanna get physical with someone when you have a connection with them. At least for us girls it works that way. I never gave much importance to physical tbh, I always cared more about emotional bond and I wouldnt even want to start a physical bond until I am comfortable enough with that person which actually takes a lot of time.

Originally posted by: MochaQueen

Wohi na, you only wanna get physical with someone when you have a connection with them. At least for us girls it works that way. I never gave much importance to physical tbh, I always cared more about emotional bond and I wouldnt even want to start a physical bond until I am comfortable enough with that person which actually takes a lot of time.

That's why I had mentioned in my original post that,

"There are two stages of emotional bond.

One is the first stage of emotional bond where love trust faith attachment develops that comes first and you trust and love your partner enough to get physical with your partner"

Getting physical with someone is a HUGE thing for any girl so it takes alot of time, love, efforts, mood, situation, circumstances, faith, trust to get that CONSENT

When a Girl really LOVES someone still she hesitates, it takes alot to reach that stage when finally the Girl is ready!

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

That's why I had mentioned in my original post that,

"There are two stages of emotional bond.

One is the first stage of emotional bond where love trust faith attachment develops that comes first and you trust and love your partner enough to get physical with your partner"

Getting physical with someone is a HUGE thing for any girl so it takes alot of time, love, efforts, mood, situation, circumstances, faith, trust to get that CONSENT

When a Girl really LOVES someone still she hesitates, it takes alot to reach that stage when finally the Girl is ready!

Indeed, but every relationship works differently