Trend of denigrating education and experience - Page 4

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

If you see in the episodes that she needed Pakhi’s help in opening bank account for her new dance classes when Dimpy and Samar threw her out from DA. Who can’t open a bank account on her own she will read files for projects worth millions. What a joke this serial is.

Who didn’t knew anything about computers and laptops but she made the ppt for project at night for anuj. Is writers are high on something or what.

I don’t have problem that she is getting money from office or she is owner or partner. But I have problem that they keeps on saying that she earn it. Why can’t they just show that anuj gives companies share to Anupama so she is getting paid because of it.

Why they make it sound that she did all the hard the hard work and getting the money of her hard work.

Oh my God.... Dono sides extremity me discussion kar rahe hain!

First of all richest 1% of population se compare karna faulty hai! Lol.. log sochte hain ki these corporate companies ek aadmi chalata hai! 😇

Tamam educated log ek hierarchical system me kaam karte hain aur uske baad kuch hota hai.. wo alag bat hai ki focus "CEO" par hota hai, jisne sabse Kam kaam kiya. And most of the time they inherit money from their ancestors.. or got lucky due to market forces of that time... Also, in crony capitalism, it's very rare to run a company without being corrupt! They fugde the data and pressure govts to write off their bad debts.

Most start-ups close their business in 2-3 years.. Because of well... This monopoly of giant companies. Heresay me baat karna thik baat nahi. Aur Sudha Murthy jaise privileged ka example Dena bhi thik nahi.

Anyway, Anupama show aur character ki problems ko uske apne class/character/logic se hi counter karna thik hai. Kyonki ye log hamesha "middle class" ka rona rote hain!

Fact of the matter is... (Of course this is an unfair world, aur education jaise basic rights ke liye bhi kaiyo ko ladna padta hai) ki it's not problematic thing to (it is actually progressive) show women getting help/encouragement of their husbands/sons/fathers/male relations.

Kyonki, aamtaur par women high-post par jaakar bhi wahi typical Queen B jaisi bani rahti hai, Nation building, khud ke ambition, dream, social obligations, personal desire kisi cheez ke baar me nahi soch paati!

Aur NGOs kitna "achha" kaam karte hain ye sabko pata hai. (Jyadatar to Money laundering ke liye hain, aur baaki political career launch karne ke liye)

Aur women ko hamesha aise "devi/strong/infallible" ke rup me show karna regressive hai.

Anyway... Anupama me Aisa kuch nahi dikhaya!

Anupama shuru me "majburi me" jis position me thi, usi "position" ko usne by choice apna liya hai!

Behtar hota... Ki Anupama ko padhai karte dikhate (I mean ki serious padhai... Na ki do din ka drama).. use apna ek startup shuru karte dikhaate! Jo tamam initial failure ke baad successful hota to dekhne me maja aata ki kaise har ensaan (including women) ko encouragement/motivation/guidance ki jarurat hai.

Aur fir ye log agar Anupamaa ko women's education ke liye ek ground level ki Sanstha (not some Corporate style NGO) banate/chalate dikhate to ye awe-inspiring hota!

Nahi.... Bahan ji ko din bhar dusri women ko put down karna hai, ex-saas ke abuse ko justify karna hai, Bina kuch bhi kiye mahaaan banana hai aur har kisi ko apne par Dependent banana hai!

Anupama ka ordinary looking hona kaha se problematic hai? Yaha par logo ne iska taunt kiya.. Jo is show me wakai me galat hai, use "highlight" karne ki jarurat hai, naa ki wrong ko dusre wrong se counter karne ki!

Baaki... NASA Scientists ki seedhe kyo baat karna? Uski jarurat nahi hai. Waise bhi specific type ke job ke liye specific education/trainin/experience chahiye (wo sabko na milta hai aur na milega jaisi duniya hai).. Ham aam logo ki hi baat kare to duniya me kuch bhi karne ke liye persistent effort chahiye, gundagardi ke liye bhi!

Dikkat yahi hai ki Anupamaa kisi cheez me persistent effort nahi karti, sab kuch use platter par diya jata hai aur wo usse bhi kuch nahi seekhti! Anupama agar 12th pass hai aur usse padhai nahi ho paa rhi, to bhi she is shown to be a good cook in this show... She has plenty of home cooking-experience. Leela ke cafe me unpaid cook banane se achha, wo khud ka home-cooked food ka business shuru kar sakti thi!

Rahi baat dancing ki.... To waise Rupali is a mediocre dancer. But if we have to somehow believe ki she is a good dancer... Then, wo professional dancing ki bajay... Dancing se related kuch fun venture ko explore kar sakti hai, like starting a dance club for middle-aged women in Ahmedabad.

Ye sab kuch uski ab tak ki journey ke saath fir baithta!

Aur throughout this journey use apni "mistakes" samjh aati to usse hame "forced/compromised marriage", "Domestic violence", "unpaid domestic labor" par Jane kuch endearing dekhne ko milta!

Par nahi.... Is show me Domestic Violence/rape/human trafficking/Loneliness/women's hardship/ambition sabka majak banaya hai!

Is show ke according do hi cheez crime (actually sin) hain:

1) EMA

2) Maa ka self-centred hona

The show is most regressive show ever... Please guys don't counter with equally regressive points.