Teri Meri Doriyaann Episode Discussion Thread - 35 - Page 15

Gaslight: when you tell your partner they are over reacting about something, minimize your partners feelings, tell them they are over reacting and their intuition is wrong

All of which was done by Angad in Seerats matter, he was constantly warned and he told Sahiba she is overdoing it and ultimately when Sahiba was proven right he refused to share any responsibility in enabling Seerat, but blamed Sahiba for not trusting him when he never trusted a single word she said about Seerat. He openly hid multiple facts like rain ema offer and love proposal and made her believe she was wrong for thinking he is wrong for hiding.

Sahiba was upset about her shop being burned but she did not gaslight him, she told him he should not have tried to buy her shop using underhanded means, Sahiba refused to forgive him in hospital and forgave him once he cried in front of her when she was looking at her shops remains , way before he gifted her dad a shop.

Originally posted by: Yhcfan1

It’s not heartburn for some such as me, but disappointment and disgust as to how his character is written.

I absolutely cannot believe that no one has the good sense to at least try to understand what Sahiba went through b/c of his philandering ways. Like when the chacha asked whether S knew 🐀 had proposed, he simply said yea she knew. Um no, she didn’t. She walked in on you two idiots talking about your nasty secret. The writing is so bad. The shirt change, dress date, and countless other instances of allowing 🐀 to cross the line, defined his relationship and hasn’t been addressed. Only 🐀 taking advantage of his innocence has been addressed, but not Sahiba’s feelings in all of this.

And what bugs me the are the lines he was given in the big exposure related to why he can’t be with 🐀. His entire point was I can’t as I am a married man. Huh????

How about I can’t b/c you’re a frigging annoying leech. And you’re materialistic. Selfish. Juvenile. Conniving. Brown-noser suck up. Always practically naked. Clingy. A witch. I don’t know man, why not pick one of those reasons.

If your status of marriage matters so much- well nothing could give more traditional Relationship vibes than that. Well in that world, don’t expect unconditional love and blind trust from your wife you freak.

I’m totally annoyed at the direction his character has been taken. No one gives two shits re Sahiba. Only the viewer is made to sympathize with her - for instance her foot blood dripping away at the hospital, no one else talks about this shit. Like Bebe being naraaj that Sahiba didn’t trust Angad. Like stfu. Why don’t we have some chick change up Darji’s kupray and see how it feels. So stupid.

@Bold - This is the exact point. does this means he would have been ok with Seerat's advances (her being his brother's wife/widow) if he was not married? then why to call Seerat delusional when she thinks he is not reciprocating because they are married to different people and she actively tries to free him from his marriage?

This is the same thing he said to her during rain dance. Why not a clear 'i will never be interested in you under any circumstances?' with or without Sahiba or with or without being married?

In case someone have not noticed, we are discussing about the creative quality of this *story*. If a *story* shows xyz stuffs that doesn't make the xyz stuffs the right thing. A good number of movies were made glorifying extra marital affairs. That doesn't make extra marital affairs a right thing to do. Movies were made about women getting raped and then married off to her rapist to save the rapist from punishment. That also doesn't make it the right thing to do. Movies are made romanticising slapping the gf. But that doesn't make the slapping a right thing to do. Kehne ka matalab hai what a *story* shows is not a benchmark by any means. A *story* can be interpreted and analysed differently by different people, depending upon their thought process and moral values. Everyone has their different take on a *story* and they are entitled to express it. That is why it is a *story*, not a mathematics theorem or science research thesis that has to be accepted as undeniable facts.

Thank you.

Originally posted by: Radhika_r

the first greatest break of his trust was the marraige fraud by the mongas…pregnancy track she had a report that said she was pregnancy she herself agreed report was true and that it was her personal issue inspite of the fact that he questioned her many times on it ..😂😂and he did apologise for whatever in the pregnancy issue and darji issue after the initial hiccup he did trust her enough not to sign the divorce paper .. flowers came in her name from someone and he asked who ..where was the distrust here 😂😂.. why have a problem when Sahiba is apologising for her distrust of Angad ….when he has not trusted he has apologised and he even apologised after the mongas turned the fraud upside down 😂😂😂

Manveer hating Sahiba was never wrong …as a mother she feels Sahiba has no feelings for Angad and he is the one driving this marriage ..this opinion is justified to an extent … Manveer wanting seerat for Angad was wrong and he told his mother that … Manveer taunting about divorce was for him and not for Sahiba and he choose to ignore it ..what is wrong in it ..he forgave Manveer her mistake just like he forgave mongas for the fraud ,for the character assassination , just like he forgave Garry and jasleen for so may kaands .. .. and Sahiba sherni why she is taking nonsense from Manveer no one stopped her from exposing Manveer 😂😂 even today Sahiba said she dont want to punish seerat 😂😂😂 ab kya karen if Sahiba can still protect seerat Angad can 's taunts too

Sahiba has solo much blind trust on Anagd, after hearing I love you proposal that anybody will react the way Sahiba did, only stupid thing is she didn't confront Anagd Anagd also hide so much from Sahiba both have reasons

Anagd has to understand Sahiba is his wife she also has securities he can be mad, but he can't ignore Sahiba, She doesn't need his protection she can save herself just like he doesn't want to take Sahiba's help he can hire a nurse 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️.

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Originally posted by: anushka87

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Sunny Sood not Sonu Sood.

Still stand by Ashviniv jis claim that it is Jewel thief. Everyone assumed there is a person with different name and different mannerisms, Angad will impersonate Sunny like Vinay impersonated Amar but later they will realize there is no Sunny and it was a trap by a kingpin.

Originally posted by: Yhcfan1

It’s not heartburn for some such as me, but disappointment and disgust as to how his character is written.

I absolutely cannot believe that no one has the good sense to at least try to understand what Sahiba went through b/c of his philandering ways. Like when the chacha asked whether S knew 🐀 had proposed, he simply said yea she knew. Um no, she didn’t. She walked in on you two idiots talking about your nasty secret. The writing is so bad. The shirt change, dress date, and countless other instances of allowing 🐀 to cross the line, defined his relationship and hasn’t been addressed. Only 🐀 taking advantage of his innocence has been addressed, but not Sahiba’s feelings in all of this.

And what bugs me the are the lines he was given in the big exposure related to why he can’t be with 🐀. His entire point was I can’t as I am a married man. Huh????

How about I can’t b/c you’re a frigging annoying leech. And you’re materialistic. Selfish. Juvenile. Conniving. Brown-noser suck up. Always practically naked. Clingy. A witch. I don’t know man, why not pick one of those reasons.

If your status of marriage matters so much- well nothing could give more traditional Relationship vibes than that. Well in that world, don’t expect unconditional love and blind trust from your wife you freak.

I’m totally annoyed at the direction his character has been taken. No one gives two shits re Sahiba. Only the viewer is made to sympathize with her - for instance her foot blood dripping away at the hospital, no one else talks about this shit. Like Bebe being naraaj that Sahiba didn’t trust Angad. Like stfu. Why don’t we have some chick change up Darji’s kupray and see how it feels. So stupid.

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

@Bold - This is the exact point. does this means he would have been ok with Seerat's advances (her being his brother's wife/widow) if he was not married? then why to call Seerat delusional when she thinks he is not reciprocating because they are married to different people and she actively tries to free him from his marriage?

This is the same thing he said to her during rain dance. Why not a clear 'i will never be interested in you under any circumstances?' with or without Sahiba or with or without being married?

Seerat did whatever she did because Angad always defended her & supported her over Sahiba. If a guy was this forgiving to my illicit advances and remained so much friendly with me even after I proposed him 3 times even I would think he is totally into me, just is not telling clearly because of his marriage. Angad is a master at spinning a tale and presented the whole proposal fiasco as if Seerat tricked him somehow. When in reality, at that point, she did nothing actively. She didn't wear Sahiba's dress and knowingly tricked him into thinking she is Sahiba as the spoilers were stating then. She was just standing on her own, Angad came & started telling his dil ki baat. But now it's her fault because Angad says so Seerat has tried to score mauke pe chauka later on for sure, but the whole mauka was given to her on a silver platter by Angad himself. And now he is the one who is not getting any share of the blame Adha share Seerat ka hai & baki adha Sahiba ka

Originally posted by: shanakanj

sahiba begging for forgiveness, i don't deny that but then why manbeer is not getting her share of punishment and disappointment. She can propose his son marriage despite him already being married, arranges for divorce paper. Even after that every time she is bringing the divorce topic. whatever anger angad wants to show on sahiba thats ok but then why partiality when it comes to his mumma.

Even after shouting front of family Seerat still had courage to defend herself because she’s shameless Santosh brought up her that way.she tried hard with Angad but failed then she choosed her pyari behen who becomes her puppet. No one can stop Sahiba then who stopped her to expose her sister