Originally posted by: suji01
Knowing Daarji's regressive thinking, don't think he would ever encourage any woman in the house and all of them Manbeer, Prabjyot and Veer's mom (I forget her name) are happy playing dress up. Jassi turned out the way she is coz of Daarji's upbringing but in this case both are to be blamed for her unhappiness. Had Daarji put his foot down with regards to getting Jassi and Yash married, she would have been better off married to an uber rich guy.
theres no guarantee she would have been happy with rich guy that daarji chose but atleast she wouldnt be taunted for lying around in her maayka.
Daarji is the type who will let Jasleen stay but himself taunt her everyday for it saying- tumhaare kaands ke vajah seh I have to tolerate you in my house etc etc.
Its like he cant help and offer solution, he cant let someone be in peace either.
If jasleen asked to work - he'd say no. but she also shouldnt leave her husband and come back to maayka because she cant adjust and stop being a diva. she should support her husband whom she married going against everyone but she should also not ask her parents to help them financially even as a loan etc because thats against shaan. so basically his diktat to his daughter is- ya toh meri marzi follow karo, yar phir apne man ki karo but agar kuch galat hua toh I will rub it in your face. in both situations - ghut ghut kar jiyo but chu tak mat karo.
Manbeer was trapped in a bad marriage despite having all luxuries and she was encouraged to stay in farce marriage along with Inder
And on the flipside, Jasleen was trapped in a financially tough position but she was never counseled that love is bigger than all things and was encouraged to break her marriage but only to be taunted about that every day.
Its not like Daarji realized Yash was a good guy. Till Yash gave gavahi, Daarji thought Yash for good for nothing only.
And now when Jasleen rues the fact that she didnt sticky by Yash and now he is rich and successful, Daarji will put all blame only on Jasleen saying- you gave up on the marriage
Obviously Jasleen is to blame. she was an adult who made choices. but her choices are dictated to a large extent by Daarjis overbearing nature too.