Deepika & Ranveer ~ KWK S8 Episode Discussion (written page1) - Page 54

Originally posted by: pathaka

Sorry but what’s with the high and mighty hep people being all “gaizzz this is how dating happens …people date around yeh sab chalta hai gaizz…you dehati ppl know nothing abt relationships” 😵‍💫🥴

Ofcourse people date around 😂

But you don’t make a bakra out of ur husband who worships the ground u walk on quite literally , as if he was one of ur options …you don’t lie through ur teeth as if you don’t remember anyone you dated while in the same breath saying you were seeing other ppl and “coming back to him”…

You don’t take someone’s interest in you for granted as if they are some safety net for you to fall back on …he’s a person not a net …

It’s not cheating no. But It’s still disrespectful …and it’s not woke or hep to behave like this. 😮‍💨

Fin.

Word!

Ranveer deserves better. DP can go and cry over her 1 year relationship with Ranbir somewhere.

Originally posted by: TorinoPasta

DP is being s*ut shamed all across, enough tweets have been posted here expressing the same. Ppl are pretending to be in shock that ppl can weigh in options before deciding who do they want to commit to???? Are you kidding me??

Yes I am judging....Tinder generation is pretending and its hilarious to read. Idc abt Deepveer lol....I am not their shipper or whatever. I am just shocked at the internet meltdown.

People on twitter may be. But you also mentioned people here. Who sl×t shamed her here? If she got caught in a lie she told in 2013 that she does not casually date w/o committment and then tells she has been casually dating since 2012 and did not commit to the guy who was her safety net till 2015, people will pick on that. As if we did not know she dated around to be shocked. But trying to get past why she is being bashed and lump everything together as sl×t shaming is ingenious.

And why sre you so worked up that you are intentionally making assumption on people and their dating lives? You are no less of a shamer either! Celebs are fair game but not members, please keep that in mind.

Originally posted by: Autumnn

People change, circumstances change. Circumstances change people hence Opinions change. As the saying goes... Change is the only constant.

It's not about the change.. or maybe it is. Maybe she has changed today and become more honest about her past.. that she was casual dating in 2012 but was lying in 2013 that its not her thing.

Or she wasn't casual dating in 2012 and was honest I 2013 but changed and lying about it today to make it sound her life was happening then.

Originally posted by: Strangers02

Kaisey karthe hai derail ,bathao tho kaan mein...👂

Sssshhh...kisi ko math bathana..🤫

Lets.....

https://tenor.com/en-IN/view/lachuu-srk-kajol-srk-and-kajol-dance-kuch-kuch-hota-hai-gif-21408381

Oh look at the fireworks.

Ranveer is no schmuck that needs saving from villain DP by internet people. He has had his fair share of relationships during the courtship period with DP. He even admitted to it in the episode but not so much in detail as DP, because not everyone has the foot-in-mouth disease as her.

As for equal partnership, it is a myth bhailog. There is nothing like equal partnership. How much ever you try there will always be one partner sacrificing/compromising more than the other in the relationship. It is usually the woman, with either leaving their careers after bacha log; or if working, handling both house and kids; transferring where her husband goes. And the balance is already skewed when women have to leave their families and adjust to her husband's. Guys court girls harder with gifts and what not. Again skewed balance. Now if a girl is after a guy with the same fervour, then it is unladylike. I mean you don't have to look far. Look in your own homes. Tell me mothers haven't sacrificed more compared to fathers in the way they have wanted to live. That doesn't demonise the fathers (because they do shoulder their share of responsibilities) but states the simple fact that balance in relationships is never, ever there.

Of course, DP is privileged enough to not have to deal with all this. She is blessed to have found Ranveer who was there for her through tough times. Now for once it is a man who is the bigger compromiser in a relationship and all hell breaks loose.

Alia compromises more in her relationship which is certainly obvious to anyone (from not talking too loud, mingling with the Kapoors, particularly Neetu. Does Ranbir share the same camaraderie with Soni and Mahesh?). Similarly Kat does in hers. She has tried to assimilate to a different culture, to a different family and customs. Do we put the same expectation on Vicky that he attend every holiday that Kat's large family celebrates? Of course, these are not pointed out because the other person is happy to compromise because "love". Ranveer might feel the same way. It's is neither disrespectful nor cheating.

Originally posted by: Phosphorus

Celebs are fair game but not members, please keep that in mind.

Originally posted by: Clochette

I also found Deepika quite honest and I really think the couple is a committed one also long before the proposal. (that's just my feeling)

She said in this KWK what she said also in 2013...that casual dating doesn't work for her...it didn't then and I guess, it doesn't now.

Ranveer's facial expression either was because he was taken aback that she talked about that time and/or because it revived bad memories.

Of course there could have been the agenda of presenting themselves as a couple on the same wave length...but Ranveer made me feel that this isn't the case, he still may feel inferiour to her (many comments here show the same opinion)...otherwise I don't see the need to embellish things by doing romantic story-telling.

Yet Karan had his own agenda, too...obviously...and it doesn't matter how much had been staged and how much happened in the spur-of-the-moment...the episode is 'the talk of the town'.

Yeah, I felt the same. There is a lot of PR involvement and exaggerated story telling trying to make them seem "perfect" and the "IT couple" thing which was unnecessary. I think casual dating doesn't work for her because she keeps feeling the want and need to "commit". She did say the same thing in 2013 and even now. She has tried it but kept going back to Ranveer because she felt that she had to commit and cannot go on random dates to explore anymore. They are not perfect and neither is their "love story" but there is still passion on both sides and they have stayed together so long even with all the difficulties with DP's health. Not many can handle the overwhelmingness of being a caregiver. So kudos to Ranveer for that.

Now if only they just accepted that and avoided all the melodrama of "Ek duje ke liye" nonsense on the show.

Edit: I also feel like Ranveer thrives on the whole media attention of "oh how he treats her like a queen" somewhere. I just hope he doesn't make that his whole personality. He goes all out with stuff and makes it awkward for himself. First the dressing sense, and now the unnecessary tall claims of their love.

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

Imagine if this interview went completely in same way but those clips about dating were cut this could’ve been the perfect episode

And a bore fest too.

KJo must be happy

Originally posted by: Ocean_breeze

Lets.....

https://tenor.com/en-IN/view/lachuu-srk-kajol-srk-and-kajol-dance-kuch-kuch-hota-hai-gif-21408381

Originally posted by: Phosphorus

Wait Nihar said she asked him to leave their shared home when she started dating RK. Now Yuvraj is saying that she left him for RK!!

I am genuinely confused. She seems to have pulled a fast one on all of them

In her head she was committed to Nihar and keep coming back to him. Sad, Yuvraaj could not read her mind. She cheated Yuvraaj and Nihar with each other and then cheated both for kapoor khandan ka chiragHer choice

Dhoni was Lucky to figure this out soon