Most marriages become like Maan

I would like to say that most marriages in india become like Maan or anuj only after few years after couple of kids and 7 to 12 years passing

Like husband is busy in his career wife is busy in taking care of house and kids or her career

They have time for each other only on weekends or festivals or relatives functions to be together

Most couples also stay in loveless and abusive marriage because of society and their family only(like anuj here)

What will neighbors say, relatives say if we separate? We should stay together for our kids. If we separate it may implicate their future and life thats why most couples in india stay in loveless abusive marriages

In this serial anuj kapadiya is prime example he knows anupama does not love him or kapadiyas or even his child CA. Yet hes scared to be lonely again and loves anupama one sided so stays in marriage despite any neglect or abuse by shahs and anupama. Also if anuj now divorces anupam alal will taunt him see this was your great 26 year old love for whom you destroyed your life and your sister Malvika life.

After all he let vanraj abuse Malvika because he wanted anupam only not Malvika or Kapdiya empire. If another man dared do that anuj would have hit him black and blue put few cases and thrown him out of kapadiya empire. He kept quiet and walked ooff as he wanted anupama and not Mlavika or his family like GK kaka. Family and friends will taunt him now if he divorces anupama knowing her true nature now. He is not wrong many people fall in love marry against family wish than divorce after few years. Because a girl friend or boy friend or lover is different from a spouse. You just see good side of lovers not their real side or bad side till you marry. No human shows his true nature to outside world you see till hes married and got a footing in marriage.

Only diff in most indan marriages is that men cheat husband cheat and woman bears silently all life

First time in indian ITV they are showing a woman cheat openly and husband is bearing silently

Now some will say where is anupam acheating on anuj. When anuj just stayed in mumbai in friend house to meet CA and maya all were acting as if he did second wedding. If anupama goes every day to ex hubby house even court will object and grant divorce to anuj as its an offense. You cannot marry one man and keep going to ex hubby house daily saying kids a kids are all adult and married. Even in USA no woman will behave like anupama

Indian audience is used to husband cheating with 2 woman in shows but first time a wife is cheating with 2 men.

Actually anupama never relinquished her position as shah bahu or vanraj wife to kavya at all after marraige to anuj. She still acts like vanraj wife and shah bahu. All this mayka is hog wosh no court or society will accept anupama hog wash that sasural of 26 years suddenly turned mayka. But anupam awants all rights on kapadiya bahu and anuj wife without any responsibility all the riches power wealth and status etc that come to her and shahs

Viewers always feel sorry for wife as they are abused by hubby and cheated. Here we are feeling sorry for anuj but not really.

If you see a woman she never allows her hubby family to take advantage or abuse her family(in this case shahs by anuj)

But men easily allow woman to come and split family or do not care for family or misbehave with family to please a wife (like anuj did to Malvika, GK kaka and ankush) he made them bent and fall at shahs feet to please anupama

How anuj asked Malvika to take Vnaraj back in kapadiya empire? So he gets permission to marry anupama. There only when a brother asks his sister to take back her cheater lover in her company to please his future wife red flags started. No brother even in modern USA will ever tell all this to a sister knowing how vanraj took advantage and used her.

There is a limit even a brother or father or mother too cannot cross with a girl which anuj crossed with Malvika for anupama before wedding only. Malvika is not only anuj sister she is a woman and no one can ask from a woman such things to take back their abusers or cheater lover back in company etc

Second limit anuj crossed was asking ankush/barkha to ask sorry to shahs in front of all guests. Vanraj and baa and toshu have croosed more limit with kapadiyas and GK kak and Malvika. Did anuj ever ask vanraj to kneel and say sorry to Malvika or baa to GK kaka or to ankush for all abuses misbehaviur cheating they did never. So why Malvika, ankush should bend to Shahs to please anupama and anuj.

Anuj is so obsessed with anupama that he can cross all limts of decency with his sister or brother to please her and shahs. Thats very danger for anuj family members.

We talk of adhik or barkha greed or Malati greed etc but anuj himself is harmful for life of CA, Mlavika, GK kaka, ankush and may be Sara too if she was here. That no one says or talks.

Just because Malvika was a kid when her parents died and her dad did not leave any will may be giving her 50% shares in kapadiyas anuj has become like full owner and bossing over all kapadiyas and ordering them to do things that no family member will tell another family member to do to please anupama and shahs

I would also add that 95% men will not bend like anuj to wife be it india or USA. No matter how much they please wife or love them no man will fall to anuj standards to please wife or her mayka. All know their limits and will safegaurd brother, sister, neice, nephew from alpha wife and alpha wife family

Sorrt to say anupama is the alpha in relationship and wearing the pants in kapadiya house

This was the journey of a woman who was dragged out by an abuser's husband from her own home and is now allowing the same fate to her current husband to be dragged out by that MAN.MAAN IS OVER. Atleast the romance prt. Anu killd anujs spirit by beleiving,aligning with V treatng A as outsider in so calld maa pita ki ladai. She came bak 2 Anuj whn needd. A-A r same. He luvd her fr 26 yrs cld nt move on. She luvd V & can nevr sever her ties with V

Anupama’s character is totally selfish. She only shows concerns for others when it’s convenience for her.Does she NOT realise her unhappiness leads to Anuj/CA being unhappy?DKP is unhappiness the price MaAn have to pay for caring and being kind: seems uneven balancing of scales to moi